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faithbunny -> RE: Anal (11/27/2008 6:20:40 PM)
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ORIGINAL: porcelain26
I know darn well that at some point in the most likely near future, my Owner is going to take my 'anal virginity' and shatter it into oblivion. I do not think this is a bad thing by any means, but I'm terrified!!
OK, I'm going to out myself as a total anal slut here...
I started with anal when I was married. My husband was a dead fuck and I had to do something to keep it interesting. With him, I generally got on top and ran the whole show myself.
My beloved is much larger than my husband was (can just barely close my hand around him) so it's not quite as easy with him. To prepare for him the first time, I bought a toy that was approximately his size, and used it to practice first oral (a girl needs a whole different technique for 8 thick inches than she does for 6 slender ones), and then anal, so I knew I was ready for him. I also have a series of toys, from the size of a man's finger all the way up to something bigger than I've ever seen on a human male. My new favorite is the inflatable plug.
Get a nice thick lube that stays where you put it (my favorite is called Elbow Grease), lube a small toy, insert it, and then get out your bullet and pleasure yourself for awhile. I usually wiggle around and sort of fuck myself with the toy while I use the bullet. When you get nice and turned on, you may just find yourself WANTING more in you. Work up to the next larger toy (or inflate the one in you.) Keep on with that process, through one session or several, until you have comfortably worked up to something approximate to your Master's size.
When you're ready to try the real thing, my personal favorite is to have him hold still while I back into him, or you can be on top. In either case, you're controlling the action, so there shouldn't be too much trouble with panic attacks. Personally, it turns me on to rub the lube all over his cock (when we use lube.) You can move it in and out a little at a time, and finally it'll just sort of pop past the ring of muscle and slide all the way in. Once that happens, there's very little risk of real pain--maybe an uncomfortable fullness, but if you are using your bullet, or he is rubbing your clit, you probably won't notice. I find that if I am slightly less than sober, I notice discomfort less, so maybe have just one drink (or smoke) to help relax you.
Once he is all the way in, you can let him take control without worrying about pain. Since you're worried about panic attacks, talk to him in advance about that. If you really want to make this work, if you do start to freak out, perhaps he can stay inside you but stop moving while he strokes your hair, holds you, and calms you. I'm willing to bet that you won't freak out, though, and you'll probably be very proud of yourself when it's all said and done.
As for enemas, I like to do them once or twice a month as general maintenance. If I know I'll be having anal sex in advance, I usually take a plain water enema first thing in the morning, then a second for extra cleanliness. (I try to do this at LEAST 6 hours beforehand because sometimes it takes a few hours for all the water to make its way down to the exit.) That said, even if you don't, unless you're having some tummy issues at the time, you probably won't make a mess.
Good luck!
~faith
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