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ORIGINAL: Naberius

1998, November 14th I was meeting my slaves at the airport where they were picking me up. On their way to me, they were struck by a dump truck and killed at the scene. I never got to say goodbye. Nicole, 19, Amber, 26 and Nyte 53. It has taken me 10 years to finally get over it and seek a new family. 

I met the girls through a LONG process of searching. I had the poly family I wanted so much, and it took a good 9 years just to develop and it took seconds to end that.

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ORIGINAL: Naberius

1998, November 14th I was meeting my slaves at the airport where they were picking me up. On their way to me, they were struck by a dump truck and killed at the scene. I never got to say goodbye. Nicole, 19, Amber, 26 and Nyte 53. It has taken me 10 years to finally get over it and seek a new family. 

I met the girls through a LONG process of searching. I had the poly family I wanted so much, and it took a good 9 years just to develop and it took seconds to end that.

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ORIGINAL: Naberius

1998, November 14th I was meeting my slaves at the airport where they were picking me up. On their way to me, they were struck by a dump truck and killed at the scene. I never got to say goodbye. Nicole, 19, Amber, 26 and Nyte 53. It has taken me 10 years to finally get over it and seek a new family. 

I met the girls through a LONG process of searching. I had the poly family I wanted so much, and it took a good 9 years just to develop and it took seconds to end that.

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ORIGINAL: chicagoswitch

He simply, and quite literally just walked away, not a word of explanation, not even a good bye.  Why?  I wish I knew.  I'm putting it behind me the best I can.

That is exactly what my first (and last) Dom did.  No human being deserves to be treated this way.

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ORIGINAL: MyWorldCT

This is hard to write, even now, but it is the ending of my first "real" D/s relationship.  I thank Narberius, for his post and know his pain personally.  Here it goes...

In March (2 weeks before my birthday) of 1997, I came home after being at a filming shoot (I managed the food service/craft services for MGM Studios then) and was eager to see my one and only, my girl Lisa.  I searched the apartment and did not find her.  I called her work number and she did not show up for work the past 2 days.  I started to get worried.  I called her mother in San Francisco and her mother did not hear from her for a few days.

I was very worried now.  I called 3 of her friends, and 2 of them had been trying to call her for 2 days now and came to the apartment, but could not find her.  I was very, very worried.

I did not know what to think, but being the neat-freak I was, I saw that the trash needed to be taken out and opened the door to the back stairway and dropped the bag of garbage and sank to my knees.  She was lying at the bottom of the stairs dead.  The police said she must have slipped and fell, breaking her neck.

I was broken... totally broken... It took about 2 years for me to even look at another woman, until I met my ex-girl Jillian (Jill).  She is a very successful model and actress in LA to this day and why I am here now and she is there now is another story, but that can wait for another day.

Savor every minute you are with your One.  They can be gone in a minute.  Make sure they know you appreciate them and their role in your life, whatever it is... sub, slave, Dom, Domme

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ORIGINAL: chicagoswitch

He simply, and quite literally just walked away, not a word of explanation, not even a good bye.  Why?  I wish I knew.  I'm putting it behind me the best I can.

That is exactly what my first (and last) Dom did.  No human being deserves to be treated this way.

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ORIGINAL: StrangerThan

How it started? Fucking her on desk in her office - and that literally was how the relationship started.

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ORIGINAL: hardbodysub

She got engaged to another guy. That's where I draw the line. I dumped her right away.

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ORIGINAL: GrizzlyBear

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ORIGINAL: hardbodysub

She got engaged to another guy. That's where I draw the line. I dumped her right away.

Hah!  Sounds funny but might not be a joke at all...  I broke it off with one after she went to visit her off-and-on vanilla boyfriend who lived 500 miles away, and came back married.  She was 29, it was her 4th marriage.  But she told me he was still OK with her playing around, as they weren't going to live together for at least a year, and he had something going on the side too.  Said he knew all about us. Turned out he didn't... 

Got very ugly when he found out.  Said something about coming for a visit and bringing his .44 Magnum.  That's where I drew the line - she lied to me.

Their marriage was annulled two weeks later.  I refused to ever see her again.  Four years later, she contacted me again on IM and begged me to see her.  I asked if she was unattached, she said no she was living with yet another vanilla guy who couldn't satisfy her.  Some people never learn.

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ORIGINAL: GrizzlyBear

I refused to ever see her again.  Four years later, she contacted me again on IM and begged me to see her.  I asked if she was unattached, she said no she was living with yet another vanilla guy who couldn't satisfy her.  Some people never learn.

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ORIGINAL: StormsSlave

My Lord took me away from him.  He wooed, convinced, and tempted me away from him.  It ended because we weren't meeting one another's needs.  It's amicable enough.  He still pays for my AAA membership, but probably because he has no one else to share it with, anyway. 

He took it hard at first, trying to fix all the things I had told him were bothering me.  I tried to give him space to get through it, but we don't hate each other.