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RE: Face Slapping . Do you like it - 11/28/2008 7:10:15 PM   
metalmiss


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Status: offline 		i adore face slapping.. It can snap me back to the real world and put me firmly in my place, transport me instantly into the deepest depths of sub space.. Or both simultaneously.

It is a beautiful statement, and has an intensity matched by little else.. If only everything in life was that versatile.

For the record it isn't exactly warm here in London either ~inches closer to the heater~ Its going to be a cold winter.. xx


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RE: Face Slapping . Do you like it - 12/2/2008 2:33:45 PM   
SensibleSam


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Status: offline 		It seems to be generally accepted that slapping the face is different. I'm not sure just why this is.

The first time I ever slapped a sub's face she immediately reacted like I had thrown cold water on her. She accepted and sought whipping everywhere else. She liked to be caned as hard as I could on her ass. Her eyes would roll up in her head and she would purr. Then just one face slap and she came down fast.

A couple subs later I tried to train one to accept 'normal' ass beating as a source of mutual pleasure. I told her I would slap her face to punish her if she displeased me. Alas after a while she grew to enjoy being slapped. I tried this same distinction on a couple others. Again they came to like being slapped. I also tried to define caning of the nipples as the 'special' activity that indicated my displeasure. That too didn't utimately work. The girls would still jump when I cropped or caned their nipples but it was clear that they had grown to like it.

I think women perceive a face slap as different from other forms of stimulation but my experience also suggests that subbies after a while come to enjoy being slapped by their Master.

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RE: Face Slapping . Do you like it - 12/3/2008 3:32:39 PM   
SlaveIndigochild


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ORIGINAL: Darcyandthedark

It is a beautiful form of expression.  It brings a closeness.  And it's hot.
 
the.dark.

i love face slapping.....
ddon't know if the sutra has it (like it does a treatise on biting)....but don't need to read a book on it either lol.....
love the new pics....camera shake? interesting.....


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RE: Face Slapping . Do you like it - 12/3/2008 4:57:52 PM   
slavejali


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Yes, its really intimate. If it was done all the time tho it would lose its power.

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RE: Face Slapping . Do you like it - 12/4/2008 8:07:50 AM   
bitch1962


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Status: offline 		i absolutley love face slapping when my Master slaps my face it makes me listen to him and he has my full attention it also makes me extremly turned on and i love my Masters tenderness after the slap
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RE: Face Slapping . Do you like it - 12/4/2008 12:21:10 PM   
ExSteelAgain


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Status: offline 		Interesting how the thread evolved.

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RE: Face Slapping . Do you like it - 12/4/2008 5:13:29 PM   
vivere


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Status: offline 		no.......had a Dom who decided to try this in public, at a party, where he was well known, and i was not.  / never saw him again.
lofty of me?   no, i just figured out you're supposed to feel good with the one you love. 
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RE: Face Slapping . Do you like it - 12/4/2008 5:19:10 PM   
alandraofMists


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Status: offline 		For me, face slapping relaxes my body... sends me for a loop... and I just drift.

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RE: Face Slapping . Do you like it - 12/4/2008 5:26:01 PM   
redcollarpet


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Status: offline 		i love it;  but it took me years to admit that i even had thoughts about it. once i finally worked up the guts to admit that i was curious and actually experienced a face slapping..i realized that it's a real hot button for me. it's certainly not for everyone, but sends me flying into subspace in an instant. however, i don't think i could enjoy it without having solid trust in my partner.

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RE: Face Slapping . Do you like it - 12/4/2008 5:49:05 PM   
MsStarlett


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Status: offline 		I'm a slapper.  Some of my boys like it, some don't.  Loved the one that lived for it.  

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RE: Face Slapping . Do you like it - 12/4/2008 6:49:39 PM   
ali64


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Status: offline 		i didn't think i would ever allow anyone to slap my face only because i know my own temper. But, a few weeks ago, a friend tapped the fleshy part of my cheek. Then again, and again, each time a bit harder. He then stopped and looked me in the eyes....oh my gosh, my whole body shuttered. So now i say YES, i enjoy being slapped in the face.

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RE: Face Slapping . Do you like it - 12/4/2008 9:19:18 PM   
sultryone


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Status: offline 		Yes. Likey likey!

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RE: Face Slapping . Do you like it - 12/5/2008 11:35:06 AM   
vanessa73


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Status: offline 		Not full force, just enough to get my attention.  i like pain, but something about the face, it's way too sensitive, and sometimes a guy can get a little carried away.  Don't care for that kind of emotionalness too much, bring me to tears anytime but please don't make me cry!! 

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RE: Face Slapping . Do you like it - 12/5/2008 12:52:15 PM   
aidan


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Status: offline 		Much like a new Star Wars movie or playing Halo online, face slapping is an idea I like a lot that falls apart upon execution. It takes me right out of that nice, loose, fluid sub-space and makes me tense and teeth-gritting and feel like a rat backed into a corner. Not my thing at all.


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RE: Face Slapping . Do you like it - 12/5/2008 2:40:25 PM   
HisLadyAlways67


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Status: offline 		I Love getting slapped in the face...i like taking it. Very Hot. But Master always kisses it, or whispers in my ear after it, so that tends to balance it out.

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RE: Face Slapping . Do you like it - 12/5/2008 5:10:29 PM   
SlaveIndigochild


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ORIGINAL: RainydayNE

i reeally like face slapping
it's weird, i like it, but i also don't like it, and i like that i don't like it which makes me like it even more =p
haha
don't really know how to explain what i mean =p
i like it, though :)

That's a brilliant way of putting it...exactly....i like that often i don't like it also. Being blinfolded is also weird as it's nice/not nice knowing when it's coming.
I've often felt that a smack cross the face is about to come and it doesn't.........

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RE: Face Slapping . Do you like it - 12/5/2008 10:12:47 PM   
Surrenderwithin


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Status: offline 		My first experience with face slapping left me feeling vulnerable at a level I never imagined possible. I experienced a level of sub drop I never dreamed possible. For several days I was emotional and felt so confused. My Master was wonderfully supportive and worked through this with me. I expressed to him that it had such a deep affect on me that I didnt think it was a good idea, for me on an emotional level, to do that type of play again.

As time passed, I found myself craving the intamacy that came within the vulnerability I had tasted only through that face slapping scene. I once again approached Master and explained my feelings and the confusion. We had several in depth conversations about the topic and he basically made me convince him that I truly did wish to try again.

Knowing what effects it had on me in the past and being prepared for the aftermath I now consider this more intimate than any other type of play exchange he and I share. I love face slapping and the place that it takes me to...one of humility and vulnerability....and serenity.

In a nut shell, I love face slapping....and it has been far too long since I have felt the sting.....

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RE: Face Slapping . Do you like it - 12/5/2008 10:17:13 PM   
Surrenderwithin


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Status: offline 		My first experience with face slapping left me feeling vulnerable at a level I never imagined possible. I experienced a level of sub drop I never dreamed possible. For several days I was emotional and felt so confused. My Master was wonderfully supportive and worked through this with me. I expressed to him that it had such a deep affect on me that I didnt think it was a good idea, for me on an emotional level, to do that type of play again.

As time passed, I found myself craving the intamacy that came within the vulnerability I had tasted only through that face slapping scene. I once again approached Master and explained my feelings and the confusion. We had several in depth conversations about the topic and he basically made me convince him that I truly did wish to try again.

Knowing what effects it had on me in the past and being prepared for the aftermath I now consider this more intimate than any other type of play exchange he and I share. I love face slapping and the place that it takes me to...one of humility and vulnerability....and serenity.

In a nut shell, I love face slapping....and it has been far too long since I have felt the sting.....

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RE: Face Slapping . Do you like it - 12/5/2008 10:51:10 PM   
DomDG


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Status: offline 		Love it, the right slap at the right moment!  Oh the look on her face, the focus it brings to me from her!  I love it! 

As with all kinks I do ask questions about it.  I learned a long time ago that what can put one girl in deep subspace can trigger panic, anger and worse in another. 


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RE: Face Slapping . Do you like it - 12/6/2008 1:15:53 AM   
subboi3382


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Status: offline 		I like it, not all the time, but like 2-3 times a day. i loved it at first, then we were at a party and my master slapped so hard i thought he knocked atooth out and i stopped liking it for a while

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