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ORIGINAL: aravain

I wasn't trying to say something was unattractive or anything similar 

Hi aravain,
In that case please accept my apologies for taking it the wrong way.  I appreciate you saying so.

Subspace, for me, is something that's unavoidable. If pain is involved, it's where I go, which was why I asked. I didn't know that focusing was a way for some people to stay OUT of subspace (and, actually, my experience is the opposite). As a whole I have a tendency to babble, and so asking me questions wouldn't change anything, for me, except what that babbling was about.

Yeah, I thought it was unavoidable too until I heard the words "no subspace tonight for you".... eek!  There is a place *the bad place* where I would go to survive, to keep myself sane, but they never take it that far.

It's an interesting thought, play without subspace... I know I'd still *enjoy* myself, but would I get AS MUCH enjoyment is the question.

This kind of play for me is about pleasing them.  I enjoy it in a whole different way.

Then again others will point out it's not always about my enjoyment, which is true enough


well wishes,
tgfka sunshine

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I've gotta ask you something about this. If you are not allowed to float off to subspace when playing, how is the difference made between play and punishment?