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RE: Why does a Sub's Power/Body scare a Mistress? - 1/14/2009 5:37:05 PM   
Dastan


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I noticed that there are almost no images of African-American and Latino males in BDSM and that most of the bodies in S/m are fat or slim elderly men which don't fit into a mold of beauty and romanticism, but rather average-looking or slightly "unattractive" males.


Hey hey hey now. I'm relatively young and I'm considered good looking. I have all my teeth and I run daily.

Granted, no kung fu fighting on a regular basis, but I prefer kissing a woman's ass rather than beating a man's. I think the image you have of men in BDSM is outdated!






Edited to add: You list Objectification as a dislike. Found that sorta odd, considering how into your looks you are. That 4th photo of you...looks really different from the first three.


Maybe it is because if you looked at it more closely, you'd see why when looking at my ribcage from the right side of it below the tip of the sternum, above the belly button. Just check.

And I am against objectification for I don't get the diea of becoming a human furniture, but I take pride in my body as a amchine I keep tuned to perfection even when damaged.

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RE: Why does a Sub's Power/Body scare a Mistress? - 1/15/2009 10:49:17 AM   
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Status: offline 		Op you went to war and parachuted down in the worst of battles yet you did not kill anyone. What were you the cook.  We go thru a lot of changes as we grow old. My first wife taught Karate. I was into Kung Fu. I had what I thought was a great body. Now Im a lot older and that body was left behind. I parachuted in the service and out of it. From experience when your in a heated battle you will kill someone before you let them kill you. 95% of the time anyway unless you freeze up from fear. Your post is a whole red flag for me. If it were not for the Mod I would let into you.

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RE: Why does a Sub's Power/Body scare a Mistress? - 1/15/2009 2:13:54 PM   
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Status: offline 		      Not scared in the slightest .  I tend to prefer my subs in good shape , though over-muscled hardbodies are not at all necessary , and I've found they are often somewhat obsessed with remaining that way .   I do find overall health to be very attractive in both genders .
 
    I'm not sure where you're looking - but there are certainly many good bodies on this site !    As a general cross view though  , I see many types of men out there in the various media .
 
   

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RE: Why does a Sub's Power/Body scare a Mistress? - 1/15/2009 2:31:29 PM   
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¿ Is it that the BDSM world doesn't welcome men of strong cultures and races, judging the book by its cover and seldom looking past it to be surprised by its content ?


The problem is very few men from as you put it "strong cultures and races" wish to be portrayed openly as submissive.
If there were more willing subjects they would be displayed more often.

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RE: Why does a Sub's Power/Body scare a Mistress? - 1/15/2009 5:04:04 PM   
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ORIGINAL: Dnomyar

Op you went to war and parachuted down in the worst of battles yet you did not kill anyone. What were you the cook.
 

NO, BUT I DIDN'T SHOOT TO THE HEAD OR TORSO AND I DID CAPTURE ENEMY SOLDIERS INJURED, BUT NEVER TOOK A LEG OR ARM OFF WITH BULLET OR BLADE IN ANY FORM. I TOOK THE HK-MP5 IN ORDER TO MAKE SURE OF IT AND I ALSO WAS CAREFUL ENOUGH NOT TO AIM BADLY. I GUESS YOU DID NOT SERVE IN ANY ARMY FOR WHAT I CAN SEE, YOU DON'T KNOW HOW TO SHOOT THAT WAY ? i WOULD ASSUME YOUR COUNTRY KNEW MORE ABOUT SUCH.....

We go thru a lot of changes as we grow old. My first wife taught Karate. I was into Kung Fu. I had what I thought was a great body. Now Im a lot older and that body was left behind. I parachuted in the service and out of it. From experience when your in a heated battle you will kill someone before you let them kill you. 95% of the time anyway unless you freeze up from fear. Your post is a whole red flag for me. If it were not for the Mod I would let into you.


PLEASE DON'T BE SCARED OF THE MOD, LET'S SEE WHAT YOU CAN DO, AND BYT HE LOOKS OF IT, YOU HAVE NEVER BEEN TO GUERRILLA BATTLEFIELDS, CONSIDERING THAT YOU CAN ACTUALLY GO THROUGH A BATTLE WITH JUST WOUNDING PEOPLE BECAUSE OF THE CONDITIONS, IT IS MOSTLY BOOBY TRAPS, ARTILLERY AND GRENADES WHAT ACTUALLY KILLS OR POINT-BLANK FIRE WHEN SURPRISED BY AN ANEMY BEHIND A TREE OR BUSH OR IN A TRENCH

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RE: Why does a Sub's Power/Body scare a Mistress? - 1/15/2009 5:06:11 PM   
Dastan


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ORIGINAL: VampiresLair

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¿ Is it that the BDSM world doesn't welcome men of strong cultures and races, judging the book by its cover and seldom looking past it to be surprised by its content ?


The problem is very few men from as you put it "strong cultures and races" wish to be portrayed openly as submissive.
If there were more willing subjects they would be displayed more often.

DV



I can concede such point to you, mistress Vampire, for in our culture, weakness is quickly repeleld and purged out. I do have scars from telling my ex I was into BDSM and let her ambush me with it so i learned my lesson, so in our culture we prefer to be Dominated under some safety controls, I guess it is a alck of trust so we prefer to be wild tigers or horses to tame so as to cause an impression of pwoer that gets us some respect and safety than to look weak and seem as if that something bad can be done to us and get away with it easily due to our weakness....

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RE: Why does a Sub's Power/Body scare a Mistress? - 1/16/2009 5:19:25 AM   
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Status: offline 		Dastan just where did you go to war at?  You have a vivid imagination. I would like to take you hunting with me. Hell I would even like to have you come to the shooting range that I have made. I doubt that you could even handle the misquitoes.

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RE: Why does a Sub's Power/Body scare a Mistress? - 1/16/2009 8:08:02 AM   
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ORIGINAL: Dastan

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ORIGINAL: Dnomyar

Op you went to war and parachuted down in the worst of battles yet you did not kill anyone. What were you the cook.
 

NO, BUT I DIDN'T SHOOT TO THE HEAD OR TORSO AND I DID CAPTURE ENEMY SOLDIERS INJURED, BUT NEVER TOOK A LEG OR ARM OFF WITH BULLET OR BLADE IN ANY FORM. I TOOK THE HK-MP5 IN ORDER TO MAKE SURE OF IT AND I ALSO WAS CAREFUL ENOUGH NOT TO AIM BADLY. I GUESS YOU DID NOT SERVE IN ANY ARMY FOR WHAT I CAN SEE, YOU DON'T KNOW HOW TO SHOOT THAT WAY ? i WOULD ASSUME YOUR COUNTRY KNEW MORE ABOUT SUCH.....


Wait a minute.... on 12/15, you said -

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ORIGINAL: Dastan

Secondly madam, I said it because in addition to my reputation during my athletic days, I also served in the army, as all males do once they finish high school, I went to war and parachuted down on the worst battles and I did have to take lives, as any other soldier in the world in battle has done.


That seems inconsistent. What am I missing?


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RE: Why does a Sub's Power/Body scare a Mistress? - 1/16/2009 8:14:08 AM   
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RE: Why does a Sub's Power/Body scare a Mistress? - 1/16/2009 8:14:39 AM   
bluepanda


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NO, BUT I DIDN'T SHOOT TO THE HEAD OR TORSO AND I DID CAPTURE ENEMY SOLDIERS INJURED, BUT NEVER TOOK A LEG OR ARM OFF WITH BULLET OR BLADE IN ANY FORM. I TOOK THE HK-MP5 IN ORDER TO MAKE SURE OF IT AND I ALSO WAS CAREFUL ENOUGH NOT TO AIM BADLY. I GUESS YOU DID NOT SERVE IN ANY ARMY FOR WHAT I CAN SEE, YOU DON'T KNOW HOW TO SHOOT THAT WAY ? i WOULD ASSUME YOUR COUNTRY KNEW MORE ABOUT SUCH.....


I know English isn't your first language, and as good at it as you are I can see that it might be getting in the way of making yourself as clear as you'd like to be, but this one confuses me too. Are you saying that the Colombian army trains its troops to shoot to wound in combat situations?


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RE: Why does a Sub's Power/Body scare a Mistress? - 1/16/2009 8:37:28 AM   
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ORIGINAL: OttersSwim

Ah I love the smell of testosterone in the morning...  


This somehow comes close to what I thought last night and this morning... lol  Or really since the first page of this thread.

Refine the body and it's tendons and muscles... but sometimes I wonder if anyone is paying attention to that which rests within the skull.  I want a rutting bull in my bed... but he damn well know when it is wise to be bullish and when to prove he is a bull.  Outside of bed... a bull can be really bad for china shops and don't always make the best partners in life.  A good rutting is worth a lot... but not at the expense of having to temper that bull, watch over it and worry when the bull will come out to play with the other bulls...

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RE: Why does a Sub's Power/Body scare a Mistress? - 1/16/2009 8:39:43 AM   
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Status: offline 		I haven't read all the responses; but am I the only person to, when I see a thread title like this, think it could just as easily be called "Well built male submissive seeking..."?


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RE: Why does a Sub's Power/Body scare a Mistress? - 1/16/2009 8:42:41 AM   
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Status: offline 		Just make sure the ring in the bull's nose is always securely tethered to some solid object, and never go into the pen without your cattle prod. Pretty much an ironclad formula for any successful relationship, when you think about it.

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RE: Why does a Sub's Power/Body scare a Mistress? - 1/16/2009 8:44:07 AM   
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ORIGINAL: darchChylde

I haven't read all the responses; but am I the only person to, when I see a thread title like this, think it could just as easily be called "Well built male submissive seeking..."?



No, there's at least one more person who thought the exact same thing.

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RE: Why does a Sub's Power/Body scare a Mistress? - 1/16/2009 8:50:10 AM   
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Just make sure the ring in the bull's nose is always securely tethered to some solid object, and never go into the pen without your cattle prod. Pretty much an ironclad formula for any successful relationship, when you think about it.


I bet this works well for panda's too eh? hehe.... I get your point... but somehow... I think a bull might not be worth the painful work I have to put into him. lol  All in fun... okay... but I raised enough bulls to know... I don't want to do it for the rest of my life.  Retirement sounds really great at the stage I am in, in life!

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RE: Why does a Sub's Power/Body scare a Mistress? - 1/16/2009 9:00:38 AM   
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experienced woman ISO strong male sub for service (cleaning the top shelves, moving the fridge so i can clean under it, moving furniture etc). Will wear corset and high heels, willing to verbally abuse. Has own crop and paddle.

*sigh* I am not looking forward to spring cleaning


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RE: Why does a Sub's Power/Body scare a Mistress? - 1/16/2009 10:10:56 AM   
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ORIGINAL: Lockit

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Just make sure the ring in the bull's nose is always securely tethered to some solid object, and never go into the pen without your cattle prod. Pretty much an ironclad formula for any successful relationship, when you think about it.


I bet this works well for panda's too eh? hehe....


Well, uh, actually... as a matter of fact... now that you happen to mention it... <blush>


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I get your point... but somehow... I think a bull might not be worth the painful work I have to put into him. lol  All in fun... okay... but I raised enough bulls to know... I don't want to do it for the rest of my life.  Retirement sounds really great at the stage I am in, in life!


Yeah, the metaphor only carries you so far before the flaws become inescapably evident. You reach a certain point in your life where it just isn't worth the trouble. Fun for a week or two, but tiring after a while.


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RE: Why does a Sub's Power/Body scare a Mistress? - 1/16/2009 10:26:39 AM   
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ORIGINAL: darchChylde

I haven't read all the responses; but am I the only person to, when I see a thread title like this, think it could just as easily be called "Well built male submissive seeking..."?



Nope....you're not the only one.  I keep hearing this song when I read this thread .......

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_SOh6mSEZss



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RE: Why does a Sub's Power/Body scare a Mistress? - 1/16/2009 10:37:49 AM   
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Status: offline 		Thank CarrieO... I miss that video!  I have the song on cd... but... I love the song... but Shania in that video could convince me to be bi!  I did bookmark it! hehe  And... I agree!

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RE: Why does a Sub's Power/Body scare a Mistress? - 1/16/2009 11:21:50 AM   
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PLEASE DON'T BE SCARED OF THE MOD, LET'S SEE WHAT YOU CAN DO, AND BYT HE LOOKS OF IT, YOU HAVE NEVER BEEN TO GUERRILLA BATTLEFIELDS, CONSIDERING THAT YOU CAN ACTUALLY GO THROUGH A BATTLE WITH JUST WOUNDING PEOPLE BECAUSE OF THE CONDITIONS, IT IS MOSTLY BOOBY TRAPS, ARTILLERY AND GRENADES WHAT ACTUALLY KILLS OR POINT-BLANK FIRE WHEN SURPRISED BY AN ANEMY BEHIND A TREE OR BUSH OR IN A TRENCH


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