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NecesitesMe -> RE: The cock =the pathway to the mind?? (1/21/2009 4:11:38 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: marie2 I believe that feeding the ego is far more effective than stroking the cock. Only if the ego is bigger than the cock.

agirl -> RE: The cock =the pathway to the mind?? (1/21/2009 6:13:39 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: CelticPrince quote: ORIGINAL: agirl quote: ORIGINAL: CelticPrince quote: ORIGINAL: MarcEsadrian quote: ORIGINAL: CelticPrince And there is a perfect example of why a "dominant" male should have control of his man part. In many examples I've seen throughout life, the cock is the anti-mind for men (laughing). It's quite a challenge for us males; weakness to sexual influence has been bred into our very genes. I would point out, however, that it's not ultimately productive for the female "in control" at the moment. You go after a man who is lead around by his sex drive and (through your manipulations) encourage him to be even more so? Don't feel too bad when he jumps to consume the next passing object of interest. I may be in the minority with this opinion, but I believe authentically submissive women respect men who aren't slaves to their sex drives. There is no nobility in a man who is such a carnal wimp. I don't think that's limited to 'authentically submissive women'. I don't actually know ANY women that consider it noble or something to respect. agirl agirl, Methinks you got your quotes mixed up, as I did not say what you appear to have me quoting. CP It's just how the quote boxes turned out.....lol...It was in reply to MarcEsadrian, to be clear. agirl

secretmaster22 -> RE: The cock =the pathway to the mind?? (1/21/2009 7:25:52 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: marie2 quote: ORIGINAL: secretmaster22 LOL I think you took my comments a little too seriously. I said it was an ego boost. I didn't say it was all I needed, that it would make me do anything for her, or that there were not better ways to boost his ego, but it is still an ego boost, none the less. I've never had my cock sucked and not felt a little better about myself. I absolutely disagree with it as a form of manipulation, and anyone who does use it as such would be doing a unjustice to both the sub and the dom. Well, then we'll have to agree to agree. :) Anyway, I don't think I took it too seriously, but I think you and I were going in slightly different directions. My statement was in context with the OP, it wasn't meant to stand by itself to say that a man getting his cock sucked couldn't feel an ego boost. Maybe I wasn't clear on that. My interpretation of the OP question basically was do you think you can manipulate a man into whatever you want just by stroking his cock. What I meant by my statement was that feeding a man's ego, (not dishonestly, but by genuinely seeing that man as someone great) would have a far greater affect (than merely tending to his cock) on whether that man is inclined to meet his partner's needs or give her what she wants etc. Anyway, that's based on my own experiences and observations. I'm sure others' mileage may vary. Very well said. Of course everybody is different, and I don't put up with manipulation tactics, but certainly if you desire to keep your dominate happy, which should be the true desire of every submissive, not to get what she wants but what she needs, which is the satisfaction of knowing she is pleasing her master, then stroking the cock helps, but not as much as making him feel loved, and desired, and in some cases revered. I think that was quite the run on sentence?

secretmaster22 -> RE: The cock =the pathway to the mind?? (1/21/2009 7:28:06 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: NecesitesMe quote: ORIGINAL: marie2 I believe that feeding the ego is far more effective than stroking the cock. Only if the ego is bigger than the cock. It's hard to believe anything could be bigger than my cock, but certainly my ego might be.

secretmaster22 -> RE: The cock =the pathway to the mind?? (1/21/2009 7:35:12 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Amaros Seriously, I've broken many a self proclaimed deep throat expert who ended up with lockjaw - and it isn't like I'm trying not to cum - I'm not trying to brag, I actually feel bad about it, I hate to ruin somebodies self esteem that way, I always tell them first but they never seem to believe me, any other orifice, no problem, regardless of how snug they are, but not oral for some reason. It sucks to because I do like it, and some of them never recover their confidence. I like it!!! Issue a challenge to them and they'll be all over it. Why didn't I think of that a long time ago??

LadyPact -> RE: The cock =the pathway to the mind?? (1/21/2009 7:51:45 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: LuckyAlbatross I just get the feeling I'm listening in on a room full of men all talking about how THEY've never been with a woman who faked an orgasm. Trust me, we can all name a few "strong sturdy respectable alpha dom males" who can (and usually have) become slobbery over a cute piece of ass at some point. Don't worry males, we're not saying you're not masters of the universe as you know it. We're saying you're human and we enjoy knowing what that means about you. Ever see "When Harry Met Sally?" The best scene is when the two of them are eating at the deli. The script is right on the mark about this. Men all say they've never been with a woman who's faked it, but almost all women have faked it at one time or another. Do the math.

lusciouslips19 -> RE: The cock =the pathway to the mind?? (1/21/2009 7:54:22 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: LadyPact quote: ORIGINAL: LuckyAlbatross I just get the feeling I'm listening in on a room full of men all talking about how THEY've never been with a woman who faked an orgasm. Trust me, we can all name a few "strong sturdy respectable alpha dom males" who can (and usually have) become slobbery over a cute piece of ass at some point. Don't worry males, we're not saying you're not masters of the universe as you know it. We're saying you're human and we enjoy knowing what that means about you. Ever see "When Harry Met Sally?" The best scene is when the two of them are eating at the deli. The script is right on the mark about this. Men all say they've never been with a woman who's faked it, but almost all women have faked it at one time or another. Do the math. Shhhhhhhhhhh [sm=whisper.gif]

marie2 -> RE: The cock =the pathway to the mind?? (1/21/2009 8:01:03 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Amaros It sucks to because I do like it, and some of them never recover their confidence. [sm=rolleyes.gif][sm=rolleyes.gif] quote: ORIGINAL: NecesitesMe Only if the ego is bigger than the cock. Oh brothah... quote: ORIGINAL: secretmaster22 It's hard to believe anything could be bigger than my cock, but certainly my ego might be. [sm=rolleyes.gif][sm=rolleyes.gif][sm=rolleyes.gif] Thank you, gentlemen. I have nothing further, the prosecution rests.

secretmaster22 -> RE: The cock =the pathway to the mind?? (1/21/2009 8:01:08 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: LadyPact quote: ORIGINAL: LuckyAlbatross I just get the feeling I'm listening in on a room full of men all talking about how THEY've never been with a woman who faked an orgasm. Trust me, we can all name a few "strong sturdy respectable alpha dom males" who can (and usually have) become slobbery over a cute piece of ass at some point. Don't worry males, we're not saying you're not masters of the universe as you know it. We're saying you're human and we enjoy knowing what that means about you. Ever see "When Harry Met Sally?" The best scene is when the two of them are eating at the deli. The script is right on the mark about this. Men all say they've never been with a woman who's faked it, but almost all women have faked it at one time or another. Do the math. As long as she's good at faking it, ignorance is bliss!! Not like I've never faked it before. Yes, men have been known to fake it as well.

IronBear -> RE: The cock =the pathway to the mind?? (1/21/2009 8:01:50 AM)
I'm failing to see where women faking orgasms has anything to do with the OP about men being easily manipulatedbu stroking or sucking their cock. LA's comment that every male can be so manipulkated or lead by their cock is eroneous and has no basis in fact but thren he snide comment in her last post is typical of short sighted people who enjoy creating drama by making such sweeping statements. I can say that I know any male friend who willnot agree women fake orgasms. Nothing wrong with that either. If a girl gets wet for me that is the main thing and if I can give her a genuine orgasm, great and if not we've still had fun as long as she has enjoyed herself. .

secretmaster22 -> RE: The cock =the pathway to the mind?? (1/21/2009 8:03:16 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: marie2 quote: ORIGINAL: Amaros It sucks to because I do like it, and some of them never recover their confidence. [sm=rolleyes.gif][sm=rolleyes.gif] quote: ORIGINAL: NecesitesMe Only if the ego is bigger than the cock. Oh brothah... quote: ORIGINAL: secretmaster22 It's hard to believe anything could be bigger than my cock, but certainly my ego might be. [sm=rolleyes.gif][sm=rolleyes.gif][sm=rolleyes.gif] Thank you, gentlemen. I have nothing further, the prosecution rests. awwwww, you gave me the most eye rolls. You must think I'm special!!

LadyPact -> RE: The cock =the pathway to the mind?? (1/21/2009 8:09:19 AM)
Secret, I think you and I should probably avoid another topic where we would debate the "ignorance is bliss" theory. On the other comment, yes, males can also fake it. Of course, that becomes a bit more difficult of a mission if the two are not in the habit of using condoms.

secretmaster22 -> RE: The cock =the pathway to the mind?? (1/21/2009 8:15:34 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: LadyPact Secret, I think you and I should probably avoid another topic where we would debate the "ignorance is bliss" theory. On the other comment, yes, males can also fake it. Of course, that becomes a bit more difficult of a mission if the two are not in the habit of using condoms. Not if I've already cum in her a few times already...

marie2 -> RE: The cock =the pathway to the mind?? (1/21/2009 8:20:47 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: secretmaster22 awwwww, you gave me the most eye rolls. You must think I'm special!! It's all about your rippling abs, babe. I've never seen a man cut so fine.

colouredin -> RE: The cock =the pathway to the mind?? (1/21/2009 8:20:50 AM)
Duh so why would you bother faking it if you have cum already? Women fake it to get it over with generally

Amaros -> RE: The cock =the pathway to the mind?? (1/21/2009 8:25:54 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: marie2 Thank you, gentlemen. I have nothing further, the prosecution rests. Ya know, I'm not the one that told them they could reduce any man into a quivering heap of jelly in five minutes or less - I can't fake an orgasm, I don't have that option.

secretmaster22 -> RE: The cock =the pathway to the mind?? (1/21/2009 8:27:31 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: colouredin Duh so why would you bother faking it if you have cum already? Women fake it to get it over with generally Cause I wanted to finish what I started and I like most people probably didn't think she would understand that even though I may not have cum the third time, I still enjoyed it, so I just pretended to cum. and no Keiko, that wasn't you. LOL You make me cum every time!!!

feydeplume -> RE: The cock =the pathway to the mind?? (1/21/2009 8:28:05 AM)
more often then not, if i "fake" it, it's to make it easier for them to cum (not feeling like they have to keep going just for me) when i can see they are getting tired or as an ego boost if they have had a bad day or something.

LadyPact -> RE: The cock =the pathway to the mind?? (1/21/2009 8:28:16 AM)
You could be right. If you've cum in her a few times already, I'd have to wonder what the purpose would be in having three (the minimum definition of a "few") legitimate orgasms and then faking the fourth. I'd tend to think that when we females have done it, the reason is because the male hasn't been able to give us the first one.

colouredin -> RE: The cock =the pathway to the mind?? (1/21/2009 8:28:46 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: secretmaster22 quote: ORIGINAL: colouredin Duh so why would you bother faking it if you have cum already? Women fake it to get it over with generally Cause I wanted to finish what I started and I like most people probably didn't think she would understand that even though I may not have cum the third time, I still enjoyed it, so I just pretended to cum. and no Keiko, that wasn't you. LOL You make me cum every time!!! LOL wow, im pretty sure in that instance I wouldnt give a toss how many times you had cum.

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