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ORIGINAL: marie2

I believe that feeding the ego is far more effective than stroking the cock.

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ORIGINAL: CelticPrince

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ORIGINAL: agirl

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ORIGINAL: MarcEsadrian

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ORIGINAL: CelticPrince



And there is a perfect example of why a "dominant" male should have control of his man part. In many examples I've seen throughout life, the cock is the anti-mind for men (laughing). It's quite a challenge for us males; weakness to sexual influence has been bred into our very genes.

I would point out, however, that it's not ultimately productive for the female "in control" at the moment. You go after a man who is lead around by his sex drive and (through your manipulations) encourage him to be even more so? Don't feel too bad when he jumps to consume the next passing object of interest. I may be in the minority with this opinion, but I believe authentically submissive women respect men who aren't slaves to their sex drives. There is no nobility in a man who is such a carnal wimp.

I don't think that's limited to 'authentically submissive women'. I don't actually know ANY women that consider it noble or something to respect.

agirl
 
agirl,
Methinks you got your quotes mixed up, as I did not say what you appear to have me quoting.
 
CP

It's just how the quote boxes turned out.....lol...It was in reply to MarcEsadrian, to be clear.

agirl

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ORIGINAL: marie2

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ORIGINAL: secretmaster22

LOL  I think you took my comments a little too seriously.  I said it was an ego boost.  I didn't say it was all I needed, that it would make me do anything for her, or that there were not better ways to boost his ego, but it is still an ego boost, none the less.  I've never had my cock sucked and not felt a little better about myself.  I absolutely disagree with it as a form of manipulation, and anyone who does use it as such would be doing a unjustice to both the sub and the dom.

Well, then we'll have to agree to agree. :)

Anyway, I don't think I took it too seriously, but I think you and I were going in slightly different directions.  My statement was in context with the OP, it wasn't meant to stand by itself to say that a man getting his cock sucked couldn't feel an ego boost.  Maybe I wasn't clear on that.  My interpretation of the OP question basically was do you think you can manipulate a man into whatever you want just by stroking his cock.

What I meant by my statement was that feeding a man's ego, (not dishonestly, but by genuinely seeing that man as someone great) would have a far greater affect (than merely tending to his cock) on whether that man is inclined to meet his partner's needs or give her what she wants etc.  Anyway, that's based on my own experiences and observations. I'm sure others' mileage may vary.

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ORIGINAL: marie2

I believe that feeding the ego is far more effective than stroking the cock.

Only if the ego is bigger than the cock.

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ORIGINAL: Amaros

Seriously, I've broken many a self proclaimed deep throat expert who ended up with lockjaw - and it isn't like I'm trying not to cum - I'm not trying to brag, I actually feel bad about it, I hate to ruin somebodies self esteem that way, I always tell them first but they never seem to believe me, any other orifice, no problem, regardless of how snug they are, but not oral for some reason.

It sucks to because I do like it, and some of them never recover their confidence.

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I just get the feeling I'm listening in on a room full of men all talking about how THEY've never been with a woman who faked an orgasm.

Trust me, we can all name a few "strong sturdy respectable alpha dom males" who can (and usually have) become slobbery over a cute piece of ass at some point.

Don't worry males, we're not saying you're not masters of the universe as you know it.  We're saying you're human and we enjoy knowing what that means about you.

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I just get the feeling I'm listening in on a room full of men all talking about how THEY've never been with a woman who faked an orgasm.

Trust me, we can all name a few "strong sturdy respectable alpha dom males" who can (and usually have) become slobbery over a cute piece of ass at some point.

Don't worry males, we're not saying you're not masters of the universe as you know it.  We're saying you're human and we enjoy knowing what that means about you.

Ever see "When Harry Met Sally?"  The best scene is when the two of them are eating at the deli.  The script is right on the mark about this.  Men all say they've never been with a woman who's faked it, but almost all women have faked it at one time or another.  Do the math.

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It sucks to because I do like it, and some of them never recover their confidence.

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Only if the ego is bigger than the cock.

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ORIGINAL: secretmaster22

It's hard to believe anything could be bigger than my cock, but certainly my ego might be.

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I just get the feeling I'm listening in on a room full of men all talking about how THEY've never been with a woman who faked an orgasm.

Trust me, we can all name a few "strong sturdy respectable alpha dom males" who can (and usually have) become slobbery over a cute piece of ass at some point.

Don't worry males, we're not saying you're not masters of the universe as you know it.  We're saying you're human and we enjoy knowing what that means about you.

Ever see "When Harry Met Sally?"  The best scene is when the two of them are eating at the deli.  The script is right on the mark about this.  Men all say they've never been with a woman who's faked it, but almost all women have faked it at one time or another.  Do the math.

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It sucks to because I do like it, and some of them never recover their confidence.

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Only if the ego is bigger than the cock.

Oh brothah...

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ORIGINAL: secretmaster22

It's hard to believe anything could be bigger than my cock, but certainly my ego might be.

Thank you, gentlemen.  I have nothing further, the prosecution rests.

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Secret, I think you and I should probably avoid another topic where we would debate the "ignorance is bliss" theory.

On the other comment, yes, males can also fake it.  Of course, that becomes a bit more difficult of a mission if the two are not in the habit of using condoms.

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awwwww, you gave me the most eye rolls.  You must think I'm special!!

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Thank you, gentlemen.  I have nothing further, the prosecution rests.

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ORIGINAL: colouredin

Duh so why would you bother faking it if you have cum already? Women fake it to get it over with generally

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Duh so why would you bother faking it if you have cum already? Women fake it to get it over with generally

Cause I wanted to finish what I started and I like most people probably didn't think she would understand that even though I may not have cum the third time, I still enjoyed it, so I just pretended to cum.  and no Keiko, that wasn't you.  LOL  You make me cum every time!!!