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RE: Why does a Sub's Power/Body scare a Mistress? - 1/18/2009 7:06:38 AM

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Amazing.. you come in upset because women in your country are afraid of you and think it is your body size and then call American culture parasitic... You asked for our opinons and if we were afraid of a man's body size. We give our take on things... which most said.. no way were they afriad of a man's body size. Then all this macho stuff and now... some truths come out... just amazing...

Had we agreed with you... and said we were afraid of a man's body size... would that make you feel better darlin? Why ask the opinions.. of people from other countries if one of them was what you considered parasitic in any manner? You find offense in how we do things just as much as anyone here has found what happens in your country.. whatever... If there is misunderstanding.. so be it... but dude... the women are afraid of you in your country... Maybe that hot blood needs to be chilled.

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RE: Why does a Sub's Power/Body scare a Mistress? - 1/18/2009 7:10:04 AM

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Never mind.... M

< Message edited by FullfigRIMAAM1 -- 1/18/2009 7:48:11 AM >

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RE: Why does a Sub's Power/Body scare a Mistress? - 1/19/2009 3:15:55 PM

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ORIGINAL: Lockit

Amazing.. you come in upset because women in your country are afraid of you and think it is your body size and then call American culture parasitic... You asked for our opinons and if we were afraid of a man's body size. We give our take on things... which most said.. no way were they afriad of a man's body size. Then all this macho stuff and now... some truths come out... just amazing...

Had we agreed with you... and said we were afraid of a man's body size... would that make you feel better darlin? Why ask the opinions.. of people from other countries if one of them was what you considered parasitic in any manner? You find offense in how we do things just as much as anyone here has found what happens in your country.. whatever... If there is misunderstanding.. so be it... but dude... the women are afraid of you in your country... Maybe that hot blood needs to be chilled.

The women are not afraid of me. My curse is that although i am not going to say that the women in my country do not posses such a wonderful and tender personality as I could, or any man could ask for, truth is i need, not just want, but NEED someone to be able to tie me to a bed, whip me, make me kiss her feet and lick her boot soles and just control me.

I have never raised my voice to a woman, even when some of them did offend me after a contest or a fight as I went out of the cage or ring, and I have also had some comments made by people of other places which also have taken its toll on me. For that I apologize to you and the other ladies int he chat. I'd apologize to the gentlemen here but I am guessing you all know how to take a punch so there's no need to say "I'm sorry" since it was a mere tap, we are all tough grown-up men here.

It is not easy and I have been alone for now a long time without that significant one I can say that I can call my own to serve and please and who calls me her one and only pride. I got tired of the "one-night-stand" thing or the "fast and furious" relationships which were like a summer love that lasts only so much as two people can be together at the same place under the right circumstances until time passes and the bubble breaks so they must go their separate ways. And I hated it after seeing most of them were nice people...who came here to be bad and find a nice punching bag.

I have been doing a lot of soul searching after a thing here, and it made me put my life in a wide angular perspective seeing how fast it can go away. See, living in my country being me, or a man inside BDSM, even in the lightest degree that is just a step away from the line that separates this lifestyle from the Vanilla side has a nightmarish time. I guess it's like serving a prision sentence in solitary confinement away from even the voice, let alone the faded image of a picture of the woman you love, or any woman at all. I guess that things are this way because I tried to be something my people despises and which I want to be but maybe can't.

I'd like to ask the people in the thread if someone here can assist me and send me a private message if they could in the event they know of any neurologist which specializes in the area of behavioral neurochemistry and phisiology. I guess I need to take a final step to see if this is my side of the line or not, or if I should even get to any lifestyle at all and instead just quit living any.

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RE: Why does a Sub's Power/Body scare a Mistress? - 1/19/2009 8:02:26 PM

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huh? what is a neurologist going to do for you besides examine your head to see if you've taken a few hits too many? so you found out women here in the states and elsewhere found your original idea silly. so move on and stop with the self pity and self sacrifice act. you really sound like someone who has had very little experience with real women. kinky people are everywhere, there are no exceptions. there are only cultural taboos, which make them go even deeper under cover than they normally are. keep looking or move to a more open and liberated society. or get some cheese to go with your whine and "suffer" in silence.
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RE: Why does a Sub's Power/Body scare a Mistress? - 1/19/2009 8:32:43 PM

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Been there too! I tried to solicit decent looking men for a school assignment a few years back and every applicant was either very fat, a bad tranny or a cross of the two. Where are all the decent looking straight guys?
I just got into the lifestyle and the unappealing men I am meeting are driving me out of it already.

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RE: Why does a Sub's Power/Body scare a Mistress? - 1/20/2009 3:17:39 PM

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huh? what is a neurologist going to do for you besides examine your head to see if you've taken a few hits too many? so you found out women here in the states and elsewhere found your original idea silly. so move on and stop with the self pity and self sacrifice act. you really sound like someone who has had very little experience with real women. kinky people are everywhere, there are no exceptions. there are only cultural taboos, which make them go even deeper under cover than they normally are. keep looking or move to a more open and liberated society. or get some cheese to go with your whine and "suffer" in silence.
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Nice joke. I am laughing at it a lot, considering you did nail it right on the head. I had injuries that changed me, but I have also a birth condition which allowed me to survive them, except that as you guess, it sort of accentuated it. But then again, it's my problem, not yours, if you can't provide the data for such a therapist as I require, it's ok, we can all laugh at jokes the same we can make fun of dying by a tumor when visiting a cancer patient with one, right ?

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