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RE: Only Male Doms reply please - 2/10/2009 11:03:18 PM   
PLCPC


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Status: offline 		Dear True Shadow,

No, he is most definitely not a eunuch.  His is most definitely, without question, a male, heterosexual male dominant.  There were parts to the story which I could not tell.  In reading the comments thread I know it would have helped to tell all, but I guess I just don't tell all.

The male DOM's who replied helped me significantly.


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RE: Only Male Doms reply please - 2/10/2009 11:32:19 PM   
GreedyTop


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Status: offline 		so if we don't have dangly bits nothing we said was valuable to you?

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RE: Only Male Doms reply please - 2/10/2009 11:36:41 PM   
WyldHrt


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Status: offline 		You have to have dangly bits and be a D to have helped, Greedy.
I lubs you anyway, though.

OP- that was just a tad offensive to the non-"male dom" folks who tried to help you, just sayin.


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RE: Only Male Doms reply please - 2/11/2009 12:25:06 AM   
susie


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Status: offline 		20 years ago I lived with a man that I loved. When he suddenly walked out I was heartbroken. For a couple of years I heard things about him and what he was up to but slowly I got over him and got on with life.

Last week he contacted me through Friends Reunited having found me through a workplace listing. I accepted his friend request as I am sensible enough to realise that it is nothing more than seeing someone you once knew and saying hi. He is certainly not trying to rekindle a relationship or trying to be anything more than an online contact. Master knows of him and how much he meant to me in the past but is not at all concerned by his online appearance. For some boosting your Facebook friends list is the most important thing. I get friend requests on there from people I have never met.

Oh I am not a Dom but as everyone else has said these forums are open to anyone to respond to posts.

And Greedy I do have dangly bits whenever I take my bra off, does that count?????

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RE: Only Male Doms reply please - 2/11/2009 3:23:45 AM   
LaTigresse


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Status: offline 		I guess if you are not dominant with those, oh so "uncontrollable" manly urges, you just wouldn't possibly know how the guy is feeling. Therefor your answer is utterly (or is that uddery) worthless.

Please note much sarcasm infused in previous two sentences...

Either he is one helluva standup guy or, he's just not that into you and found hot young thing that would put out. 

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Just because you are well educated, articulate, and can use big, fancy words, properly........does not mean you are right!

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RE: Only Male Doms reply please - 2/11/2009 9:12:52 AM   
susie


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quote:

ORIGINAL: LaTigresse

I guess if you are not dominant with those, oh so "uncontrollable" manly urges, you just wouldn't possibly know how the guy is feeling. Therefor your answer is utterly (or is that uddery) worthless.

Please note much sarcasm infused in previous two sentences...

Either he is one helluva standup guy or, he's just not that into you and found hot young thing that would put out. 


ROFL did you just call me a cow?

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RE: Only Male Doms reply please - 2/11/2009 9:23:33 AM   
LaTigresse


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quote:

ORIGINAL: susie

quote:

ORIGINAL: LaTigresse

I guess if you are not dominant with those, oh so "uncontrollable" manly urges, you just wouldn't possibly know how the guy is feeling. Therefor your answer is utterly (or is that uddery) worthless.

Please note much sarcasm infused in previous two sentences...

Either he is one helluva standup guy or, he's just not that into you and found hot young thing that would put out. 


ROFL did you just call me a cow?


Noooo, I was just joking around about dangly bits. My early morning, more obnoxious than usual, sense of humour. Please don't be offended as I was just playing with words.


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RE: Only Male Doms reply please - 2/11/2009 9:40:01 AM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: PLCPC

we had not actually had sex.  At the same time he was very into it...one day he sent me home because he felt he might lose control.  Soon thereafter, he gave me a neutral goodbye.


Here, stick this babelfish into your ear.  Now you can see the translation into plain English, guy-speak:

She won't fuck me, so I'll give her the "I'm afraid I'll lose control so I'm sending you away" line... perhaps she's never read that guy-speak book, "He's Just Not That Into You."



Cali
(who places "I'm afraid I'll lose control" right up there with "I'm afraid I'll hurt you emotionally" and "I love you too much so we can't see each other anymore" on the list of stupid things people say to get rid of someone)


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RE: Only Male Doms reply please - 2/11/2009 11:39:15 AM   
susie


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quote:

ORIGINAL: LaTigresse

quote:

ORIGINAL: susie

quote:

ORIGINAL: LaTigresse

I guess if you are not dominant with those, oh so "uncontrollable" manly urges, you just wouldn't possibly know how the guy is feeling. Therefor your answer is utterly (or is that uddery) worthless.

Please note much sarcasm infused in previous two sentences...

Either he is one helluva standup guy or, he's just not that into you and found hot young thing that would put out. 


ROFL did you just call me a cow?


Noooo, I was just joking around about dangly bits. My early morning, more obnoxious than usual, sense of humour. Please don't be offended as I was just playing with words.



I have now apologised to LeeAnn. My way too weird sense of humour made me laugh over her "uddery" comment. You know what they say about us Brits and our sense of humour!

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RE: Only Male Doms reply please - 2/11/2009 2:43:36 PM   
Jack45


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quote:

one day he sent me home because he felt he might lose control.


That is all you needed to know about him. I feel sorry for you as finding a genuine dominant male is tough work.
Good luck to you.

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RE: Only Male Doms reply please - 2/11/2009 3:14:05 PM   
WiseCracknSadist


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Status: offline 		Maube I'm missing the big picture here, but I don't see how a Facebook friend invite is toying with you. I have ex's on my Facebook and Myspace accounts. They asked me and I accepted to be friendly. I don't want to get back with them. We shared a connection at one time and because of that they desrve a measure of respect.

You met him on CM so if he wanted more with you he could contact you through site. Don't over think the room. From your reaction it seems as though you are the one with unresolved emotions.

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RE: Only Male Doms reply please - 2/11/2009 9:42:13 PM   
PLCPC


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Status: offline 		Apparently the some of the most recent readers, who happen to not be male doms, missed the comment where I thanked all of them for their feedback, although in this particular situation, I was looking for a very pointed, particular viewpoint, that of a male, heterosexual dom.

PLCPC


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RE: Only Male Doms reply please - 2/11/2009 9:44:16 PM   
PLCPC


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Status: offline 		To Jack 45,

Thank you.  Your brief comment provided tremendous insight.

PLCPC


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RE: Only Male Doms reply please - 2/12/2009 12:32:50 AM   
susie


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quote:

ORIGINAL: PLCPC

Apparently the some of the most recent readers, who happen to not be male doms, missed the comment where I thanked all of them for their feedback, although in this particular situation, I was looking for a very pointed, particular viewpoint, that of a male, heterosexual dom.

PLCPC



Sorry on these forums you do not get to control who responds to your OP. If you don't want to read comments from those outside of your "desired responders" then that is up to you. It does show a lack of maturity that you have decided only Male Hetro Doms can respond.

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RE: Only Male Doms reply please - 2/12/2009 2:08:57 PM   
Dungeoneer


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Status: offline 		I might have said that once, then I went to see a good therapist and I hung out all my laundry.  He said he was satisfied that I am a responsible top and told me that I needed to work on getting over the guilt, not the urges.  He said I am fulfilling a need in my partners and I need to feel good about it, just stay chem free and don't let a scene get out of hand, which is great advice, btw.

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RE: Only Male Doms reply please - 2/12/2009 8:52:45 PM   
antipode


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quote:

would you personally toy with a sub this way


If he turned his profile off? Most certainly.

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RE: Only Male Doms reply please - 2/12/2009 10:28:50 PM   
Kalapattar


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She won't fuck me, so I'll give her the "I'm afraid I'll lose control so I'm sending you away" line... perhaps she's never read that guy-speak book, "He's Just Not That Into You."
quote:

ORIGINAL: CalifChick

quote:

ORIGINAL: PLCPC

we had not actually had sex.  At the same time he was very into it...one day he sent me home because he felt he might lose control.  Soon thereafter, he gave me a neutral goodbye.


Here, stick this babelfish into your ear.  Now you can see the translation into plain English, guy-speak:

She won't fuck me, so I'll give her the "I'm afraid I'll lose control so I'm sending you away" line... perhaps she's never read that guy-speak book, "He's Just Not That Into You."


So let me get this right.  As a sub, I'm supposed to put out immediately?  Srsly?  Have you no sense of self worth? 

I guess I'll have to start spreading my legs for any ol' Dom who comes along.

< Message edited by Kalapattar -- 2/12/2009 10:30:00 PM >

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RE: Only Male Doms reply please - 2/13/2009 8:59:18 AM   
CalifChick


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quote:

ORIGINAL: Kalapattar
So let me get this right.  As a sub, I'm supposed to put out immediately?  Srsly?  Have you no sense of self worth? 

I guess I'll have to start spreading my legs for any ol' Dom who comes along.



I didn't say that, didn't imply that, but if that's what you took from it, so be it.

Cali


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RE: Only Male Doms reply please - 2/13/2009 11:37:10 AM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: Kalapattar


quote:

ORIGINAL: CalifChick


Here, stick this babelfish into your ear.  Now you can see the translation into plain English, guy-speak:

She won't fuck me, so I'll give her the "I'm afraid I'll lose control so I'm sending you away" line... perhaps she's never read that guy-speak book, "He's Just Not That Into You."
 
 



So let me get this right.  As a sub, I'm supposed to put out immediately?  Srsly?  Have you no sense of self worth? 

I guess I'll have to start spreading my legs for any ol' Dom who comes along.






You so totally missed Cali's point. Seriously, get the book  "He's Just Not That Into You" read it and then come read her post again and you might understand the point she was trying to make. I got it immediately on reading her post.




< Message edited by SassySarijane -- 2/13/2009 11:42:30 AM >

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RE: Only Male Doms reply please - 2/13/2009 11:37:15 AM   
Godhand502


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Status: offline 		A Facebook invite is not that serious. Add him or not. Its your choice. I'd need to know the details of what went on between you two to give any more advice.

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