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RE: Do you find it annoying... - 1/20/2009 7:04:54 AM   
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RE: Do you find it annoying... - 1/20/2009 7:07:52 AM   
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RE: Do you find it annoying... - 1/20/2009 7:25:18 AM   
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RE: Do you find it annoying... - 1/20/2009 10:33:16 AM   
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sometimes the sun rising can be annoying :) 


As a non-morning person, I completely agree that the sun rising can be annoying.  Sometimes the best part of winter here is that the sun doesn't actually rise until after 9 AM.  

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RE: Do you find it annoying... - 1/20/2009 10:52:26 AM   
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RE: Do you find it annoying... - 1/20/2009 1:18:44 PM   
DrSysAdmin


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Status: offline 		ok - smartass comment here  to the OP -  but did it ever occur to you that we like hearing ourselves talk and its part of your service to make us think your paying attention???? 

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RE: Do you find it annoying... - 1/20/2009 8:08:09 PM   
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When a Dom makes long long speeches or gives you tasks to do that have nothing to do with a Dom/sub type setting?


I'm sure I'd find long-winded speeches annoying if that was something I had to deal with, yeah. As for the other.... what is a Dom/sub setting? It sounds like maybe the two of you have different ideas about what that means.

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RE: Do you find it annoying... - 1/20/2009 8:11:51 PM   
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its part of your service to make us think your paying attention???? 


That's why we paint eyeballs on our eyelids.  We just have to work on making snoring sound like "yes Sir".


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RE: Do you find it annoying... - 1/20/2009 8:39:16 PM   
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its part of your service to make us think your paying attention???? 


That's why we paint eyeballs on our eyelids.  We just have to work on making snoring sound like "yes Sir".


Cali



Yes, and when our heads start bobbing, it is just us nodding in agreement, and sometimes bowing in deference.  Not at all an indication we are nodding off!

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RE: Do you find it annoying... - 1/21/2009 9:06:20 AM   
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How can something taste bad that's covered in butter? 


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RE: Do you find it annoying... - 1/21/2009 10:17:19 AM   
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its part of your service to make us think your paying attention???? 


That's why we paint eyeballs on our eyelids.  We just have to work on making snoring sound like "yes Sir".


Cali



OK, now I have to clean the monitor !  lol

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RE: Do you find it annoying... - 1/21/2009 3:36:13 PM   
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When a Dom makes long long speeches or gives you tasks to do that have nothing to do with a Dom/sub type setting?

I'm a type that likes things to be pretty cut and dry, you know, get your points across, no flowery long ass speeches that take all day.  Unless you have a voice that's a joy to listen to, it's not really interesting to me.  I'll loose focus pretty easy, and it might be ADD, who knows, I am and Art student after all lol.  But long winded speeches really don't interest me, especially when it's added in with others own beliefs, say if they think they can read stones, or your energy or have psychic ability.  really just makes them sound like a nutjob to me.
The other thing is, does a Dom ever give you subs a random text message to look up somethign for him that has nothing to do with you and him/her and your relationship?  Does it annoy you?  It annoys me.  I'm not a personal secretary...personal secretaries get PAID...

Any other annoying little things you've exsperienced that are thigns you'd preffer if a Dom didn't do?  Oh and Doms feel free to say any little annoying thing that you see subs do that you wish wouldn't be.  ^_~



In a D/s relationship you're more than just a Dom and sub, you are two human beings who are choosing to be with each other. Hence I'd assume it'd be wise to make sure that fundamentally as human beings you get along and have things in common and find each other interesting. My Master is very spiritual, very into all of the psychic and energy work stuff, but so am I so I love the conversations he and I can have about it. If you are not spiritual than it would probably be beneficial for you to be with a Dom who is also non-spiritual so you're not faking interest in something you don't relate to. As far as the him having you look random stuff up for him...to me little things like that ARE part of a healthy D/s relationship, because by helping him out with these little tasks you are helping make his life a little easier, and if you are with a Dom you really care about and want to serve the desire to make his life easier will be there. I'm happy when my Master has me take care of little tasks for him, it means he trusts me to do a good job at whatever he's asked and that he's willing to accept my assistance. I love to do things to try to make him happy, and he does plenty of things to make me very happy as well :)
Honestly if I were you I would reevaluate my relationship and see if I was really with the Dom that's right for me, or if I even was ready to be a lifestyle submissive at all since a large part of being submissive is SERVING your Master.

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RE: Do you find it annoying... - 1/21/2009 5:42:11 PM   
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RE: Do you find it annoying... - 1/21/2009 7:14:15 PM   
maatsubJ


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Status: offline 		I cannot honestly say that I've ever been bothered by one of Daddy's request. I love him and belong to him so I consider it a joy to help him out.  This means I look up stuff for him, clean for him, go out and get things if he doesn't have time.  My purpose is that of any other help-mate submissive or otherwise, to be a help not a hindrance.  Now if your submissiveness is solely sexual then you'd best inform the Dominant and any future Dominants you have, but if the sound of his voice annoys you or you'd rather choke him than listen wellll then it's a bit deeper lol.

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RE: Do you find it annoying... - 1/22/2009 2:51:19 AM   
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Status: offline 		This is a huge contradition from your reply in the other thread , where you said if you don't want to do it, what ever it may be you won't and your dom knows better than to think otherwise..
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I am eager to please and perform tasks for my Daddy..I do not care if they are insignificant or not.


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RE: Do you find it annoying... - 1/22/2009 7:33:11 AM   
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I see the comment Lip Service being used and was drawn to wonder what we really mean by it. Are we agreeing with a speaker and ignoring what they say with no intention of following through? Here is what Wiki said:  From Wikipedia, the free encyclopedia

Lip service is an idiom meaning "minimal compliance only".

Lip service may also refer to:
I always thought it was a nice polite way if referring to a specific form of Oral Sex…

< Message edited by IronBear -- 1/22/2009 7:34:41 AM >

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RE: Do you find it annoying... - 1/22/2009 7:39:30 AM   
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Status: offline 		I've always used lip service to mean agreeing to whatever someone says... just to shut them up for a second. Something akin to "No, no that dress doesn't make you look fat, now can we go please?"

Off topic... it's also a brand of clothing that looks great, but seems to be made for funny shaped, short armed people.


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RE: Do you find it annoying... - 1/22/2009 5:03:45 PM   
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Every night in my pad
I see him, I hear him
And it bugs me that he does go on
And within the bedroom
And bedclothes between us
I have a dom who shows he just goes on
Near, far, wherever I am
I believe that my whining also goes on
Once more, not wishing to bore
And I'm here on CM, and my whine will go on and on

My Master can talk for a long time
My whining, a lifetime
And I will never know 'bout who is bored
I'm a straightforward submissive
Just need freedom, and a true dom
But my dom goes on and on
Near, far, wherever I am
I believe that my whining also goes on
Once more, not wishing to bore
And I'm here on CM, and my whine will go on and on

You're here
And to make it more clear
And I know that my whine will go on
I may
Forever stay this way
I just like to whine
And my whine will go on and on

original Celine Dion 'My heart will go on' (Theme from the Titanic)



ROFL!!!!! Did you write that?? *applauds*

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RE: Do you find it annoying... - 1/24/2009 8:56:07 AM   
DrSysAdmin


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Status: offline 		Well at least folks finally took something I said in the same sense of jest it was posted in! Huzzah!

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RE: Do you find it annoying... - 1/24/2009 9:24:10 AM   
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Well at least folks finally took something I said in the same sense of jest it was posted in! Huzzah!



*puts on my soft creepy voice*... I'm your number one fan.

In the spirit of the thread... I hope that wasn't annoying.


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