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daddysprop247 -> RE: The cock =the pathway to the mind?? (1/21/2009 8:53:04 PM)
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ORIGINAL: secretmaster22
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ORIGINAL: marie2
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ORIGINAL: Amaros
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But you still can't deny that the enjoyment either sexually or otherwise that someone receives from it has much more to do with the enjoyment of pleasing another rather than actually physical stimulation. That sounds like an opinion.
This reminds me a lot of the topic that comes up once a week here: "Is it a submissive act when a Dom goes down on his sub"
Some think it is, some think it isn't. I agree it's a subjective thing, but I also see where Secret is coming from in a sense. Whether dom or sub, whether sucking cock or going down on a female, I think (but I'm not speaking for all people) that most of us when performing oral sex, are focused mainly upon the pleasure and sexual stimulation of the receiving partner. This isn't to say that the "giving" partner isn't necessarily enjoying it on some level, but aren't most of us concentrating on getting our partner off sexually (rather than ourselves) when we're giving them oral?
As a dominate I would have to say that just because I get enjoyment from pleasing my submissive doesn't make it a submissive act. I'm sure it depends entirely on the dominate and what he desires. Certainly some doms could see oral as a dominate thing because it gives them control over the person in some way. I can control what I do with my tongue, how much I tease her, the things I want her to feel.
So let me ask you a question since we are debating the topic. Let's say a guy has the ability to get hard, but has no ability to feel anything you are doing to his cock. Would you at all enjoy giving him head?? If so then I am way off base. But my guess would be that it would be rather unenjoyable for pretty much anybody. Having said that, it would mean that the sexual gratification you receive from it would be strictly in the mind, and flowing to the body, and completely based on the idea of pleasuring another. I've never sucked a cock so I won't presume i am right. Please feel free to tell me otherwise, cause now I'm curious.
first, as stated by LA, "dominant" is a noun, "dominate" is a verb. sorry, just couldn't keep it in.
now as far as your paragraph above, the same could apply to any sexual act, not simply cocksucking. as a submissive, my pleasure/fulfillment from sex comes primarily from pleasing my partner, from knowing that a man is enjoying his use of my and my service. if a man were fucking me and getting nothing out of it, then it follows that i wouldn't get anything out of it either. now, does this kind of pleasure always translate to actual physical arousal? of course not, it may or may not. but nonetheless the fulfillment in the sexual act, for me anyhow, comes from pleasing my partner.
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