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RE: Cutting off noses to spite faces - 12/19/2008 11:23:19 AM

KatyLied

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I have no way of knowing, but I think she told him to spend time with the ex, thinking that he would choose his property over his ex (and adult children). I see his actions speaking in a loud manner, and one in which his property should take heed, if she wants to understand her place in his life.

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RE: Cutting off noses to spite faces - 12/19/2008 11:40:11 AM

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Would your position, the.dark, be that no Dominant would ever discuss the options with a submissive while contemplating a decision? I tend to be the type who wants to hear input when I am regarding one matter or the other. I find the more information that I have on a particular subject, the better decision I tend to make.

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Greetings Lady P and I will certain pass on your regards to Master! I do hope this day finds you well.

Regarding your question - my position would be that of course a dominant may discuss whatever he/she chooses with his/her property(I will use that label for now as I find it covers all bases). However, I did not get the impression that the OP and her dominant had a discussion. He changed his plans to please another, possibly himself - that part isn't clear. From Masters POV, he would never alter plans he had confirmed with me unless there was a clear reason such as illness or emotional problems, this I have already been informed. The man in this scenario could have spoken with his property before agreeing to seeing his ex - on her birthday, on boxing day, on a day already prearranged with his property. Him not doing so clearly indicates he has no understanding or possibly care, of his property's emotions and feelings.

In all honesty Lady Pact, I do not see any dominance in his actions and I for one would not be able to submit to man who relinquished authority so easily to two different women allowing for the old come back - 'well I did what you asked' to excuse his actions if confronted by either.

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RE: Cutting off noses to spite faces - 12/19/2008 2:15:32 PM

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Thank you, the.dark, for responding. I was interested in your view.

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