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RE: Why does a Sub's Power/Body scare a Mistress? - 1/16/2009 2:53:15 PM

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I saw your photos and you are not very muscular..I was expecting Schwarzenegger

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RE: Why does a Sub's Power/Body scare a Mistress? - 1/16/2009 3:07:29 PM

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Thank CarrieO... I miss that video! I have the song on cd... but... I love the song... but Shania in that video could convince me to be bi! I did bookmark it! hehe And... I agree!

Most welcome, my pleasure. I agree, she looks mighty fine in that video,although part of me wants to make her eat a pasta dinner....with lots of bread!

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RE: Why does a Sub's Power/Body scare a Mistress? - 1/16/2009 4:04:19 PM

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I saw your photos and you are not very muscular..I was expecting Schwarzenegger

I used to fight in the Light Heavyweight division and I was muscular. At 5'7'', being 195 pounds and have a bodyfat of 9% with a max bench press of 370 pounds and a squat of 410 causes a certain image in people's minds, especially after you get on rings, cages, tatamis and arenas and fight in the level and league of champion fighters and martial artists with empty hand and weapons.

Of course, that also seems effective when your dog tags say "Contraguerrilla" in our Army, since our teams can kick any Navy SeAL team's ass.

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RE: Why does a Sub's Power/Body scare a Mistress? - 1/16/2009 4:06:10 PM

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Dastan just where did you go to war at? You have a vivid imagination. I would like to take you hunting with me. Hell I would even like to have you come to the shooting range that I have made. I doubt that you could even handle the misquitoes.

You are just a gringo who wouldn't survive a week of fighting against guerrillas here in Colombia

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RE: Why does a Sub's Power/Body scare a Mistress? - 1/16/2009 4:08:56 PM

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Op you went to war and parachuted down in the worst of battles yet you did not kill anyone. What were you the cook.

NO, BUT I DIDN'T SHOOT TO THE HEAD OR TORSO AND I DID CAPTURE ENEMY SOLDIERS INJURED, BUT NEVER TOOK A LEG OR ARM OFF WITH BULLET OR BLADE IN ANY FORM. I TOOK THE HK-MP5 IN ORDER TO MAKE SURE OF IT AND I ALSO WAS CAREFUL ENOUGH NOT TO AIM BADLY. I GUESS YOU DID NOT SERVE IN ANY ARMY FOR WHAT I CAN SEE, YOU DON'T KNOW HOW TO SHOOT THAT WAY ? i WOULD ASSUME YOUR COUNTRY KNEW MORE ABOUT SUCH.....

Wait a minute.... on 12/15, you said -

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Secondly madam, I said it because in addition to my reputation during my athletic days, I also served in the army, as all males do once they finish high school, I went to war and parachuted down on the worst battles and I did have to take lives, as any other soldier in the world in battle has done.

That seems inconsistent. What am I missing?

I had to take lives, not kill. It's different when you are jumped by an enemy in an ambush while securing the area or at a control search, that is not a honor kill in combat, it's just putting a down a dog who bit you in the dark, stomping a snake which came out of the grass to bite you.

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RE: Why does a Sub's Power/Body scare a Mistress? - 1/16/2009 4:11:35 PM

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And you wonder why the ladies reject you because of your temper? It isn't your body size dude! It's that attitude...

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RE: Why does a Sub's Power/Body scare a Mistress? - 1/16/2009 4:17:43 PM

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Truth is I am agreeing with Lockit here, my attitude causes me trouble but my body was seen before attitude ever played in.

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RE: Why does a Sub's Power/Body scare a Mistress? - 1/16/2009 4:25:39 PM

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Honey... I am a small person... I have had some huge men. Like King Kong that could put me on their forearm and lift me and hold me there for long periods of time. One was 6'8 and god only knows how big... but in front of a door with the sun behind him... only light coming through was around his shoulders. I have had men rock hard... and big, tough guys and none of them needed the attitude which typically comes from insecurity and tring to prove something and not one of them was I afraid of. Although... some were afraid of me! hehe

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RE: Why does a Sub's Power/Body scare a Mistress? - 1/16/2009 4:45:16 PM

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So you've taken lives, but you don't consider that to be killing.

That's an absolutely amazing rationalization. I'd be willing to speculate that this kind of thought process may be a big reason people shy away from you.

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RE: Why does a Sub's Power/Body scare a Mistress? - 1/16/2009 5:19:06 PM

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Truth is I am agreeing with Lockit here, my attitude causes me trouble but my body was seen before attitude ever played in.

Then, perhaps, instead of continually displaying a condescending attitude and an over-inflated ego you could take the time to work on your humility as much as you body.
The ability to bench press 370lbs means very little if someone can't get past your temper. I would suggest you look to your own sig line and take it one step further...Where does true power lie and how does one attain it?

A little quote to give thought to....
"The winner's edge is not found in a gifted birth, a high IQ, or in talent. The winner's edge is all in the attitude, not aptitude. Attitude is the criterion for success"
I guess it all comes down to a simple question...What's your goal and how will your attitude help you attain it?

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RE: Why does a Sub's Power/Body scare a Mistress? - 1/16/2009 5:39:15 PM

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So you've taken lives, but you don't consider that to be killing.

That's an absolutely amazing rationalization. I'd be willing to speculate that this kind of thought process may be a big reason people shy away from you.

I am imagining you don't know about Colombians bro.....listen, they consider killing someone who suddenly surprises you out of the blue at point-blank range, like a thief hiding in the shadows at the turn of a corner who suddenly bumps into you, even if they have to do it with their hands, the same as killing a mosquito when you swat it against your arm as it is biting you, stinging you or when you suddenly see a cockroach or rat coming at you and you kick or stomp it dead out of reflex. Same rationale for "taking lives". They consider it dishonorable when compared to killing someone in cold blood, like duels or at war, like some Western duel.

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RE: Why does a Sub's Power/Body scare a Mistress? - 1/16/2009 5:56:04 PM

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The fact remains.. in his own country where women are used to this society, they are afraid of him. What would that suggest?

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RE: Why does a Sub's Power/Body scare a Mistress? - 1/16/2009 6:10:39 PM

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dude you have no more extra muscle then any average male

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RE: Why does a Sub's Power/Body scare a Mistress? - 1/16/2009 6:13:00 PM

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So you've taken lives, but you don't consider that to be killing.

That's an absolutely amazing rationalization. I'd be willing to speculate that this kind of thought process may be a big reason people shy away from you.

I am imagining you don't know about Colombians bro.....listen, they consider killing someone who suddenly surprises you out of the blue at point-blank range, like a thief hiding in the shadows at the turn of a corner who suddenly bumps into you, even if they have to do it with their hands, the same as killing a mosquito when you swat it against your arm as it is biting you, stinging you or when you suddenly see a cockroach or rat coming at you and you kick or stomp it dead out of reflex. Same rationale for "taking lives". They consider it dishonorable when compared to killing someone in cold blood, like duels or at war, like some Western duel.

Well, yes and no. My ex-wife (who was born in Venezuela, as a matter of fact) taught there back in the early 80s, in Bogata, and I spent some time there myself back in the mid-70s, mostly in Barranquilla and Santa Marta (loved that town). I had a good friend from Colombia back then, who due to his greed and bad decision-making is now in an American prison. On the other hand, it's been decades since I've been there or even spoken to anyone from Colombia, and given that you live in Venezuela, I'm sure you know a lot more about the current culture in Colombia than I do, so I'll defer to you on that. Given what I do know about the Colombians, I don't have any problem believing that what you say fits.

The man's story still doesn't really add up to me, though. I'm not calling him a liar, because it could probably be explained by cultural differences and the language barrier, and that's a hell of a thing to say about a man unless you're damned sure you're right. But overall, the whole thing just doesn't feel right to me. There's something just not connecting there.

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RE: Why does a Sub's Power/Body scare a Mistress? - 1/17/2009 2:20:08 PM

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I don't understand why you think it's killing to just take someone's life by defense, it's just an honorless act of reaction to danger, but I guess you think differently in your country. And please, Mr Bluepanda, if you know my city, Barranquilla, as well as Santa Marta and Cartagena de Indias you can see how different we are from the people from Bogota, or Medellin, which are less direct and more quiet and cold, while we are of hotter blood and head sometimes, so I hope you enjoyed your trip and I see your views have changed, but Mr Boot Sadist is somehow offending me with his overly biased simplification of what i said, but then again, Venezuela has always been an enemy of my country, and that is a real truth to check....

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RE: Why does a Sub's Power/Body scare a Mistress? - 1/17/2009 3:04:16 PM

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Somehow, I'm calling bs on this whole story.

D, you come off as insecure, overcompensating, and as one of those guys who will just make up bs stories to support their arguments.

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RE: Why does a Sub's Power/Body scare a Mistress? - 1/17/2009 3:10:34 PM

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/agreed on calling this bs, and maybe those "unattractive people" have REAL personalities aside from being pathological liars! It's so fun to argue with blatant lies though, especially when the culprit is WOLVERINE OMG!

Edited for verb/subject agreement (that would have bugged me all day).

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RE: Why does a Sub's Power/Body scare a Mistress? - 1/17/2009 3:18:42 PM

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RE: Why does a Sub's Power/Body scare a Mistress? - 1/18/2009 6:28:51 AM

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I guess if you think it's B.S. it's fine, considering I am not needing anyone to believe it at all. I had my life, I had my experiences, I will have new ones and I'll be happy on my own. Besides, I think it's just your own way to call things being in such a protetive parasitic culture as the USA to deny everything outside your norm. I guess deep down, it is true what I heard about the USA, they aren't racist, they are xenophobic.

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RE: Why does a Sub's Power/Body scare a Mistress? - 1/18/2009 6:43:27 AM

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I think it's just your own way to call things being in such a protetive parasitic culture as the USA to deny everything outside your norm. I guess deep down, it is true what I heard about the USA, they aren't racist, they are xenophobic.

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