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DavanKael -> RE: Anal (11/25/2008 2:55:20 PM)
Ashzrae---- Glass/pyrex toys are excellent and you can findones that are multi-purpose as well asspecific (Like buttplugs). Silicone toys are superior too. Both of these can be sterilized. Davan

RainydayNE -> RE: Anal (11/25/2008 2:57:44 PM)
are glass ones particularly expensive? or no? sterlization = yay

Aszhrae -> RE: Anal (11/25/2008 2:58:15 PM)
The pyrex also warms up rather nicely in your hands too as girl just found out. Something tells me, girl is going to enjoy playing with this little toy.

Aszhrae -> RE: Anal (11/25/2008 3:03:39 PM)
The pyrex candy cane, by DonWands, sells here in Canada for about $50.00

Aszhrae -> RE: Anal (11/25/2008 3:07:17 PM)
The curve of the candy cane is just at the right curvature to reach that nerve cluster found upon the pelvic bone, but that certainly depends on the individual's own physiology. Girl and silicon are not compatible.

porcelain26 -> RE: Anal (11/25/2008 3:19:49 PM)
Pyrex and glass toys rock. No other way around it. They clean easy, can adjust to desired temperatures, and require less lubrication for the same effect as other toys. The really good ones can be very pricey, but they're also worth the price tag (imo).

malloves69 -> RE: Anal (11/25/2008 3:22:41 PM)
love anal sex ...and yes being on the recieving end from my mistress [:)] love strapon play and when she walks in wearing that 10 in strapon gawd she looks great as it hangs inbetween her sexy legs [:)]and yes we both know where its going [:)]love how she lubes me up and fucks me with it ..and for those into strapon play as much as we are trying having her fist you next [:)] once she slides in that feeling truly is amazing [:)]she knows my ass and prostate well i must say [:)] for us enemas are a must do ..love being able to relax and know im clean for her ..i figure thats the least i can do for her [:)] relax ..communicate ...lube ..go slow ..but once its in that feeling is simply amazing i must say [:)] have fun and enjoy mal

porcelain26 -> RE: Anal (11/25/2008 3:25:02 PM)
laughing I still love that everyone's saying it just has to get inside, once it's in, it's all good. Okay great! But what about the panic attack?! hahaha.

Aszhrae -> RE: Anal (11/25/2008 3:39:09 PM)
Have you ever thought, when you are about to experience something you have never tried before, to step beyond that initial anxiety that always seems to occur, to just not think about it? Or, now girl is not sure if it would work for you, and it does require a little preparation. But, may girl suggest transference of your awareness. Becoming your own dominant. There you are, you are about to have anal sex for the first time. Distance yourself for the moment., if you feel yourself enjoying the sensation, just enjoy.

DavanKael -> RE: Anal (11/25/2008 3:42:00 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: RainydayNE are glass ones particularly expensive? or no? sterlization = yay The glass pieces used tobesuer-expensive andsome still are but as they are now mass-produced, you can get them for less than$20 in a lot of instances. Adam and Eve usually has a decent selection. Davan

DavanKael -> RE: Anal (11/25/2008 3:46:06 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: porcelain26 laughing I still love that everyone's saying it just has to get inside, once it's in, it's all good. Okay great! But what about the panic attack?! hahaha. How about transmiting the anxiety into anticipation, excitement? You know, rather than "aaargh, this cck is about to invade my a" and instead, "My Owner is going to stick his hot, hard cck into my tight a** and it's going to please him and feel incredible for both of us". Davan

porcelain26 -> RE: Anal (11/25/2008 3:46:26 PM)
Aszhrae - the panic attack is caused by sensory overload, not by fear. It's the feeling of something going in that overwhelms me and causes me to panic ;) As for 'being my own dominant' yeah...that doesn't work for me, though it's a good thought smiles *edited cuz i forgot part of the post

HisPrincess05 -> RE: Anal (11/25/2008 4:34:48 PM)
Ooh La La ANAL... its one of my favorite activities that Master and I enjoy. I can tell that the more you relax, the more enjoyable that anal sex can be. Master is training my ass to take many different size dildos so that I can start doing porn. I can actually catch a "nut" quicker in my ass than I can in my pussy any day. To be honest I love anal sex. But jsut remember LUBE LUBE LUBE and MORE LUBE. I'm actually to the point where the only thing master has to do is spit in my ass and his cock goes right in. But remember again LUBE LUBE LUBE and MORE LUBE- to make sure you are safe in that area.

Aszhrae -> RE: Anal (11/25/2008 5:34:24 PM)
Since actually admitting to be a virgin to the use of toys and basically a first timer. Honestly, it's not that bad, a little anal-ese, something small to begin with and work up to something larger. Girl has never felt anything like it before and it actually feels nice with something in inserted in my ass. Maybe you are over-thinking the whole thing. Just need to relax and trust your dominant. That is why you are with your dominant in the first place.

RainydayNE -> RE: Anal (11/25/2008 6:29:40 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: porcelain26 laughing I still love that everyone's saying it just has to get inside, once it's in, it's all good. Okay great! But what about the panic attack?! hahaha. i don't think that it's all over once it's inside =p not "everyone" said that if the panic attack gets to be too much, then you might just hvae to stop what another poster said and that i agreed with is that having someone who understands that that might happen and having him just push through it CAN be helpful. obviously not for everyone, but it can be helpful for some people i have the sensory overload sensation very frequently with anal, and the one time i jumped forward to escape really disappointed me however, he understands that my responses to alot of things are slightly odd and i have a tendency to "run away" so he knows that it's okay to just keep going and it isn't going to like emotionally scar me or anything =p now if something WAS getting to that point, it would have to be discussed (he always likes to talk about things later, which is nice ^_^) i think you should go slow with it, if you get the panic attack, try having him pause so you can get your thoughts back in order. you say that your Owner is very good about reading your responses, so i think that if you just go slowly, you'll get it eventually

Aszhrae -> RE: Anal (11/25/2008 6:59:39 PM)
really not sure if this is related but my first experience was definitely enjoyable, although girl wants to ask something after the removal of the nipple clips, followed by the removal of the butt plug, it it completely natural to get that queasy feeling and lack of appetite afterwards? because girl barely touched dinner tonight. ( a few mouthfuls and that was it for me)

porcelain26 -> RE: Anal (11/26/2008 5:39:05 AM)
Rainyday - you wanna be my new best friend? laughing I love the things that you say and point out. I know the good majority of my struggle with this is going to be relaxing, and I know my Owner will help me with that alot. Like I said from the beginning, the issues that I have with this activity are soley my own. He is doing the best He can to help me with it, given our current situation (being separated by 900+ miles). For me, a lot of the battle is mental. I've gotta get my head wrapped around something before I can con my body into going along with it. Hence the reason I asked for the advice, which I'm BEYOND grateful for, by the way!! Thank you so much to everyone who's posted and given such great support and advice. It really, really helps!!

RainydayNE -> RE: Anal (11/26/2008 5:48:50 AM)
haha :) if you just keep at it, you'll probably get to a point where you desensitize yourself to the anxiety (have you ever done with with something else that caused anxiety? just kept coming into contact with it until it just didnt matter anymore? =p i have, SOMETIMES it works) and if not, having him help you stay calm will help. good luck with your endeavors :) haha

angelikaJ -> RE: Anal (11/26/2008 10:41:58 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: porcelain26 laughing I still love that everyone's saying it just has to get inside, once it's in, it's all good. Okay great! But what about the panic attack?! hahaha. re: the panic attack.. acknowledge that you are feeling panicked. validate all of your feelings... the "good ones" and the scary ones. Be present with your feelings. I am wondering if you have engaged in gentle external anal stimulation while you are on the phone with your owner...if you ever masturbate for him while you are on the phone... then perhaps you could begin to incorporate gentle stroking near and around your anus... not with the purpose of getting ready for penetration... but for the sole purpose of touching yourself there.. this would work in a non-erotic context as well... talking to him on the phone and his directing your attention there... just to touch... just to familiarize yourself with the sensations.

akisha -> RE: Anal (11/26/2008 3:02:02 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: DavanKael Ashzrae---- Glass/pyrex toys are excellent and you can findones that are multi-purpose as well asspecific (Like buttplugs). Silicone toys are superior too. Both of these can be sterilized. Davan Personally I find the glass & pyrex toys to be very ridgid and not very comfortable. Master likes them for tempurature play tho.

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