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The "begging" Question - 2/1/2009 12:32:20 PM   
CelticPrince


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Status: offline 		It seems that this activity/requirement is being employed more and more by both side of the slash.
i do not refer to the rollplay type of begging but the sincere function of begging by the "s" to her/his "D" or "M".
For some on the "s" side it is a nice enhancement to their need humiliation, while others accept it as a desire on the part of their "D" or "M".

What is your take on it regardless of which side of the slash your on?

CP
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RE: The "begging" Question - 2/1/2009 12:34:26 PM   
littlewonder


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Status: offline 		I don't see it as humiliating at all but there are times when Master desires to hear me beg and so I do beg for him.

For me it's just another part of being obedient to him and extremely wanting or needing something from him. Otherwise it just feels fake to me.

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RE: The "begging" Question - 2/1/2009 12:41:51 PM   
CelticPrince


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ORIGINAL: littlewonder

I don't see it as humiliating at all but there are times when Master desires to hear me beg and so I do beg for him.

For me it's just another part of being obedient to him and extremely wanting or needing something from him. Otherwise it just feels fake to me.



lilwonder, grins, but to some they feel it is and thus need ti /  thanks for your thoughts.

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RE: The "begging" Question - 2/1/2009 12:52:28 PM   
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ORIGINAL: CelticPrince

It seems that this activity/requirement is being employed more and more by both side of the slash.
i do not refer to the rollplay type of begging but the sincere function of begging by the "s" to her/his "D" or "M".
For some on the "s" side it is a nice enhancement to their need humiliation, while others accept it as a desire on the part of their "D" or "M".

What is your take on it regardless of which side of the slash your on?

CP

Actually, I find it quite interesting when others talk about it, no matter which side of the fence they are standing on.
In the past, for me, begging was not tolerated...period...so when I hear others talk about it...it's quite interesting


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RE: The "begging" Question - 2/1/2009 1:01:47 PM   
dreamerdreaming


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Status: offline 		I've been on both sides of the slash. It can be extremely, very sweetly humiliating to have to beg, either by order of your Dom, or because you are near your limit and wish the activity to stop (or you just need a break from it).

And to witness your slave begging is deeply, extremely gratifying. I have mine beg in a prescibed manner, and only when ordered or allowed.

I find begging exquisitely beautiful.

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RE: The "begging" Question - 2/1/2009 1:50:06 PM   
Nikitaa


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Status: offline 		I enjoy when my sub begs and cries sometimes. Only if he has good reason and I try giving him good reason. I do not like if he beg too easy or if he beg for silly reason.

My favorite is when my sub beg and get angry at same time. He once did something which made me very much angry so I had him sit in the closet for 8 hours. After 3 hours he was begging for permission to come out and after 5 hours he was getting angry and frustrated. He kicked the door and wall in frustration (door was not locked). I add extra 2 housr because he kicked the wall. He almost cried. Finally he calm down. I enjoyed hearing him whimper.

I only did this once and because he did serious infraction. Most time punishment is mixture of fun kinky stuff he like and a little pain he do not like.

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RE: The "begging" Question - 2/1/2009 2:03:08 PM   
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Status: offline 		Sir does not tolerate begging. That for me is a good thing, because I dont know how to beg. Whining irritates him, as well as me, and for some reason i tend to link begging and whining together.

oceanwynds

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RE: The "begging" Question - 2/1/2009 2:04:21 PM   
CelticPrince


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quote:

ORIGINAL: IrishMist

quote:

ORIGINAL: CelticPrince

It seems that this activity/requirement is being employed more and more by both side of the slash.
i do not refer to the rollplay type of begging but the sincere function of begging by the "s" to her/his "D" or "M".
For some on the "s" side it is a nice enhancement to their need humiliation, while others accept it as a desire on the part of their "D" or "M".


Mist,

I agree, it is interesting thus the post! It came up with a sub that I have mentored in the past!

CP

What is your take on it regardless of which side of the slash your on?

CP

Actually, I find it quite interesting when others talk about it, no matter which side of the fence they are standing on.
In the past, for me, begging was not tolerated...period...so when I hear others talk about it...it's quite interesting


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RE: The "begging" Question - 2/1/2009 2:06:57 PM   
CelticPrince


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ORIGINAL: dreamerdreaming

I've been on both sides of the slash. It can be extremely, very sweetly humiliating to have to beg, either by order of your Dom, or because you are near your limit and wish the activity to stop (or you just need a break from it).

And to witness your slave begging is deeply, extremely gratifying. I have mine beg in a prescibed manner, and only when ordered or allowed.

I find begging exquisitely beautiful.


dreamer,

That is a nice term for it........ exquisitely beautiful.

CP

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RE: The "begging" Question - 2/1/2009 2:09:26 PM   
CelticPrince


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ORIGINAL: Nikitaa

I enjoy when my sub begs and cries sometimes. Only if he has good reason and I try giving him good reason. I do not like if he beg too easy or if he beg for silly reason.

My favorite is when my sub beg and get angry at same time. He once did something which made me very much angry so I had him sit in the closet for 8 hours. After 3 hours he was begging for permission to come out and after 5 hours he was getting angry and frustrated. He kicked the door and wall in frustration (door was not locked). I add extra 2 housr because he kicked the wall. He almost cried. Finally he calm down. I enjoyed hearing him whimper.

I only did this once and because he did serious infraction. Most time punishment is mixture of fun kinky stuff he like and a little pain he do not like.


Nikitaa,

They all get assimilated....... right?

CP

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RE: The "begging" Question - 2/1/2009 2:11:12 PM   
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ORIGINAL: oceanwynds

Sir does not tolerate begging. That for me is a good thing, because I dont know how to beg. Whining irritates him, as well as me, and for some reason i tend to link begging and whining together.

oceanwynds

I totally agree with this, oceanwynds.  The closest I've come to "begging" would be during play or sex.  If I'm on the verge of an orgasm, I must ask first.  It tends to turn into a desperate plea when I'm almost there.  In addition, when being flogged, whipped, beaten, etc. - when it's getting way too intense, I've been known to plead a bit.  This isn't really what we consider "begging," though.  To me, it's more along the lines of what you said : whining.  "Begging" for something or to do something when I know the answer is "no."  That's just not something I'm well equipped to do.  If His answer has been made clear, that's it.  No begging given or tolerated................luci

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RE: The "begging" Question - 2/1/2009 2:15:46 PM   
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Status: offline 		It depends what the begging is for.  A treat?  To go shopping?  For attention?  Totally unattractive, in my eyes, and in the eyes of the men I have been with.  Begging for an orgasm when right on the bring?  Begging to suck?  Showing a desperate hunger to please?  I've never received any negative feedback about that.

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RE: The "begging" Question - 2/1/2009 2:19:29 PM   
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Status: offline 		I don't really beg outside of playtime. There are times I jump up and down, make cute faces and go "please, please, please" but I don't see that as begging - not in the "true" sense of the world though we'll playfully call it begging. I glanced over at webster.com and the defination they have listed (among others of course) that fits with me is to ask earnestly, as in to beg for mercy.

Basically, if it isn't something big on the line it just feels like me being a goof.

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RE: The "begging" Question - 2/1/2009 2:20:06 PM   
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I only beg for two things, usually >.>

One is kinky, one is not (but can include kinky things).

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RE: The "begging" Question - 2/1/2009 2:21:59 PM   
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ORIGINAL: NuevaVida

It depends what the begging is for.  A treat?  To go shopping?  For attention?  Totally unattractive, in my eyes, and in the eyes of the men I have been with.  Begging for an orgasm when right on the bring?  Begging to suck?  Showing a desperate hunger to please?  I've never received any negative feedback about that.

 
I do understand that, and odd I do not see it as begging. I was thinking more for give me attention.

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RE: The "begging" Question - 2/1/2009 2:23:21 PM   
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I enjoy when my sub begs and cries sometimes. Only if he has good reason and I try giving him good reason. I do not like if he beg too easy or if he beg for silly reason.


We're on the same wavelength again. I've seen some video clips with subs whining and crying over little slaps that couldn't hurt a fly, and it's so phony that the scene is completely worthless. I find needless whining, crying, or begging ludicrous. I say if they're going to cry over nothing, then give them something to really cry about!

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RE: The "begging" Question - 2/1/2009 2:38:49 PM   
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ORIGINAL: oceanwynds

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ORIGINAL: NuevaVida

It depends what the begging is for.  A treat?  To go shopping?  For attention?  Totally unattractive, in my eyes, and in the eyes of the men I have been with.  Begging for an orgasm when right on the bring?  Begging to suck?  Showing a desperate hunger to please?  I've never received any negative feedback about that.

 
I do understand that, and odd I do not see it as begging. I was thinking more for give me attention.


These are my thoughts and experiences as well.  

What I consider to be intolerable (for me to do)  is when begging reminds me of a spoiled rotten child who can't get her way and begging is whining and is on the brink of a tantrum. 

Playfully sliding up next to Him and asking "please" or even "pretty please" is just that to me, playfullness.  

Begging when on the brink of an orgasim or begging to suck or desperately wanting to please ... That's a whole 'nother avenue.

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RE: The "begging" Question - 2/1/2009 2:53:05 PM   
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Status: offline 		Begging is an issue which I have a tough time trying to take part in and and to fully understand the mindset needed. 

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RE: The "begging" Question - 2/1/2009 3:09:16 PM   
agirl


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Status: offline 		The idea of begging just reminds me of the sprogs not taking *no* for an answer. They'd get a big fat NO, and so would I.

I think we're too lazy to do begging....I'd rather suck sand than beg, for fun, and it'd get boring having to slap me silly.

I have pleaded on serious issues...could be seen as begging*

agirl

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RE: The "begging" Question - 2/1/2009 3:17:55 PM   
Andalusite


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Status: offline 		My previous Dom loved making me beg, but I felt stupid doing so unless I really wanted/didn't want the thing in question. So, he escalated it to the point where I seriously *did* want him to stop/etc.

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