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RE: "Well you're fat" - 12/2/2008 1:33:52 PM   
Usako


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ORIGINAL: MissSepphora1
men are complicated.  i'm just trying to get them.
this one is a dom, and the main reason why i don't chat with doms.
they don't get the idea that women aren't all ready to bow down to them.


Perhaps you should stop "trying to get" men and stop generalizing. Not ALL men are jerks. Not ALL doms are douches. Just like not all male subs just want a strap on up their butt and not all female dominants want money and a sissy. You have to fish through the ceral to get the prize inside so be prepared for lots of stupid e-mails just like people get stupid pick up lines irl. But don't blame all men or all doms.

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RE: "Well you're fat" - 12/2/2008 1:37:39 PM   
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RE: "Well you're fat" - 12/2/2008 1:38:33 PM   
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RE: "Well you're fat" - 12/2/2008 1:41:45 PM   
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RE: "Well you're fat" - 12/2/2008 1:45:47 PM   
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ORIGINAL: MissSepphora1

Thanks ladies.
Men truly are dumb.


They are clever enough to inspire a whole thread, though.....lol

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RE: "Well you're fat" - 12/2/2008 2:01:27 PM   
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Status: offline 		I don't usually get the "you're fat" insult, what I usually get is the...."you Must be a guy" or you would have never rejected me....I am always speechless--I could have sworn I am female. Usually even the insults are misspelled which affirms they are idiots.

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RE: "Well you're fat" - 12/2/2008 2:07:36 PM   
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ORIGINAL: SageFemmexx

I don't usually get the "you're fat" insult, what I usually get is the...."you Must be a guy" or you would have never rejected me....I am always speechless--I could have sworn I am female. Usually even the insults are misspelled which affirms they are idiots.



I get the 'You're a fake' shit when i reject someone.
It's rare though cos i'm a slut and don't turn many down lol

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RE: "Well you're fat" - 12/2/2008 2:07:48 PM   
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So why is it when a man can't get the best of me, or control me, they always say well you're fat?

Because you can't help but react. They are exploiting a weakness--apparently successfully.

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RE: "Well you're fat" - 12/2/2008 2:10:36 PM   
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ORIGINAL: MissSepphora1

Why is this always a man's fall back insult - to me anyway.
I know I am not fat.  I weigh less than 120 lbs, and everyone in close contact with me says I have lost too much weight and need to gain some of it back.
So why is it when a man can't get the best of me, or control me, they always say well you're fat?



There are a lot of men that have the emotional sensitivity of a wooden spoon, Sepphora. Considering that you've declared yourself dominant, I would think that the IQ is constrained to penis size too. (Although, I've had some Dommes request my services from time to time.)

If it isn't true, then don't let it bother you.

I'd say you're attractive.

If you want a more honest opinion, shoot me a mail. We'll talk. Politely.

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RE: "Well you're fat" - 12/2/2008 2:13:31 PM   
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Don't worry. I heard Herbalife is expanding to help the mentally retarded. You might be interested in taking part in their clinical trials?

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RE: "Well you're fat" - 12/2/2008 2:21:02 PM   
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ORIGINAL: Usako

Perhaps you should stop "trying to get" men and stop generalizing. Not ALL men are jerks. Not ALL doms are douches. Just like not all male subs just want a strap on up their butt and not all female dominants want money and a sissy. You have to fish through the ceral to get the prize inside so be prepared for lots of stupid e-mails just like people get stupid pick up lines irl. But don't blame all men or all doms.


   

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RE: "Well you're fat" - 12/2/2008 2:30:11 PM   
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Status: offline 		OMG - MissSepphora your stunning! If I was a sub I would be begging to drool at your feet on lick, kiss, or massage any part of your radiant body that you requested! (Come to think of it I'm not a sub and I'm drooling a bit anyway. LOL)

I agree he was just trying to hit your hot button. It's my hot button too! I've had a couple of subs use that remark on me. In fact if you read the profiles you'll see a lot of body image issues.

I've struggled with weight on and off for most of my life. Right now I'm losing it but struggling because all of my hiking partners have wimped out! Which I can't figure out. It makes no sense that they have the guts to take on a day of flogging and play but a little cold and rain and they squeek like mice and burrow under the covers! (And yes I did try pulling their hair. They liked it too much! I even tried promising not to tie them nude to any trees. I give up! ) 

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RE: "Well you're fat" - 12/2/2008 2:31:20 PM   
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ORIGINAL: MissSepphora1

control me, they always say well you're fat?



There is no man or woman that i know that uses this as a 'control' tactic unless they are weak... perhaps they are getting a rise out of you perhaps you should try saying

'yeah and you're ugly'

added note: men and women will use insults and threats when they don't have control over you and nothing else is getting you upset other then insults.


< Message edited by sexisubi -- 12/2/2008 2:33:08 PM >

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RE: "Well you're fat" - 12/2/2008 3:13:10 PM   
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ORIGINAL: MissSepphora1

Why is this always a man's fall back insult - to me anyway.
I know I am not fat.  I weigh less than 120 lbs, and everyone in close contact with me says I have lost too much weight and need to gain some of it back.
So why is it when a man can't get the best of me, or control me, they always say well you're fat?



well Ma'am it seems that they would be using that as a way to gain control and demean you. they are just being huge ass royal jerkwads to you and you dont deserve that.

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RE: "Well you're fat" - 12/2/2008 3:14:59 PM   
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Status: offline 		Saying "you are fat" is trying to push a button to cause pain.  Insults and compliments are like a shot of whiskey, they only have an effect if taken internally.

Some of the replies to this remind me of an acquaintance in Atlanta that had a "feeder fetish".  The last I saw of him, he had his girl up to 420.  I just shake my head, but they seem to have fun.

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RE: "Well you're fat" - 12/2/2008 3:41:10 PM   
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Status: offline 		ehh stick and stones since when did the mental age of this thread drop to like 3 years for most of the poster all the male bashing cuz the OP whined cuz she was called fat.  sheesh most of the poster on this thread need to grow up.  Can you say ignore button

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RE: "Well you're fat" - 12/2/2008 3:43:47 PM   
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RE: "Well you're fat" - 12/2/2008 3:51:10 PM   
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ORIGINAL: servantheart

Because such "men" have minds as small as their.....

Interesting counterpoint.

It is a general perception that women are apt to be as sensitive about their weight as men are about either their penile size or their prowess in using it. Both are normally at the extreme poles of how normally offensive you can get putting someone down.

So, it's often the default target for those who wish to resort to petty, painful insults.


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RE: "Well you're fat" - 12/2/2008 4:09:07 PM   
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Status: offline 		I had a boyfriend of 4 years that i truly loved tell me repeatedly that i was fat.  I wasn't 120#, but i was within 3 lbs. of my profile photo which has gotten me only compliments.  That really hurt, because of the love... it did knock my self-esteem for a loop.  But, i will say all of the men complimenting me did help it up a bit.  But, it was the daily looking at myself in the mirror and telling myself i was beautiful regardless of what ANYONE else thought that really did it.  I like who looks back at me in the mirror today.  Oh... by the way... he's been gone since January.  It's been a rough year (not because of his absence), but only roses are ahead.  Why did i put up with him?  That's something i continue to ask myself.  Even a slave doesn't deserve that treatment (and we were vanilla).

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RE: "Well you're fat" - 12/2/2008 4:16:48 PM   
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