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RE: Face Slapping . Do you like it - 11/24/2008 8:38:46 AM

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I'm from Shropshire and its brass monkey weather here. Anyway, as far as face slapping goes, I love the humiliating aspect of if but it can do a lot of harm so I'd be careful.

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RE: Face Slapping . Do you like it - 11/24/2008 9:16:18 AM

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It is a beautiful form of expression. It brings a closeness. And it's hot.

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RE: Face Slapping . Do you like it - 11/24/2008 9:17:14 AM

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It is a beautiful form of expression. It brings a closeness. And it's hot.

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Best description I've seen on the subject. Yum.

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RE: Face Slapping . Do you like it - 11/24/2008 9:19:53 AM

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Love it...esp when he's methodical about it..and his other hand is wrapped around my throat...

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RE: Face Slapping . Do you like it - 11/24/2008 9:20:52 AM

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I love it when it's delivered in a nice solid way. I can't stand it when a dom takes a swing and the only thing that hits my face is the breeze. A lot of men are skittish about laying one across your face properly.

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RE: Face Slapping . Do you like it - 11/24/2008 11:07:17 AM

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yeay! love it... well I love wrestling her to the ground, pinning her down, sitting on her chest, her arms under my legs and giving her a good slap... the problem is she hits me back and she doesn't have anything between a stroke and knocking my teeth out!

Ahh well... its fun :-)

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RE: Face Slapping . Do you like it - 11/24/2008 11:32:39 AM

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At times I like at times I don't. Really depends on the sub I am playing with. I find I use it most often when oral sex is involved, slapping her face and cock gagging her. So I guess it is a form of humiliation how I use it more then pain infliction.

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RE: Face Slapping . Do you like it - 11/24/2008 5:15:03 PM

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I love it when it's delivered in a nice solid way. I can't stand it when a dom takes a swing and the only thing that hits my face is the breeze. A lot of men are skittish about laying one across your face properly.

acutely stated. might as well feel if if you're gonna go there.

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RE: Face Slapping . Do you like it - 11/24/2008 6:59:54 PM

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I thought I'd hate it. It scares me, so I set it as a hard limit, but then when he did it as play, just kind of gently thudding on my cheek with a cuped hand, it was so hot. He saw my reaction and asked me about it mockingly and soon I was begging for him to slap my face.

It wasn't all that hard, I don't think I would like it that way, but it was hard enough to get my attention and it got us both extremel hot.

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RE: Face Slapping . Do you like it - 11/24/2008 9:11:23 PM

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I do like it. It's hot to me to watch someone getting their face slapped (firmly but not brutally). This weekend, he used his cock to smack my face when he was really aroused and it was HOT HOT HOT

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RE: Face Slapping . Do you like it - 11/24/2008 9:16:54 PM

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Never experienced it as yet..however I can see where (if done right) it can be quite the attention grabber and the surpirse of it would be kinda hot, well at least in my head it is..:0)..the reality versus the fantasy has yet to be felt..but always in play never in anger or punishment..if experienced in anger fashion, said Dominant may have an epiphany of his own to experience..

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RE: Face Slapping . Do you like it - 11/24/2008 9:23:55 PM

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My girl would find a hard smack insulting and unnecessary, and probably rightly so, but being submissive and all she'd accept it if that was my decision. We have played with some light smacks on her cheeks a few times, and she's been hit once a little bit harder when she was being extremely verbally abusive to me.

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My Master would never want to take the chance of leaving a mark there or causing other types of damage... because he knows I hate it he will not hesitate to slap me if he feels the need to put me in my place or affirm he’s serious.

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RE: Face Slapping . Do you like it - 11/28/2008 12:43:36 AM

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I am a masochist and love to be whipped beaten etc but hate having my face slapped, not because of any pain problem but because I know that my Mistress is seriously upset with me.
It first happened when we were in a shopping mall and I had been really stupid or forgetful and in the middle of the busy aisle She turned and slapped my face quite hard, I actually cried from slight embarrassment but mainly because She was so annoyed.
Ever since if, She knows that I will get turned on by Her humiliating me, get a hard-on when whipping me, orgasm whilst receiving serious CBT but cry like a baby if She feels the need to slap my face.

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RE: Face Slapping . Do you like it - 11/28/2008 4:21:32 AM

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So odd, I had my first "bdsm" experience last weekend, it was 36 hours of some of the best sex I've ever had, and we did all kinds of delicious things I've never done before, yet I keep going back to the face slapping. It was very different from what I've read described here. It was during foreplay, while we were wrestling around, kissing and as I was sucking his cock. He slapped my face with his cock, which wasn't new to me and I've always found hot, but he also slapped my face with his cupped hand, softly at first and then harder and harder.

I'm not sure why I keep going back to that in my mind, why it's so hot to me, maybe it has to do with the charge I felt everytime his hand connected with my cheek, and the look in his eyes, the expression on his face, which told me he felt it, too. That's the best explanation I can come up with. Maybe it's because I knew I'd like being spanked, tied-up and humiliated, but was completely resistant to being slapped. Hmm, who knows, but it's lovely to ponder.

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RE: Face Slapping . Do you like it - 11/28/2008 7:50:48 AM

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Breaking a taboo can be highly erotic and striking a woman's face reinforces the ancient dynamic of the more powerful male over the smaller weaker female. Abusive if she can't stop you, invigorating and erotic if she keeps an attorney on retainer and has the power to crush you but submits to whatever use you put her to, even if it striking that beautiful undeserving face. That red handprint on the cheek marking her in a most intimate way as...yours.

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RE: Face Slapping . Do you like it - 11/28/2008 9:00:25 AM

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Hello,

i can't say that i really like it much .

It seems that all the times that i have been slapped in the face by a Mistress that i was in servitude to , it brought instant tears to my face . This i do not quite understand ?

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RE: Face Slapping . Do you like it - 11/28/2008 9:29:43 AM

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Breaking a taboo can be highly erotic and striking a woman's face reinforces the ancient dynamic of the more powerful male over the smaller weaker female. Abusive if she can't stop you, invigorating and erotic if she keeps an attorney on retainer and has the power to crush you but submits to whatever use you put her to, even if it striking that beautiful undeserving face. That red handprint on the cheek marking her in a most intimate way as...yours.

Good explanation, thanks. I think the same must be true of humiliation, psychologically speaking, and begging, too, it all just reinforces the ancient dynamic.

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RE: Face Slapping . Do you like it - 11/28/2008 9:54:01 AM

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For me face slapping is a way of receiving loving treatment. As it is only when a Mistress touches your skin that You feel Her true presence. I do love be slapped, usually I receive these as rewards for doing a long days work. And yes of course I have manners by thanking them after they slap me.

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RE: Face Slapping . Do you like it - 11/28/2008 9:57:21 AM

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yes very much

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RE: Face Slapping . Do you like it - 11/28/2008 5:24:32 PM

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Cool thread. What a fascinatingly wide variation in responses this simple question has evoked!

My two cents: I adore it. I'm instantly soaked when it happens or when I believe it is going to happen. G-spot migrated to the cheek, perhaps?

No, actually, although the sensations are... quite interesting and having to endure pain is thrilling, I think it's the mental and emotional implications of act that arouse me more. My former owner liked long sessions of this. No permanent danmage came from it, as he knew what he was doing, although it's a very tempting excuse to trot out to explain my bad memory to others.

The visuals, immediately afterward and then sometimes later, are also quite arresting.

Conditions? Hmm. Any time, any place, any audience, any strength or duration that he or she wants... My only condition is the generic one I apply to everything I experience: not from just anyone.

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