Termyn8or
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You are never going to convince Merc so why try. I actually agree with what he says about personal reponsibility, he just seems a bit blind to just what has happened here. Now Merc, don't get offended here as I express my observation. Just like stupid people think others are also stupid, Merc suffers the same condition. He is well educated enough to consider paying four big ones for a property, therefore thinks that everyone else should have the business accumen to be able to do that. Actually I agree they should, but in reality they don't. We all think everyone is or should be like us, and that cuts across the complete socio-economic strata. I agree, people should read what they sign and think things over carefully. But they don't. And there really is a bad part. The bad part would be to make it illegal to take advantage of the stupid, but that is not feasible. First and foremost because it would put unconsitutional limits on Citizens' ability to contract. Another reason would be that if the government enacted such a law they would have to bust themselves. Can't have that now can we. Buying this place the main decision was whether to take it on a thirty or a fifteen. Saving about 1.2 points on the interest for the life of the loan it seemed clear to take the fifteen because that amounted to around ten percent of the total interest per month. Evereybody should be like me, yup. When I get to the point in the contract where it says "you're monthly payment can be adjusted" I want SILENCE in the room while I read that part very carefully. I want to know exactly how and why. Others may say "just skip that part", but Mamma didn't raise any fools here. Welll, in all honesty....... I did loan out $1,500 to a supposed friend who never paid me back. You see in the city there are poor people, and I have rules about loaning money, like I won't loan you your entire rent unless there is a valid proven reason that you ARE getting ALL the money soon and this is just a delay. Otherwise it is limited to like a hundred bucks. Over the years I've learned, if you loan someone a whole month's worth of bills you are not likely to get that money back. But the $1,500 was not for bills, it was for a down payment on a truck. Now the question of the week, who's fault is it that I am out the fifteen skins ? Is it mine for lending it to someone whom I shouldn't, or their's for not being a Man of their word and paying me back ? And believe me, this person had the means to pay me back many times over, but that's not the point. Can't and won't have nothing to do with it really because the result is exactly the same. Yes I lost a friendship over it, but that is not the case with banks. HA, 'With friends like that, who needs banks ?'. Statement has a nice ring to it no ? So break it down completely, who's fault is it I am out fifteen skins ? Mine or the dirty dog that can't/won't pay me back ? I think if you look deep into this issue, you might conclude that might be the crux of the whole division in opinion here. Like, 'bit off more than you can chew' vs 'shoved down your throat'. Which is it. We will no doubt fall on the same sides of that fence as we do this one. OK, here's for Merc. [your company has gone into home loans and I am a customer, thusfar highly rated with good credit and in good standing] "Yes, thanks for seeing me, we need to see about terminating my loan because I have just recieved word that my job is going overseas, and there are no real prospects out there. I have been there ten years and was pretty much promised a lifetime job, however I have found that I don't like the word 'promise'. What I ask of you is this, what is the best we can do to try to save some vestige of my credit rating and come out of this somehow. I have looked at values and it seems that after ten years I have a negative equity of about 12% of the whole thing due to the bubble bursting. The situation is thus, I got six months of work, unless I want to move to Ungickway. Other than that I'll have severance of course, and I am not totally broke. But if I am going to need a place to live I have to think about that. " What say you ? I want to try to take care of this the right way, put it up for sale right away ? That doesn't work well. This is not because of an ARM, it is because of job loss, beyond the borrower's control. The income will never be replaced, he will work but definitely not make enough money to sustain the payments and is willing to reduce his lifestyle. He wants another house eventually so he doesn't want to trash his credit. He is acting as responsibly as is possible under the circumstances. You now sit behind a desk, sort of in judgement of the Man, and tell me what would be your decision. T
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