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RE: "Well you're fat" - 12/2/2008 12:15:43 PM   
KyttynTheMynx


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Status: offline 		I like my insult of "I might be fat, but from what I hear your dick is small.  I can lose weight.  Sucks to be you." and then I block the moron. If they wanna try and hit you in the proverbial nuts, go back with twice the gusto and then laugh your butt off when they are left miffed in your mental dust.

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RE: "Well you're fat" - 12/2/2008 12:17:05 PM   
CreativeDominant


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ORIGINAL: MissSepphora1

Why is this always a man's fall back insult - to me anyway.
I know I am not fat.  I weigh less than 120 lbs, and everyone in close contact with me says I have lost too much weight and need to gain some of it back.
So why is it when a man can't get the best of me, or control me, they always say well you're fat?



I think that in a lot of cases, it is a combination of reasons as noted above:  we are well aware of the anxiety most women have about their weight, we dislike rejection, we don't think about the consequences of what we so flippantly say and one I haven't heard...we have to make it seem as if we were doing YOU a favor.  Combine all these with a predatory type OR be a little tactless in your turn-down of their attentions and any or all of them can come into play. 


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RE: "Well you're fat" - 12/2/2008 12:17:14 PM   
sirsholly


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ORIGINAL: LaTigresse

Maybe he was trying for "phat"........?


and he is wondering why he can't get laid. Poor bastard.


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RE: "Well you're fat" - 12/2/2008 12:18:25 PM   
sambamanslilgirl


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Status: offline 		that's all they know ...it's either you're ugly or you're fat as their standard response because they cannot handle being rejected.

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RE: "Well you're fat" - 12/2/2008 12:23:51 PM   
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RE: "Well you're fat" - 12/2/2008 12:30:35 PM   
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ORIGINAL: FlamingRedhead

Boys are dumb.  Throw rocks at them!


Ummmmmmmm...excuse me?  Not all of us...

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RE: "Well you're fat" - 12/2/2008 12:31:26 PM   
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Status: offline 		Girls are dumb too.  I know a lot of women who are attracted to men because of their red flags.  Watching them date is literally like counting down the days until the train wreck happens... yet again.

And, LadySepphora, I just sent you cmail saying you were hottt!


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RE: "Well you're fat" - 12/2/2008 12:34:26 PM   
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ORIGINAL: RedMagic1

Girls are dumb too.  I know a lot of women who are attracted to men because of their red flags.  Watching them date is literally like counting down the days until the train wreck happens... yet again.

And, LadySepphora, I just sent you cmail saying you were hottt!



Omg i'm dumb and fat
Double whammy - ouch !!

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RE: "Well you're fat" - 12/2/2008 12:35:22 PM   
MissSepphora1


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Status: offline 		thank you for the compliment.  but i'm honestly not fishing.
men are complicated.  i'm just trying to get them.
this one is a dom, and the main reason why i don't chat with doms.
they don't get the idea that women aren't all ready to bow down to them.

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RE: "Well you're fat" - 12/2/2008 12:37:37 PM   
natasha66


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Status: offline 		I dunno, maybe because they lack the vocabulary, brain power, maturity or common decency to take rejection like a grown-up?  Just a guess.....

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RE: "Well you're fat" - 12/2/2008 12:39:13 PM   
krikket


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ORIGINAL: LaTigresse

Or you can reply like I did to one. It went something like this.

OMG, thank you SO MUCH for noticing. I've been trying so hard, eating and eating everything I can possibly get my hands on. My goal is 450# and I have 52# to gain before I get there. (obviously my photos are old and outdated) I have been too busy to take new ones. I think when I get over 400 I will take nudes and I promise to send you copies. Please be patient with me, a woman can only spend so many waking moments eating.



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RE: "Well you're fat" - 12/2/2008 12:45:32 PM   
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RE: "Well you're fat" - 12/2/2008 12:46:56 PM   
ExSteelAgain


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Status: offline 		Because getting you in a conversation with any remark is half the battle.

I do remember joking with a woman once about her "pot belly." I swear I meant nothing serious and she was obviously not fat in any way or I would have never said such a thing. Damned if she didn't go off on me bigtime. I learned my lesson.

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RE: "Well you're fat" - 12/2/2008 12:47:10 PM   
Rover


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quote:

ORIGINAL: MissSepphora1

so where are all the men?


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RE: "Well you're fat" - 12/2/2008 12:47:37 PM   
FlamingRedhead


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Status: offline 		I totally agree that girls are stupid.  That's probably why I don't have many friends.  *lol*
 
No...wait....someone here wanted to be my friend today, but then he found out that I'm not a democrat.  *eg*  I knew he didn't really wanna be my friend long before he knew that I knew....but it was fun while it lasted.

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RE: "Well you're fat" - 12/2/2008 12:49:22 PM   
Lordandmaster


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Status: offline 		Just looked at the pics on your profile.  You're not fat, and it shows that you've lost weight recently.

quote:

ORIGINAL: MissSepphora1

I know I am not fat.  I weigh less than 120 lbs, and everyone in close contact with me says I have lost too much weight and need to gain some of it back.

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RE: "Well you're fat" - 12/2/2008 1:12:12 PM   
moonvine


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Status: offline 		Don't worry, it is a man's fallback insult to me too, and I *am* fat, so the reason they started talking to me was either 1.  *because* I was fat or 2.  because they wanted to get to know me and didn't care whether I was fat or not.

It is just a generic insult.  Of course I would tend to respond back with thanks for the compliment or thanks for noticing or something, which really confuses the hell out of the poor things, but that wouln't work for you since you're not fat.

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RE: "Well you're fat" - 12/2/2008 1:19:22 PM   
aravain


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Stupidstupidstupid.

I don't understand the idea of retrograde rejection, which is basically what this tactic is. It pisses me off.

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RE: "Well you're fat" - 12/2/2008 1:25:07 PM   
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Status: offline 		I have an opinion on this matter....

Most guys grow up physically, but mentally to about the 16 year old mark, complete with angst.  Then they go to college, join a frat, and the mob mentality regresses them to about 13.  Then the drinking starts and they regress again to about 11.  And the real world hits them and they realize they are responsible for their own actions, nor can they 'have it all' like they did when they were in high school and in the frat, and they regress again to a precocious 5.

Which leads to the 'sour grapes'  attitude.  They were the popular kids, the jocks, the musicians, and the types that 13 year old girls throw themselves at.  Add to that a very healthy dose of 'entitlement', and you have the modern male who whines and complains acting like a 5 year old, complete with the childish comebacks.  They've never had to deal with failure, and was always told its 'not their fault.

However, there are those very far and few between who actually do 'grow up', and can handle rejection.


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RE: "Well you're fat" - 12/2/2008 1:28:03 PM   
aravain


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Status: offline 		Haha, if handling rejection were an art, my name would be Leonardo DaVinci.

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