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Im the Master she's the...???? - 1/2/2009 9:10:34 PM   
MasterTroyV


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Status: offline 		Howdy all.  Up until a few weeks ago being a Master was just a dream......Now I am.  A friend of mine and I were talking and somehow the subject came up.  Now im kinda new to this and I don't quit know what to call her.  Not slave as she does not prefer that term but in our agreement it was agreed that she would be mine......until such a time as either one of us decides to end our arrangment.  Calling her Sub isn't quite right either.....

Any suggestions.

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Master Troy
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RE: Im the Master she's the...???? - 1/2/2009 9:21:35 PM   
LuckyAlbatross


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RE: Im the Master she's the...???? - 1/2/2009 9:29:13 PM   
littlewonder


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RE: Im the Master she's the...???? - 1/2/2009 9:29:44 PM   
suhlut


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Status: offline 		her "given name" always works.

At other moments.. pet.. "Mine".. slut.. whore.. baby.. princess.. well whatever works at any given moment.

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RE: Im the Master she's the...???? - 1/2/2009 9:30:55 PM   
DarkSteven


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Status: offline 		Troy, I already addressed this on your Introduction.

You are NOT a Master.  You may well be a Dom. 

You could just call her "yours" when talking to kinksters and your gf when talking to vanillas.  But seriously, in the scheme of things, it's not a big deal.

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RE: Im the Master she's the...???? - 1/2/2009 9:34:03 PM   
penandknife


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Status: offline 		Well, it may just be because I have an inordinate amount of love for Depeche Mode, but I have a preference for "servant" being used with "Master". 

... dammit, now it's stuck in my head!

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RE: Im the Master she's the...???? - 1/2/2009 9:34:30 PM   
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Status: offline 		Just call her "yours" or "sweetling", she'll know what it means.  

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RE: Im the Master she's the...???? - 1/2/2009 10:21:09 PM   
nevaehangel


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Status: offline 		Daddy calls me Princess...unless I'm in trouble then its my full name *grimaces* or baby, whatever you choose to use works it doesn't have to be anything specific just something that means something to YOU

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RE: Im the Master she's the...???? - 1/2/2009 11:56:52 PM   
Lordandmaster


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Status: offline 		Sounds good to me.  If she "prefers" not to be called slave, just call her cunt instead.  That might teach her something about preferences.

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ORIGINAL: LuckyAlbatross

Cunt?

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RE: Im the Master she's the...???? - 1/3/2009 12:03:49 AM   
MasterTroyV


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Status: offline 		Thank you all for your replies they help alot.  My conclusion is that as long as we both understand what she really is then what I call her does not matter in the least........and should not matter to her.

Thanks

Master Troy

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RE: Im the Master she's the...???? - 1/3/2009 2:33:54 AM   
Focus50


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quote:

ORIGINAL: MasterTroyV

Howdy all.  Up until a few weeks ago being a Master was just a dream......Now I am.  A friend of mine and I were talking and somehow the subject came up.  Now im kinda new to this and I don't quit know what to call her.  Not slave as she does not prefer that term but in our agreement it was agreed that she would be mine......until such a time as either one of us decides to end our arrangment.  Calling her Sub isn't quite right either.....

Any suggestions.

Crikey, what's wrong with the very simple and common objectifed term of "girl"?  It's what I mostly call mine and I even got many a positive response from my past nilla partners.... 
 
But the real difference is in the delivery (rather than the actual word) because tone and relationship dynamic give context.  Conversely, when some shop assistant calls me "Sir", it means practically zero but a lot rides on the girl getting it right.
 
Focus. 

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RE: Im the Master she's the...???? - 1/3/2009 2:48:51 AM   
Focus50


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quote:

ORIGINAL: MasterTroyV

Thank you all for your replies they help alot.  My conclusion is that as long as we both understand what she really is then what I call her does not matter in the least........and should not matter to her.

Thanks

Master Troy

Errrr, isn't that kinda like a vanillary "we both know we love each other so it does not matter in the least if we never say it....?" 
 
In an authority based dynamic, this kinda wishy-washy "does not matter in the least" attitude from you is gonna bring you a world of pain in the form of a disrespectful brat in no time - good luck with that.  Any fool can call themself "Master" but a sub/slave needs to know it and feel that it's real, otherwise they instinctively test the boundaries - which is not their fault!
 
Yorta rethink that last statement ASAP....
 
Focus. 

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RE: Im the Master she's the...???? - 1/3/2009 3:15:09 AM   
Catgirl711


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Status: offline 		I'm actually very partial to "girl"

Spoken with care, I feel adored like Daddy's girl.
Spoken sternly, I feel scolded like a dog.
Spoken with indifference, I feel meaningless like a piece of property.

Very versatile.
Even works well with 'nillas to say "she's my girl"
Hell, sing at karaoke, it'll be your little joke, lol 


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RE: Im the Master she's the...???? - 1/3/2009 3:44:29 AM   
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Status: offline 		why doen't you ask her what she wants to be called? Her answer might speak volumes

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RE: Im the Master she's the...???? - 1/3/2009 3:46:01 AM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: penandknife

Well, it may just be because I have an inordinate amount of love for Depeche Mode, but I have a preference for "servant" being used with "Master". 

... dammit, now it's stuck in my head!




here too...love that song :P

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RE: Im the Master she's the...???? - 1/3/2009 5:01:41 AM   
sambamanslilgirl


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quote:

ORIGINAL: MasterTroyV

Thank you all for your replies they help alot.  My conclusion is that as long as we both understand what she really is then what I call her does not matter in the least........and should not matter to her.

Thanks

Master Troy


it should matter to you ...and if (that's if, folks) i was her - it would also matter to me because if you used the wrong word as my name, you're not going to like my reaction.

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RE: Im the Master she's the...???? - 1/3/2009 5:27:59 AM   
Lynnxz


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Heh, you'd do well to ignore some of the overblown egos in this thread OP.

Find something that works for both of you, as long as you two are happy, nothing else really counts for shit.

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RE: Im the Master she's the...???? - 1/3/2009 5:34:26 AM   
VampiresLair


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quote:

ORIGINAL: MasterTroyV
.and should not matter to her.



Of course it should matter to her. Your agreement said until one of you chooses to leave, that means by your agreement she still has a say. Just because she is yours doesnt mean that after 2 weeks you get all the power and she gets none. It doesnt work that way. You start using insulting names she doesnt like, as she doesnt prefer slave, then she might decide that leaving sooner rather than later is a good idea.

I call my boy Fox, I gave him the slave name when I collared him. The one before him was Angel, and he got his name around the same time. My questions is, why do you need SOMETHING to call her? She came with a name, and forcing a title or nickname never works out well. Just wait until something comes to you, and that will work.

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RE: Im the Master she's the...???? - 1/3/2009 5:39:07 AM   
KatyLied


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Status: offline 		Note to self:  Find out what the dom wants to call you before agreeing to be his.

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RE: Im the Master she's the...???? - 1/3/2009 5:52:39 AM   
BondageBarbieX


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Status: offline 		Lil girl,baby girl are yummy..I am not much into the derogatory terms like slut,whore,bitch etc...I am sure you will find her something 

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