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RE: Sold !! - 11/20/2008 3:18:30 AM   
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It's one thing to be able to *serve* someone that you don't have an emotional connection to; people do that all the time. It's different to sign up for serving someone *sight unseen* for two years or more. It could even be a kick to have to *serve* a complete wanker but the reality of being coupled to someone that repulses you, for a significant amount of time, is usually something that people spend their time escaping from. And that's the face of reality versus the fantasy.

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RE: Sold !! - 11/20/2008 4:42:03 AM   
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while thi type of thing DOES go on all over the world,usually though the person isnt contacted,just taken and thats it,there are people who do buy willing people and do set it up like she described,its been known to work very well for those inclined to participate...there is always risks when entering this type of scenario,for you never know what the servitude will be like....

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RE: Sold !! - 11/20/2008 5:34:32 AM   
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This is one risk I would never take, but that is me. I am way to picky to do so and know that about me.

The concept of being sold just is not a fantasy of mine.

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RE: Sold !! - 11/20/2008 5:40:54 AM   
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I have a thought or actually a question......If you sign a lifetime contract and 1/2 the money is put into a bank account until your service is ended, how are you going to spend it? Can't take it with you.

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RE: Sold !! - 11/20/2008 5:42:43 AM   
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It's definitely a novel for me.  D'ya know how many bodice rippers there are with this very fantasy in it?  A young lass from the streets sold into slavery but falls in love with the incredibly handsome, charming shiek who then falls in love with her.  Or she's then rescued and hidden away by some nobleman.  Or she's wealthy and sold and learns what living not spoiled is like.  She's cleaned and washed and waxed by other nubile slavegirls who are jealous because she's the new one - usually blonde too.  lol

Jeez, can you tell what I read in my teens? 

Cool image - reality being that it's probably a sweaty, fat, disgusting smelly owner I'd wind up with, living out my days in prostitution.  No thanks.  lol  But I can totally get the appeal of it - objectification at its best, I'd think.  But that would wear old soon. 

Reality bites sometimes. 

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RE: Sold !! - 11/20/2008 6:28:07 AM   
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Master X enters the room that I'm occupying , busily scrubbing the piece of floor where he missed the piss-bucket, and signalled me to crawl across to him and kneel before him. He proceeded to open his fly and flop out his enormous, saggy, wart ridden bollocks and gestured for me to begin licking them clean from his encounter with another slave earlier that day. I  did so as I held my breath and controlled my dry heaves from the scent eminating from his scrunched and smeg ridden foreskin.
Moments later, with a stumpy, half erection he moved behind me, lifted my work-a-day skirt and mounted me which , thankfully, I could barely feel while I fixed my gaze on the piece of unscrubbed floor that I would have to attend to when he'd finished unloading his sperm.
I thanked him for his attentions and crawled back to my task as I was dismissed by the closing of the door. I glanced down at my calloused knees and the redness surrounding the dry areas of hard skin and dipped my cracked, swollen hands back into the cold water to find the scrubbing brush.

Yum yum.

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RE: Sold !! - 11/20/2008 6:43:46 AM   
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Change "Sold!!" to 'slave' and I spent a considerable amount of time with those claiming it was their "fantasy". As in the case of "sold" when reality sets in, that doesn't meet the expectations of a Harlequin novel - the fantasy sours fast.

Most with these fantasies have never seen or met a 'slave' let alone appreciate what's involved in being one - sold or volunteered. It doesn't mean doing what is in your fantasy - if means doing what your owner says, all the time, in real time. In other words it means reality. Very few want that reality or would live it 24/7.

That's not to say the other side of the flogger is any different. "Ownership" is a full time commitment equal to the commitment of the slave. Just as few want that 24/7 responsibility.

Sure - it was always FUN for a day, a weekend, an extended 10 day 'experiment'; but its been my real life, real time experience to hear; "You really want to do this ALL the time!? Wow - I can't/won't!" Now I happen to believe and find it necessary for there to be an emotional and mental connection, but that is not required and I acknowledge that there are many very successful and happy Master/slave relationships where emotions and a mental connection do not play a part in the dynamic. I can see a case made for an emotional connection being a hindrance, but that preference and determination is up to the 'Owner'. Entering into that 'sold' status as a 'slave' is that part of the 'fantasy' over a long period of time and without hope that the condition will change and the 'evil' 'cruel' Owner will come to love his 'pet'? That very well could be the first idea beaten out of you as an 'owned slave'. Remember, committing to be sold it's not up to you who buys you - your new 'Owner' determines the dynamic. Unless of course, this fantasy requires a written contract controlling what can, and can't be done; however in that case its more a 'conditional lease'.

I've often said that beth has never been more 'free' in her 'slavery'. (Taken in the context of lifestyle slavery and NOT to be confused with the #1 definition that involves fundamental non-consent'.) However, even at the OP's top end or any dollar amount of 'insurance'; how many would live the "sold into slavery" life knowing some of what will be required such as:
  • Limited family contact
  • Job/career limitations
  • No control over finances
  • Relocation
  • Food/Drink restrictions
  • Speech restrictions
  • Clothing restrictions
  • Public exposure
  • 24/7 Personal Service to the Owner, or whoever he/she designates
  • 24/7 Sexual Service to the Owner, or whoever he/she designates
  • Body Modification
  • Daily work tasks
  • Fulfillment of the Owner's fantasies
  • No Limits
  • No Safe-word
  • No time limit



Now there is no representation of any 'standard' being presented here - just an attempt to add a little reality into the fantasy; and a little advice from a person who did seek and had too many failures to be considered an 'expert' even with consideration to my current self defined 'success'. You better know, and I mean know intimately, the partner coming to you representing whatever 'ideal fantasy' you have in mind. Trust is critical and must be reciprocal without compromise, and without any room for compromise down the road. Good luck finding that.
Do you live that list?


Yes - Well in actuality it is beth who has lived by that list for nearly six years. I have the easy part - I enforce the list and live by the responsibilities 'ownership' implies.

Edited to Add: beth wanted to add that she thinks her part is 'easy' too! Guess that's why it 'works' so well between us!

As I said to her when our 'Life Rules', fleshed out in great detail and presented as one of those "worthless" "unenforceable" "meaningless" pieces of paper (albeit fine linen paper with each page watermarked with our pictures); if was the last decision she would make. she made it. she lives it. I'm responsible for the practical and pragmatic over-site.

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RE: Sold !! - 11/20/2008 7:44:32 AM   
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I have a thought or actually a question......If you sign a lifetime contract and 1/2 the money is put into a bank account until your service is ended, how are you going to spend it? Can't take it with you.


Lol i hadn't thought of that. However i would never even consider a lifetime contract.

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RE: Sold !! - 11/20/2008 7:48:11 AM   
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ORIGINAL: agirl

Master X enters the room that I'm occupying , busily scrubbing the piece of floor where he missed the piss-bucket, and signalled me to crawl across to him and kneel before him. He proceeded to open his fly and flop out his enormous, saggy, wart ridden bollocks and gestured for me to begin licking them clean from his encounter with another slave earlier that day. I  did so as I held my breath and controlled my dry heaves from the scent eminating from his scrunched and smeg ridden foreskin.
Moments later, with a stumpy, half erection he moved behind me, lifted my work-a-day skirt and mounted me which , thankfully, I could barely feel while I fixed my gaze on the piece of unscrubbed floor that I would have to attend to when he'd finished unloading his sperm.
I thanked him for his attentions and crawled back to my task as I was dismissed by the closing of the door. I glanced down at my calloused knees and the redness surrounding the dry areas of hard skin and dipped my cracked, swollen hands back into the cold water to find the scrubbing brush.

Yum yum.

agirl







Ok i get the picture that you have no interest in being sold, the fantasy or otherwise. But do you really have to pull someone elses fantasy apart in such a crass way?

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RE: Sold !! - 11/20/2008 8:11:40 AM   
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Missturbation said:
But do you really have to pull someone elses fantasy apart in such a crass way?

OK, now I'm officially confused.  Are we talking fantasy or reality here?  I had understood this thread was about the reality of being sold into slavery. In that context, I thought agirl's response was fair enough.  I agree if it's fantasy though...  a LOT of fantasies are going to be pretty ugly in real life which is why they stay fantasies.

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RE: Sold !! - 11/20/2008 8:13:00 AM   
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Hmmmm....I saw agirl's post as humor.

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RE: Sold !! - 11/20/2008 8:30:58 AM   
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I was just curious. I thought you did. I'm fairly close to all of those things as well but without the sharing. I don't restrict the family as long as it doesn't become an issue. Anyhow..back to the thread. *waves to beth*

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RE: Sold !! - 11/20/2008 8:32:14 AM   
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I have read similar stories like this  idea but  tends to be a scam way of doing real life human trafficking  and the girls that get purchased end up being used for prostitution   by the person they are bought by and the contract period  and money in the bank for when they are done is just a sham.. you  remain their prostitute until  they are ready to dispose of you or  until you can escape.  

Actually there is one youtube video  where the police are interviewing   a  girl ...that tells a story  is very much like this in how she got tricked into becoming a pimped out  prostitute ..


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RE: Sold !! - 11/20/2008 8:32:21 AM   
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ORIGINAL: agirl

Master X enters the room that I'm occupying , busily scrubbing the piece of floor where he missed the piss-bucket, and signalled me to crawl across to him and kneel before him. He proceeded to open his fly and flop out his enormous, saggy, wart ridden bollocks and gestured for me to begin licking them clean from his encounter with another slave earlier that day. I  did so as I held my breath and controlled my dry heaves from the scent eminating from his scrunched and smeg ridden foreskin.
Moments later, with a stumpy, half erection he moved behind me, lifted my work-a-day skirt and mounted me which , thankfully, I could barely feel while I fixed my gaze on the piece of unscrubbed floor that I would have to attend to when he'd finished unloading his sperm.
I thanked him for his attentions and crawled back to my task as I was dismissed by the closing of the door. I glanced down at my calloused knees and the redness surrounding the dry areas of hard skin and dipped my cracked, swollen hands back into the cold water to find the scrubbing brush.

Yum yum.

agirl







that was an interesting bit of fantasy porn, but I am not sure how it fits into the thread?

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RE: Sold !! - 11/20/2008 8:33:57 AM   
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ORIGINAL: agirl

Master X enters the room that I'm occupying , busily scrubbing the piece of floor where he missed the piss-bucket, and signalled me to crawl across to him and kneel before him. He proceeded to open his fly and flop out his enormous, saggy, wart ridden bollocks and gestured for me to begin licking them clean from his encounter with another slave earlier that day. I  did so as I held my breath and controlled my dry heaves from the scent eminating from his scrunched and smeg ridden foreskin.
Moments later, with a stumpy, half erection he moved behind me, lifted my work-a-day skirt and mounted me which , thankfully, I could barely feel while I fixed my gaze on the piece of unscrubbed floor that I would have to attend to when he'd finished unloading his sperm.
I thanked him for his attentions and crawled back to my task as I was dismissed by the closing of the door. I glanced down at my calloused knees and the redness surrounding the dry areas of hard skin and dipped my cracked, swollen hands back into the cold water to find the scrubbing brush.

Yum yum.

agirl






That sounds hot. You single?


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RE: Sold !! - 11/20/2008 8:34:52 AM   
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I have a thought or actually a question......If you sign a lifetime contract and 1/2 the money is put into a bank account until your service is ended, how are you going to spend it? Can't take it with you.


Lol i hadn't thought of that. However i would never even consider a lifetime contract.


I would, but only if you could guarantee that Lucy Lawless would win the bid.

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RE: Sold !! - 11/20/2008 8:35:16 AM   
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Master X enters the room that I'm occupying , busily scrubbing the piece of floor where he missed the piss-bucket, and signalled me to crawl across to him and kneel before him. He proceeded to open his fly and flop out his enormous, saggy, wart ridden bollocks and gestured for me to begin licking them clean from his encounter with another slave earlier that day. I  did so as I held my breath and controlled my dry heaves from the scent eminating from his scrunched and smeg ridden foreskin.
Moments later, with a stumpy, half erection he moved behind me, lifted my work-a-day skirt and mounted me which , thankfully, I could barely feel while I fixed my gaze on the piece of unscrubbed floor that I would have to attend to when he'd finished unloading his sperm.
I thanked him for his attentions and crawled back to my task as I was dismissed by the closing of the door. I glanced down at my calloused knees and the redness surrounding the dry areas of hard skin and dipped my cracked, swollen hands back into the cold water to find the scrubbing brush.

Yum yum.

agirl







that was an interesting bit of fantasy porn, but I am not sure how it fits into the thread?

that could have been her way to make a crack at this fantasy or maybe she was just trying to be humorous.


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RE: Sold !! - 11/20/2008 8:35:31 AM   
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ORIGINAL: agirl

Master X enters the room that I'm occupying , busily scrubbing the piece of floor where he missed the piss-bucket, and signalled me to crawl across to him and kneel before him. He proceeded to open his fly and flop out his enormous, saggy, wart ridden bollocks and gestured for me to begin licking them clean from his encounter with another slave earlier that day. I  did so as I held my breath and controlled my dry heaves from the scent eminating from his scrunched and smeg ridden foreskin.
Moments later, with a stumpy, half erection he moved behind me, lifted my work-a-day skirt and mounted me which , thankfully, I could barely feel while I fixed my gaze on the piece of unscrubbed floor that I would have to attend to when he'd finished unloading his sperm.
I thanked him for his attentions and crawled back to my task as I was dismissed by the closing of the door. I glanced down at my calloused knees and the redness surrounding the dry areas of hard skin and dipped my cracked, swollen hands back into the cold water to find the scrubbing brush.

Yum yum.

agirl







that was an interesting bit of fantasy porn, but I am not sure how it fits into the thread?


Wow. As I said before I saw it as humor. However, it does fit into this thread because it is certainly a depiction of how such an arrangement COULD turn out....and just as likely a one as being sold into slavery and having your new Master turn out to be your Prince Charming and living happily ever after.

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RE: Sold !! - 11/20/2008 8:37:07 AM   
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Hmmmm....I saw agirl's post as humor.


See, missturbation saw it as rippin on her fantasy and you saw it as humor....I thought she was just sharing an evening with her master. I guess we won't know unless girl comes back and tell us.

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RE: Sold !! - 11/20/2008 8:38:24 AM   
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Master X enters the room that I'm occupying , busily scrubbing the piece of floor where he missed the piss-bucket, and signalled me to crawl across to him and kneel before him. He proceeded to open his fly and flop out his enormous, saggy, wart ridden bollocks and gestured for me to begin licking them clean from his encounter with another slave earlier that day. I  did so as I held my breath and controlled my dry heaves from the scent eminating from his scrunched and smeg ridden foreskin.
Moments later, with a stumpy, half erection he moved behind me, lifted my work-a-day skirt and mounted me which , thankfully, I could barely feel while I fixed my gaze on the piece of unscrubbed floor that I would have to attend to when he'd finished unloading his sperm.
I thanked him for his attentions and crawled back to my task as I was dismissed by the closing of the door. I glanced down at my calloused knees and the redness surrounding the dry areas of hard skin and dipped my cracked, swollen hands back into the cold water to find the scrubbing brush.

Yum yum.

agirl






That sounds hot. You single?



Read her profile...her curent owners are about to retire and she is looking. Maybe you just got lucky.

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