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RE: Face Slapping . Do you like it - 11/22/2008 12:55:20 PM

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its actually something i have come to dislike, i think it s humiliating myself but thats what this forum is for and im impressed so far with the enthusiastic responses
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RE: Face Slapping . Do you like it - 11/22/2008 12:57:28 PM

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I feel like I’ve had this conversation a lot lately. I detest the premise of face slapping – to me it just feels too totally disrespectful. My Master would never want to take the chance of leaving a mark there or causing other types of damage so it’s not something we do as part of play, or really in general for that matter. I think it can be pretty powerful and because he knows I hate it he will not hesitate to slap me if he feels the need to put me in my place or affirm he’s serious.

He did slap me once when we were playing; it went from lighthearted to him being in a serious Dominant mood – I didn’t really pick up on his other cues and was still trying to squirm away – a quick medium slap to my face quickly put me into slave mode. Just enough to let me know a change in my behavior was necessary and he was serious.

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RE: Face Slapping . Do you like it - 11/22/2008 1:00:46 PM

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It's hot as hell to slap her face, but what makes it meaningful is to have her kiss me back.

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RE: Face Slapping . Do you like it - 11/22/2008 1:04:40 PM

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I really do not care for face slapping. Not sure exactly why. I guess because I find nothing erotic or sexy about it. I enjoy spanking, hair pulling, flogging. Now that I think about it I find it rather funny I do not like face slapping.

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RE: Face Slapping . Do you like it - 11/22/2008 1:38:34 PM

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I personally like it...alot...that being said, i will add i don't want to be slapped into next week either!
I have to trust the person doing it also, and i've never been slapped in anger, i think experiencing it coming from that emotion would put me in fight or flight mode.......But when it's done right...oh my..it's startling, and puts me right into a lovely headspace.....

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RE: Face Slapping . Do you like it - 11/22/2008 2:14:55 PM

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Yes, please! lol

The face is the one sacred place left on a human body, in general. Especially in the younger generation. You get your ass slapped by someone in a group of your friends, whatever, you laugh it off. People touch all the time, and touching is for the most part okay. Even in ways and areas that used to be completely tabboo. But faces are still scared. One of the quickest ways to enrage most people, especially most strangers, is to hit them in the face. Likewise, one of the quickest ways to melt someone you're intimate with is to gently touch their face.

So it's an incredibly intense situation, and I love that intensity. It brings me back into focus and turns me on tremendously. But on the other side of the coin if it comes from someone I don't know well, and especially from a stranger, it flips another switch entirely and I see red. Within the D/s context, though, coming from my partner.... Yum.

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RE: Face Slapping . Do you like it - 11/22/2008 2:20:43 PM

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Yes, I do like to have my face slapped.

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RE: Face Slapping . Do you like it - 11/22/2008 2:40:40 PM

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no, this slave doesn't like it.

she was trained at an early age to "take it"...stand still and take a face slap as punishment without showing any emotion or reaction.

a slap to this slave's face will guarantee to send her to that same place of immediate shutdown of all emotions and reactions.

pavlov and all that, if you will.

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RE: Face Slapping . Do you like it - 11/22/2008 2:43:46 PM

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No no no. It fires up my cockles, but not in a good way. You'd probably get a kick in the balls, lol. Sorry, but that's the way it is, it's an absolute hard limit.

I'm agreeing with wind. I would never do it - and anybody that did it to me would require medical attention.

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RE: Face Slapping . Do you like it - 11/22/2008 2:46:43 PM

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It's a hard limit. I don't have bail money for myself for the attempted manslaughter charges that would result from what happened after the slap.

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RE: Face Slapping . Do you like it - 11/22/2008 2:50:51 PM

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I have only been slapped in the face once, I admit I deserved it, but it put me into such shock and humiliation that I have to say I'd rather avoid it.

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RE: Face Slapping . Do you like it - 11/22/2008 2:57:22 PM

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Master doesnt really slap...Its more of a pop in the cheek really. Usually, its used when I get a bit too mouthy, or, to gain my attention when I am too unfocused on him. On the other hand, he has slapped when we were playing around. So, its a toss up of the surroundings, his mood, and what I am doing.

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RE: Face Slapping . Do you like it - 11/22/2008 3:02:08 PM

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It's a hard limit. I don't have bail money for myself for the attempted manslaughter charges that would result from what happened after the slap.

Cali

Wow you're so cool and violent!

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RE: Face Slapping . Do you like it - 11/22/2008 3:05:29 PM

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Only 'attempted' she wasn't trying hard enough.

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RE: Face Slapping . Do you like it - 11/22/2008 3:05:54 PM

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And I have a flair for understatement.

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RE: Face Slapping . Do you like it - 11/22/2008 3:22:21 PM

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I used to respond...um...extremely favorably to it. I'm not sure how I would respond to it now.

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RE: Face Slapping . Do you like it - 11/22/2008 3:27:45 PM

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i don't like it

Daddy doesn't do it

extreme hard limit for the both of us

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RE: Face Slapping . Do you like it - 11/22/2008 3:40:07 PM

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I think I'd like it, though definitely.. it would depend on the "trust" factor
And having had my jaw badly fratured / wired and bolted (so's to speak ) back together,
I doubt that I'll be able to experience this without genuine danger of re-fracturing.

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RE: Face Slapping . Do you like it - 11/22/2008 3:51:15 PM

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It's a hard limit. I don't have bail money for myself for the attempted manslaughter charges that would result from what happened after the slap.

Cali

::waving plastic:: rock on, Cali - I've got your back :) (can I bring my camera?)

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RE: Face Slapping . Do you like it - 11/22/2008 3:51:49 PM

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i don't like it

Daddy doesn't do it

extreme hard limit for the both of us

For us as well. I think it goes too close to the line of abuse. Plus the danger of permanent damage to sight/hearing puts this in the hard limit basket.

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