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StormsSlave -> RE: The cock =the pathway to the mind?? (1/23/2009 11:08:37 PM)

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ORIGINAL: MarcEsadrian


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ORIGINAL: StormsSlave

This isn't a d/s thing.  This is a human thing.  A woman thing.  Being sub doesn't have anything to do with it.  Asking for anything with a mouthful of cock increases one's chances of getting it exponentially.


That depends on who's cock you have in your mouth, I'd say. Choose your victim wisely, or the joke will be on you, I suppose.

"Being sub doesn't have anything to do with it."

Precisely my point.


I find it much more productive to just ask for what I want outright, and accept the yes or no, or argue my point if it becomes necessary to do so, or I feel it strongly enough.  I would rather not be with a  man so easy to manipulate, but I sure do know a lot of men being lead around by the nose...er...cock.




StormsSlave -> RE: The cock =the pathway to the mind?? (1/23/2009 11:14:10 PM)

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ORIGINAL: daddysprop247

but you see here you are making many assumptions...you are assuming that a submissive finds an orgasm to be physically gratifying or pleasing, you are assuming that the act of giving head to a man cannot be physically stimulating or arousing to a submissive woman, you are assuming that a submissive would prefer to be engaging in some other sexual activity, etc. and perhaps that has indeed been the case for the submissives you have encountered in life....and if that is true, then just know that you have not ever truly experienced what it is like to be with a real submissive woman.



So, am I not subly then because giving a blow job is not the most exciting thing in my universe?  Seriously?  Being submissive isn't for me about only getting to do the things I want with My Lord, which requires no real submission, but in doing the things I don't, which does. 




NorthernGent -> RE: The cock =the pathway to the mind?? (1/24/2009 2:18:15 AM)

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ORIGINAL: CelticPrince

NGent,

That seems kindas harsh!

CP



Come on Celtic, even a female burrow owl can 'take care of the cock'. Surely humans are a cut above when it comes to dreams and aspirations and require more than a second rate sexual act to derive continuous pleasure, peace and harmony.




CelticPrince -> RE: The cock =the pathway to the mind?? (1/24/2009 3:40:00 AM)

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ORIGINAL: NorthernGent

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ORIGINAL: CelticPrince

NGent,

That seems kindas harsh!

CP



Come on Celtic, even a female burrow owl can 'take care of the cock'. Surely humans are a cut above when it comes to dreams and aspirations and require more than a second rate sexual act to derive continuous pleasure, peace and harmony.


NGent,

Grins, now that I can agree with, it is just that I find it easier to just say no thanks and walk away.

CP




colouredin -> RE: The cock =the pathway to the mind?? (1/24/2009 4:13:09 AM)

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ORIGINAL: NorthernGent

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ORIGINAL: CelticPrince

she replied she had learned that she could much better retrieve what she wanted from the relationship by just taking care of her dominant's cock



Send her 'round. She can take care of my cock before I hang her upside down from my kitchen window with a placard above her feet: "Hello, I am a total fuckin' idiot whose brain hasn't progressed beyond the capacity of an infant. I believe I can achieve my aims by means of manipulating 'the cock'. So, here I am for your amusement. Yours regretfully." 


I gotta say after pages and pages of this stuff I am so glad that someone said this, I was starting to loose all faith in everything I thought to be true. I find so many of the posts here to be really sexist, if there was another thread saying that all you need to do to make a woman do what you want is buy her a pair of shoes or some other stereotype people would be climbing from the walls here. And yet here is a really rather offensive comment made about men and its ok. Im sorry but I actually think a bit more of men than that. Sure most will like a blow job thats fine but the assumption that their world revolves around it is really bigoted.




IronBear -> RE: The cock =the pathway to the mind?? (1/24/2009 5:33:39 AM)

I have a close friend, a Master in many areas including a Gorean Home who exerts an unusual amount of self discipline. Yet he has commented (He is strictly heterosexual to a fault but is understanding to other folks choices and orientations), Yet he has commented that he believes that there is somewhere a male whom he could find sexually attractive. His comment about this discussion was, after laughing himself silly, was of course a slave could manipulate, or appear to do so, him by handling or sucking his cock; but it would be manipulation in a direction he was going anyway.. It is a jolly game after all you just need to know the rules or play the game according to your own rules.. 




agirl -> RE: The cock =the pathway to the mind?? (1/24/2009 2:17:33 PM)

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ORIGINAL: colouredin

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ORIGINAL: NorthernGent

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ORIGINAL: CelticPrince

she replied she had learned that she could much better retrieve what she wanted from the relationship by just taking care of her dominant's cock



Send her 'round. She can take care of my cock before I hang her upside down from my kitchen window with a placard above her feet: "Hello, I am a total fuckin' idiot whose brain hasn't progressed beyond the capacity of an infant. I believe I can achieve my aims by means of manipulating 'the cock'. So, here I am for your amusement. Yours regretfully." 


I gotta say after pages and pages of this stuff I am so glad that someone said this, I was starting to loose all faith in everything I thought to be true. I find so many of the posts here to be really sexist, if there was another thread saying that all you need to do to make a woman do what you want is buy her a pair of shoes or some other stereotype people would be climbing from the walls here. And yet here is a really rather offensive comment made about men and its ok. Im sorry but I actually think a bit more of men than that. Sure most will like a blow job thats fine but the assumption that their world revolves around it is really bigoted.


You got further than I did!....lol

I was beginning to really appeciate the men that I know.

As Ironbear said ........ Guys I know are getting laid, FULLY aware that the gal THINKS she's doing the pulling.......but is just going where they both want.

I do know one chap that is a bit *dick-led* but it's not restricted to his dick. It extends to money and any other *service* that he wants at any particular time and even HE is *allowing it* , for his own ends.

To be fair, there were a fair few posts that refuted the old *stroke a dick and he's putty*....lol

agirl

Edited to add...Women have sensitive bits too...and can be *led* by them .....lol












kallisto -> RE: The cock =the pathway to the mind?? (1/24/2009 2:28:34 PM)

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ORIGINAL: agirl

Edited to add...Women have sensitive bits too...and can be *led* by them .....lol



[:)]  I thought the very same thing, but figured that was a whole 'nother thread.  [:)]




agirl -> RE: The cock =the pathway to the mind?? (1/24/2009 2:51:13 PM)

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ORIGINAL: kallisto

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ORIGINAL: agirl

Edited to add...Women have sensitive bits too...and can be *led* by them .....lol



[:)]  I thought the very same thing, but figured that was a whole 'nother thread.  [:)]


It's a well kept secret......wink

agirl






CelticPrince -> RE: The cock =the pathway to the mind?? (1/24/2009 9:19:36 PM)

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ORIGINAL: agirl

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ORIGINAL: kallisto

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ORIGINAL: agirl

Edited to add...Women have sensitive bits too...and can be *led* by them .....lol



agirl,

see there you went and spoiled it, now everyone knows.

CP

[:)]  I thought the very same thing, but figured that was a whole 'nother thread.  [:)]


It's a well kept secret......wink

agirl







NorthernGent -> RE: The cock =the pathway to the mind?? (1/25/2009 1:07:41 AM)

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ORIGINAL: CelticPrince

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ORIGINAL: NorthernGent

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ORIGINAL: CelticPrince

NGent,

That seems kindas harsh!

CP



Come on Celtic, even a female burrow owl can 'take care of the cock'. Surely humans are a cut above when it comes to dreams and aspirations and require more than a second rate sexual act to derive continuous pleasure, peace and harmony.


NGent,

Grins, now that I can agree with, it is just that I find it easier to just say no thanks and walk away.

CP


That's an admirable approach. My instinct is teach someone a lesson where they're trying to get one over on me. Some may it's a lot of trouble to go to, but then there's the pleasure derived from humiliating someone who deserves to be humiliated.




CelticPrince -> RE: The cock =the pathway to the mind?? (1/25/2009 9:13:01 AM)

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ORIGINAL: NorthernGent

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ORIGINAL: CelticPrince

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ORIGINAL: NorthernGent

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ORIGINAL: CelticPrince

NGent,

That seems kindas harsh!

CP



Come on Celtic, even a female burrow owl can 'take care of the cock'. Surely humans are a cut above when it comes to dreams and aspirations and require more than a second rate sexual act to derive continuous pleasure, peace and harmony.


NGent,

Grins, now that I can agree with, it is just that I find it easier to just say no thanks and walk away.

CP


That's an admirable approach. My instinct is teach someone a lesson where they're trying to get one over on me. Some may it's a lot of trouble to go to, but then there's the pleasure derived from humiliating someone who deserves to be humiliated.


NGent

V iva La difference!

CP




Andalusite -> RE: The cock =the pathway to the mind?? (1/25/2009 8:38:25 PM)

I disagree with her, but even if she's correct, what does that have to do with being a submissive rather than a switch? Is she seriously claiming that only male Dominants are pushovers this way, while submissive and switch men are able to see right through her?




Amaros -> RE: The cock =the pathway to the mind?? (1/26/2009 9:05:21 AM)

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ORIGINAL: Gwynvyd

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ORIGINAL: Amaros

i.e., oral is categorically a more intimate thing, like kissing, it isn't a procreative act, no other animal does it, unless they do it to themselves.


Um.... http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Animal_sexuality#Oral_sex

Gwyn
Well my dogs do lick each other a little bit, but I've never seen one of them actually getting into getting another one off - and I don't think even Bonobo's kiss, which is what I was talking about - the point being I've never seen two other animals laying there sucking face for a half an hour like human will do.




CelticPrince -> RE: The cock =the pathway to the mind?? (1/30/2009 6:35:42 AM)

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ORIGINAL: kallisto

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ORIGINAL: agirl

Edited to add...Women have sensitive bits too...and can be *led* by them .....lol



[:)]  I thought the very same thing, but figured that was a whole 'nother thread.  [:)]


kallisto,

I kept looking for the new thread but I see it not.

CP




MsDDom -> RE: The cock =the pathway to the mind?? (1/30/2009 10:39:11 PM)

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ORIGINAL: hardbodysub

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The cock =the pathway to the mind



always...any man




MistressRouge -> RE: The cock =the pathway to the mind?? (1/31/2009 1:51:39 AM)

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ORIGINAL: hardbodysub

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The cock =the pathway to the mind


And vice versa.


My thoughts exactly, if the mind isnt there, the cock wont be either lol [:)]




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