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RE: Sold !! - 11/20/2008 5:07:17 PM

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...I glanced down at my calloused knees and the redness surrounding the dry areas of hard skin and dipped my cracked, swollen hands back into the cold water to find the scrubbing brush.

what is so drastic about that? I get that all the time and I am single but thorough. It is called housework lol. Twice a year I wash all my walls with a strong solution of pine-sol (no gloves, because my hands sweat in them and I hate the hot hands or feet). Oh, as Sarah Palin would say...you betcha my hands hurt for a few days...stingin' red but glad for the clean walls. I cream them up, and they are fine in a few more days...life goes on. No one jumps for joy or brings me a big parade for doing it...it hurt but it sure felt good. No guy in leather chaps to tell me 'good girl' as he sniffs and feeds me grapes.

Why does anyone who disses a slave mentality or her actions assume that we think that another is being a lesser-human by becoming a slave and that a submissive needs to be pampered thereby using sissy cleaning gloves?

Pain in all forms comes with the territory, not just whips and chains because 'you' ok it and like it. Sometimes it is the simple things that hurt. Not hurt for fun or enjoyment for either party, just plain hurt--a sacrifice (akin to a Master having to sit in traffic 3 hours to make it to work that day and pay for the roof over your head).

If you expect Polmolive 'you are soaking in it Marge' soft hands, then stick to what you agree with and to (limits and safewords). If not, then leave those that possibly find hard grudging work agreeable as service oriented to their enjoyment (no matter how unfitting and unstable it may seem to you).

Even a hideous man can be serviced. Look around, lol. Not all men are an Adonis as far as I have seen yet some find what suits them for the time being.

Perhaps being in such service is being able to look beyond the entire big picture and keep it so simple in nature that a slave's happiness isn't priority, it is the altruistic actions and their eventual thought processes themselves that are the pure beauty.

<tugs at her ear and sings....I'm so glad we had this timeeeee..togetherrrrrrr

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RE: Sold !! - 11/20/2008 5:24:20 PM

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idunno...im more worried about the smegma....couldnt he have at least been free of the cheese?....otherwise....very hawt.

Duly noted.....lol

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RE: Sold !! - 11/20/2008 7:14:49 PM

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You know... I was good until I googled Smegma... thanks guys...

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RE: Sold !! - 11/20/2008 7:46:59 PM

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*Smegma* I just had to know, didn't I.

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RE: Sold !! - 11/20/2008 7:49:29 PM

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I avoided this thread, simply because I saw the word smegma. After all the vomit, hairballs, farts, smegma and stench references,

I'm afraid I'll never look at so much as a summer sausage the same again. Hopefully this weekend, He will turn me back into being a proper little cockslut.

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RE: Sold !! - 11/21/2008 12:48:27 AM

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i don't see why anyone would need someone else to "sell" them into slavery. Why not just offer yourself as being available to become another's slave, for however long and under whatever conditions you choose?

You raise a good point. In some cases, such as yours, there is no real "advantage" to doing so.
In some cases, being sold is the crux of a fantasy, and thus is in itself a reward.

The best "case" for this, however, that I am personally aware of was a private group I once knew. Slaves were members of this group, and sold only to other members of the group. The group took care of a variety of important details. For example, they handled the money, ensuring the slave was insured as stipulated, that they did get the funds due at the end of their contract, and that various other rules were observed. This included situations where if a slave failed to perform as they agreed, money was refunded. If the slave could not complete the contract for some other reason (such as illness for example), there would be a pro-rated refund. The group, in essence, attempted to protect the "rights" of all parties involved... keep everyone honest as it were. It worked for them.

They did not do lifetime contracts, btw. If a slave found someone they wanted to be with long term, that was entirely a private arrangement with no money or auction involved.

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RE: Sold !! - 11/21/2008 4:35:52 AM

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ORIGINAL: Padriag

In some cases, being sold is the crux of a fantasy, and thus is in itself a reward.

Yes, i understand that but, as i said:

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real life has a way of turning fantasies into nightmares or, at the very least, huge disappointments.

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ORIGINAL: Padriag
If a slave found someone they wanted to be with long term, that was entirely a private arrangement with no money or auction involved.

So, for anything more than just the thrill of experiencing the short-term fantasy of "being sold", a slave arranging for their real life slavery themself, rather than letting someone else sell them into slavery seems to be the most practical and reasonable approach.

There have been plenty of "slave auctions" for the purpose of raising money for various causes and those seem to work well. Money is raised and the fantasy of "being sold" is experienced. But, to agree to let someone sell you into slavery, where the only money being raised is going into the seller's pocket, just doesn't make sense to me.

Edited to add: i have to say that i got very lucky with my first attempt to find a Master. And, if i hadn't been so fortunate, i would have considered letting someone else "sell" me, rather than spend a lot of time getting frustrated trying to do the search myself. In that case, i would have looked at the seller as more of a matchmaker, finding a Master and situation that would make for a good fit for me and for the Master.

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RE: Sold !! - 11/21/2008 4:37:57 AM

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Recently i had a really interesting cmail. It was from a Dominant who claims he runs a 'slave ring'. He was basically saying he thought i had what it took to be put on the block and sold and would i like the chance.

Being sold into slavery is a big 'fantasy' of mine. Bare in mind that i class a fantasy as something i would not / could not do. But still curiosity got the better of me and i asked for more details.

He came back to me with a few options. I could take a lifetime contract or two to five years with options to renew. Half the money i was sold for would be placed into my bank account for when my service ended.

Training wise i could be assessed and sold with the skills i already have. I could be trained by the Dom who had contacted me to raise my value, or i could be sold and then go back to the Dom who had sold me for specific training requested by my purchaser.

Considering what i said earlier about it being a fantasy and not possible for me i let the conversation end there. Truthfully if i did not have a UM who i would not be able to just leave behind, i would have considered being sold a lot more seriously by now.

I have some swamp land in Florida, if you'd like to buy it...

Oh, and I'm stuck in Africa for a missionary post and they have no banks here where I can cash this $50,000 postal order. If you send me a $1000 so I know that you are for real, I'll give you the $50,000 just so I can get back home!

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RE: Sold !! - 11/21/2008 5:12:57 AM

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This is one of the hot of hell fantasy notions that crashes and burns after I cum from jacking off about it. It's simply a matter of cumming to find reality.

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RE: Sold !! - 11/21/2008 5:15:34 AM

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ORIGINAL: WinsomeDefiance

I avoided this thread, simply because I saw the word smegma. After all the vomit, hairballs, farts, smegma and stench references, I'm afraid I'll never look at so much as a summer sausage the same again. Hopefully this weekend, He will turn me back into being a proper little cockslut.

Winnie...if he cant do it, i have some people for you to call....tis ok baby...youll be back on your knees and drooling in no time.

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RE: Sold !! - 11/21/2008 9:12:39 AM

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Geez I wish I had seen this pages earlier...I skimmed now because my eyes are killing me.

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In actual fact as most people know i'm not really that into emotional connection anyways.

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I get that! and I am sure many don't understand it.

Service is not about romance (to me at least) or emotional connection nonsense. Some people (not sure if that is how you feel) just enjoy being in their own state of mind even through misery. I know I do. Having things around me that make my life easier and that pamper me only hinders me. Hard to explain.

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i don't see why anyone would need someone else to "sell" them into slavery. Why not just offer yourself as being available to become another's slave, for however long and under whatever conditions you choose? That's what i did and i found what i was looking for. Oh, sure, i guess it's not as exciting as the "being sold into slavery" fantasy but, then again, real life has a way of turning fantasies into nightmares or, at the very least, huge disappointments.

Good idea.

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