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RE: older doms - 12/30/2008 8:44:28 PM   
thishereboi


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I can't think of a single thing that all subs enjoy. Not even chocolate, but that can't actually be proven by anyone I know. For me personally, if I seek a partner then I want them to be close to my own age.

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RE: older doms - 12/30/2008 11:20:38 PM   
needlesplease


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I could not submit in any real sense to a man younger than me. It may be that I am  extremely self sufficient and have an unbelievably rich and varied life experience. I prefer men in their late 40's to about 50ish. There's just something very matured and worthy of respect about some men in that age group.

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RE: older doms - 12/30/2008 11:27:15 PM   
RainydayNE


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ORIGINAL: GoodFeathers

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in my mind, i prefer older guys. i used to have a RIDICULOUS thing for clint eastwood of all people =p (not as he is now, that's TOO old, i mean clint from like dirty harry or something, haha =p)
don't have a lot of dating experinece though, one guy was younger, and the Fellow now is older. which i like. alot.
and i do find that i prefer it to dating someone younger, now that i've experienced both.
there's an upper threshold, but yeah... older is good =p


OOH!  Clint Eastwood from the Good, the Bad, and the Ugly...sparkling blue eyes and clever as all get out...mmmm...I'm so with you on this one, Rainy.



egads yes :D gorgeous
haha ^_^

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RE: older doms - 1/12/2009 12:32:24 AM   
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As I am reading...everyone has their own reasons and preferences.
Master is my age...only a few months older actually.My preference comes from fear...of funerals with me playing the grieving significant other.I lost my first two Domly ones  when they were very young and I figure this way there is less risk....



I have lost 2 husbands who were both my age.  Risk is part of life....although I will never marry again as I am unwilling to risk that again. 



Sorry to read this...I guess we are both a lil..cautious?I agree,risk is part of life.I just try to minimize that risk as much as possible....

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RE: older doms - 1/12/2009 4:00:05 AM   
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I am 43, so I want someone my age or older.  Hell, when you get to be "my" age~~old takes on a whole new set of numbers...I have nothing against younger men/Doms and don't think they are any less smarter than older ones...just my preference. 

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RE: older doms - 1/12/2009 5:08:16 AM   
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I haven't had a dom yet but I prefer older men, anywhere from 8 to 25 years older. I seem to get along much better with men in that age range.

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RE: older doms - 1/12/2009 7:03:10 PM   
loveandlight87


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I dated a couple dominants for a short period of time that were both very close to my age.  However, both seemed much older (not in appearance, but rather intellect and maturity).  But I tend to be much more physically and mentally attracted to men in their late 40's to late 50's.  This has been my preference since my teen years.  I'm a little curious about if that will shift when I reach that age, say 50.  Oh well.  Anyway, Sir is 17 years older than me and I am one happy happy girl!

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RE: older doms - 1/13/2009 7:44:49 AM   
CallMePatches


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I prefer older men in general. Maybe it isn't so much thier age but thier maturity level. Males tend to mature later than females. It's been my expierence that older men are not so prone to flights of fancy. More grounded and such. For me I think it's a sense of stability in a partner. Anything I've done isn't going to shock him. Hells bells. He's probably done it himself :) That sort of mentality.

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RE: older doms - 1/13/2009 9:41:24 AM   
MasterTslave


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I cannot respond as "all slaves/subs"...but as myself...I think there is something very sexy about being with someone older...I don't know if it is like a taboo kind of thing or if it is just that they have had more life exp. that I can learn from or if it is just that special thing...Master T is older than I am and it really turns me on...sometimes it makes him a little stranged out (I think), but turns me on :)

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RE: older doms - 1/13/2009 3:38:11 PM   
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I used to prefer older men much more until now they seem much 'older' that I would prefer lol. 

Not only in looks but in attitude and stamina. 

Younger or closer to my age is looking more appealing every day. I can't believe I would even change like that.  But, it adds up that older men are just turning me off now.

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RE: older doms - 1/13/2009 6:35:33 PM   
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lol..if they like older doms send them my way..snickers..we'll do a 5k run and see if they can hang..my ass we're slower cause we are older..maybe a bit more experienced so we don't freak-out over the small stuff though..grins

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