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viewing but no contact - 11/11/2008 3:45:54 PM   
LushLadyLilith


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Status: offline 		Why would someone view a profil;e repeatedly over a number of months but never write?

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RE: viewing but no contact - 11/11/2008 3:47:36 PM   
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Status: offline 		Most of the time, its either they really like the photos or the lack the guts to make contact and will wait on you t do so

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RE: viewing but no contact - 11/11/2008 3:48:07 PM   
hopelessfool


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Status: offline 		Your a Cm Addict and they see you all the time, you have a similar name to omsone they like, they are out to drive you crazy, they want to write and every time they sit down to do so they review your profile, but are called away. they masturbate to your picture, putting their jizz on the screen all over your face... they are shy...

pick a reason.


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RE: viewing but no contact - 11/11/2008 3:49:24 PM   
persephonee


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Status: offline 		ew....i was gonna ask...but now i dont really want to know....ew ew ew.....
Really??

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RE: viewing but no contact - 11/11/2008 3:51:38 PM   
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RE: viewing but no contact - 11/11/2008 3:55:17 PM   
theobserver


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Status: offline 		Maybe they are admiring from afar. They could be shy or by something written in the profile, feel unsure what kind of response (if any) would be returned if they did write.

I look at some profiles repeatedly, but don't write them, mainly to read journals(which for some reason I do not see subscribe buttons) or if I forget something about them, I can go back and refresh my memory.

Then, of course there's the ogle factor. If it's a hot guy, it wouldn't hurt to have a look now and then.




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RE: viewing but no contact - 11/11/2008 4:01:19 PM   
Jeptha


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quote:

ORIGINAL: hopelessfool

Your a Cm Addict and they see you all the time, you have a similar name to omsone they like, they are out to drive you crazy, they want to write and every time they sit down to do so they review your profile, but are called away. they masturbate to your picture, putting their jizz on the screen all over your face... they are shy...

pick a reason.

Almost undoubtedly it is so they can spray all over your face.
Either that or to read your blog, if you have one.
Or to see if you've made any changes in general because they find you interesting for one reason or another.

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RE: viewing but no contact - 11/11/2008 4:03:54 PM   
thishereboi


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Status: offline 		I look at profiles for different reasons, but 90% of the time, it is because I have read a post of theirs. And I want to see who is posting.

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RE: viewing but no contact - 11/11/2008 4:07:35 PM   
persephonee


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Status: offline 		im not a hot guy...but still feel obligated to mention that you havent ogled me yet....
persephonee....on cm.....

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RE: viewing but no contact - 11/11/2008 4:08:50 PM   
monywildcat


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Status: offline 		Why not send them and email and ask?  The worst is that they only perved your profile to spooge on your face. lol (oh ew ew ew I said "spooged!")

I see that, I always wonder who that person is, why they viewed me, and why won't they drop me a line?  If I see them often enough, I will initiate contact.  And I try to make a point to send a message if I view someone, so they know why I am on their Who Viewed Me list.  But then, I am a curious sort, and will try and figure out any mystery, big or small.

Edited to add: persephonee, in addition to having a really cool nic, consider yourself ogled.  You are welcome. 

< Message edited by monywildcat -- 11/11/2008 4:11:33 PM >

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RE: viewing but no contact - 11/11/2008 4:09:10 PM   
thishereboi


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quote:

ORIGINAL: persephonee

im not a hot guy...but still feel obligated to mention that you havent ogled me yet....
persephonee....on cm.....


Your right, I don't think I have. At least I don't remember the pic and I rarely forget a beautiful women.

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RE: viewing but no contact - 11/11/2008 4:14:04 PM   
WinsomeDefiance


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Status: offline 		I look at profiles because they posted something I found interesting or insightful, or because someone wrote me, or because their picture caught my interest on my perveview.  I perv Lady Habiscus a lot, because she's HOT and I enjoy her posts. 

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RE: viewing but no contact - 11/11/2008 4:48:31 PM   
DesFIP


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Status: offline 		I live in a semirural area and every so often I get curious as to who else lives around here. But I don't remember the profiles I looked at a couple of months back so I look at them again. It's really just curiousity if there's anyone I actually know.

One of them, who takes himself way too seriously, wrote me demanding to know why I dared view his profile since I'm collared. Was just a little sarcastic in my reply. He doesn't want to  be viewed, he shouldn't be here.

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RE: viewing but no contact - 11/11/2008 4:57:39 PM   
RumpusParable


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quote:

ORIGINAL: LushLadyLilith

Why would someone view a profil;e repeatedly over a number of months but never write?

LILITH


Lots of reasons... The first that comes to mind, since I found I've done it, is looking again because you can't quite remember if you've looked at it before until you actually view it -or if you've just read the name.

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RE: viewing but no contact - 11/11/2008 5:00:55 PM   
Usako


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Status: offline 		As said earlier, why not write them and ask.

Perhaps they're too shy and think if you catch them looking at you then you'll make first contact. Perhaps they are just a fan and want to read your whole profile or your journal. Who knows, lots of reasons. I know one person who added me on their admire list but didn't message me for like...two months. Turned out to be an a-ok person, just shy I imagine.

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RE: viewing but no contact - 11/11/2008 5:04:18 PM   
tsatske


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From: Louisville, KY
Status: offline 		I peruse enough profiles that I don't always remeber - the top reasons for perving someone are:
I read something by them in the forums
They were the featured profile on my home page
They wrote to me (this does not apply here, because I always write back to everyone, unless and until they earn a block - in which case i may or may not actually bother to block them, but i do feel free to stop writing at that point)

Not everyone that I view for the first two reasons am I going to bother to write - but if they wrote me, I would of course write back.

I also have a small number of people favorited specifically to read their journal - and some of them i have never written, i just read the journal.

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RE: viewing but no contact - 11/11/2008 5:10:04 PM   
beargonewild


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Status: offline 		My first guess is they may be too nervous to drop a note or maybe they don't know what to write as a way of introduction thus they simply look at the profile. 

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RE: viewing but no contact - 11/11/2008 5:30:39 PM   
DavanKael


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quote:

ORIGINAL: hopelessfool

... they masturbate to your picture, putting their jizz on the screen all over your face...



I just replied to another thread about why one might choose not to post a photo.  You just helped me add to my list of reasons not to post one: only people I'm in  relationships with get to put jizz on my face, lol!  :> 

< shrugs > about the OP question.  Happens sometimes. 
  Davan

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RE: viewing but no contact - 11/11/2008 5:39:40 PM   
LadyHibiscus


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quote:

ORIGINAL: WinsomeDefiance

I look at profiles because they posted something I found interesting or insightful, or because someone wrote me, or because their picture caught my interest on my perveview.  I perv Lady Habiscus a lot, because she's HOT and I enjoy her posts. 

WinD


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I perv my friends, just to see if they have new pics or journal entries.  I perv interesting posters, to see what they have to say about themselves, or see what they look like.  I have a regular crew of folks who look at my pictures, that's why I have them up there!  Most folks on CM will never meet me in real life, if they want to lick the screen, who am I to stop them?

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RE: viewing but no contact - 11/11/2008 6:06:45 PM   
hopelessfool


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quote:

ORIGINAL: DavanKael

quote:

ORIGINAL: hopelessfool

... they masturbate to your picture, putting their jizz on the screen all over your face...



I just replied to another thread about why one might choose not to post a photo.  You just helped me add to my list of reasons not to post one: only people I'm in  relationships with get to put jizz on my face, lol!  :> 

< shrugs > about the OP question.  Happens sometimes. 
Davan


I always had the strange thought you were male... But ... well Sorry ^_^;;


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