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RE: weeding out wannabees - 1/5/2006 4:35:56 PM

LadyMorgynn

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I don't even get THAT far! I require full disclosure of real name, address (home) and phone (home, not cell) before I will consider meeting someone in person, and that's usually the last I hear of them. Don't let anyone tell you you're not a "real" sub because of that! It's a matter of safety (as well as weeding out the married ones)... and hey, I'm a Domme!

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ORIGINAL: indybbwsubbie

i have posted in my profile that due to all the players out there - i do require to see a driver's license and i do use a safe call on the 1st meeting. i have had a couple tell me that this scared them off.......and that i was too demanding and should not be a sub. But after being way too trusting and burnt in the past - i feel i can't be too careful and questioning to someone i meet!

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RE: weeding out wannabees - 1/5/2006 5:20:59 PM

Petruchio

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ORIGINAL: indybbwsubbie

i have posted in my profile that due to all the players out there - i do require to see a driver's license and i do use a safe call on the 1st meeting. i have had a couple tell me that this scared them off.......and that i was too demanding and should not be a sub. But after being way too trusting and burnt in the past - i feel i can't be too careful and questioning to someone i meet!

And i am sure getting tired as hell of having the married guys message me and play me...when i clearly state that i am looking for one dom who wants just one sub! Hats off to those who are involved in a healthy poly home - but that is not for me....nor is committing adultry with some married man who is cheating on his wife.

The DL could be a problem for someone without a scanner, but frankly, as a very protective male, these days I think women have to take every sensible precaution. I'd also suggest such things as carrying along a cell phone and calling a friend with his car's license tag, calling again if you end up in an apartment.

Of course guys worry about coming across that stalking Fatal Attraction / Play Misty who'll puncture his tires, shoot out his windows, and poison his dog.

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