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RE: "Well you're fat" - 12/3/2008 6:38:13 AM

Irishknight

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If they can't come up with a better insult than "You're fat" then you must have done something right. Of course dating a noncreative fucktard to begin with wasn't it.
I usually just do something like ask my ex's sister out to piss her off. I used to hit on my exwife's sister every time we talked. The two of us would laugh and joke and talk dirty to one another. I then got the satisfaction of knowing that it pissed my ex off.
To be quite honest, most of my girlfriends and I are still on awesome terms.... some even call me up to offer sex occassionally.

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RE: "Well you're fat" - 12/3/2008 6:40:45 AM

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If they can't come up with a better insult than "You're fat" then you must have done something right. Of course dating a noncreative fucktard to begin with wasn't it.
I usually just do something like ask my ex's sister out to piss her off. I used to hit on my exwife's sister every time we talked. The two of us would laugh and joke and talk dirty to one another. I then got the satisfaction of knowing that it pissed my ex off.
To be quite honest, most of my girlfriends and I are still on awesome terms.... some even call me up to offer sex occassionally.

Contrary to your belief the world does not revolve around you. It revolves around me.

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RE: "Well you're fat" - 12/3/2008 6:43:37 AM

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To the OP, small minded men do this all the time.
I really AM fat, I have posted my photo on this site, so if a man chooses to write me, he is not surprised down the road by my size.
However, in my experience here on this site, a man who does not meet my standards will write me, extolling my sexiness and beauty in HIS eyes,
(for that moment) and when I gently refuse his offer, or orders, then I am called not just fat, but the name of some farm or zoo animal is attached to it...
examples;
Your (and yes none of these men seem to understand that it would be "you're" as a contraction of you are...) your a fat fucking sow, (keeping in mind that I have not fucked him or anyone that he knows)
your a big fat cow
your fatter and uglier than an African elephant...
why don't you take your ugly picture down? No one wants to see your big fat ass anyway...
This last lovely comment was from a man who sent me a note stating he was a Dom and if I sent him nude photos of myself on my knees He might consider me...
Why would he want my nude photos if I repulsed him?
I informed Him that I was indeed a sub, but not his sub and I do not send nude photos to strange men who do not meet my standand.
These "men" and I use that term loosely as it has already been stated here are sore loosers.
I have never understood how a man could write me at 10AM telling me that I am sexual goddess and the one he has been looking for, and at 3 PM after my polite refusal, I am a fat ugly cow that no one would ever want to fuck.
And added to this in my case, a few white men that I have turned down also will hurl some ugly racist comment.
I usually thank them for letting me see their true colors.
I feel pretty good about myself most of the time, and there are men in the world who find me sexy and a worthy sub....
So I would say, just do not worry about these kinds of people.
Move on... and know that you are living on higher ground.

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RE: "Well you're fat" - 12/3/2008 6:44:17 AM

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EXCUSE me. I have many a time seen women call another woman fat. It is not just a man thing. The best thing to do if someone calls you fat or skinny is to look at them shake your head call them a fucking idiot and walk away. Im not a small person but I am happy about being me.

With the possible exception of full lesbians, Dnomyar, women react a damn site differently to the same thing when it comes out of a man or a woman - especially something like "you're fat" when it's said with the intention of hurting. From guys, we tend to perceive it as being intentionally cruel - abusive even. From other women, we percieve it as jealousy. Jealousy is a lot easier to shrug off, even if the tone is worse or the actual statement is much harsher.

Those of us who are fat know that we're fat. We either deal with it and like ourselves the way we are despite our physical imperfections, or we do what we can to come closer to what we personally percieve as physical perfection. And far to often, when we aren't happy with it, obsession with Perfection (which can't be achieved) is where it leads us.

Sepphora - you know you're not. Don't obsess about what a mean spirited, small minded, hateful little person with insecurity issues of their own to deal with says or doesn't say.

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RE: "Well you're fat" - 12/3/2008 6:47:06 AM

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Contrary to your belief the world does not revolve around you. It revolves around me.

It doesn't revolve around me but I do like to do my part to keep the ocean in motion.

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RE: "Well you're fat" - 12/3/2008 6:56:11 AM

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Contrary to your belief the world does not revolve around you. It revolves around me.

It doesn't revolve around me but I do like to do my part to keep the ocean in motion.

I'm the reason the sky is blue!

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RE: "Well you're fat" - 12/3/2008 6:58:52 AM

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blue or "blew"?

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RE: "Well you're fat" - 12/3/2008 7:18:15 AM

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Lighter fare for a moment.

A joke from Garfield the cat, in his midnight fence top entertainer persona.

How many skinny people can you fit in the shower?

I don't know. They keep slipping down the drain.

I'm a man of diminuitive stature. From time to time people are kind enough to point this out to me. Good thing too as I'm frequently overlooking this. My response is usually "Well, I'm doing better now at 66". When I started out I was only 17"

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RE: "Well you're fat" - 12/3/2008 12:35:08 PM

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ORIGINAL: UncleNasty

Lighter fare for a moment.

A joke from Garfield the cat, in his midnight fence top entertainer persona.

How many skinny people can you fit in the shower?

I don't know. They keep slipping down the drain.

I'm a man of diminuitive stature. From time to time people are kind enough to point this out to me. Good thing too as I'm frequently overlooking this. My response is usually "Well, I'm doing better now at 66". When I started out I was only 17"

OHUN

i'm all of 5'1" if i stretch. the comment "as long as i'm short SOMEONE is gonna look up to you" works....especially if it flies over the wiseacre's head and his buddies get it.