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Does age have anything to do with it? - 2/5/2009 1:11:30 PM

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I recently replied to a post in the Mistress section about someone who enjoys anal worship. Hey, whatever floats his... anyway.

I looked at his profile and it says that he is 56 years old and it got me to wondering. I've been approached by many men in their late 40's all the way to 67. I think the one that takes the cake is the almost 70 year old who wanted me as a brood mare to pop out babies for him. *shudder* The main thing in common all these men had was their advanced age and their subsequent cluelessness. And I wonder - Does being that old make them think they can cut corners? This guy who likes anal worship doesn't seem to have a clue that he needs to form a relationship with a woman before she'll drop her pants and let him gaze at her brown eye. The almost 70 year old man who wanted to breed me told me that he doesn't need to go through 'red tape' to get a girl and that I need to stop playing games. I've been told this very thing more than once, in some form or another, from men of advanced age. It's the main reason why I do not go to the chatrooms anymore.

I have never had an 18-30 year old approach me here on this website that didn't at least know how to lie to get what they wanted. So what's with this older generation? I realize it doesn't go for all of them (lots of fine older gentlement right here on this forum), but there are a lot who seem to have their heads stuck up their asses.

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RE: Does age have anything to do with it? - 2/5/2009 1:14:12 PM

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it is quite simple. with thier attitude, they have never been abe to get a woman to stick around, so that is why they are still out looking and representing their age range in disporportionate numbers. all the clued in guys their age are coupled up already.

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RE: Does age have anything to do with it? - 2/5/2009 1:16:10 PM

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That's a very good point. But I find it very disturbing that a person could be that old and be completely clueless about life.

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RE: Does age have anything to do with it? - 2/5/2009 1:22:44 PM

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Somehow I predict some indignant older replies to this thread.

I've had to put an 'age cap' on people that I see as a pro-sub. The younger guys are awkward, have a tendency to try and nickle and dime you. The older ones... blah. The older ones are more inclined to be too forward, push boundaries that are clearly set, and many of them just don't listen. Point in case, I had a session with an older gentleman who's first move was to hit me right in the middle of the spine with the heaviest toy I have.

When I yelled (yes, pro subs are allowed to get pissy at blatant displays of stupidity) he declared that it was a 'test', and that I had failed.

Ugh.

Ah well. When I think about it, when I'm 70 I'm probably not going to give a s**t either.

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RE: Does age have anything to do with it? - 2/5/2009 1:24:18 PM

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quote:

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I have never had an 18-30 year old approach me here on this website that didn't at least know how to lie to get what they wanted. So what's with this older generation?

Don't worry; we'll all find out sooner or later when we get there.

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RE: Does age have anything to do with it? - 2/5/2009 1:24:31 PM

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I think some older men believe that time is wasted trying to serenade and socialize with women. Maybe in their younger years when they had all the time in the world, at this age, I don't think they're clueless - more jaded.

One time, I was in a relationship with a much older man who thought it was strange (as in way too innocent and naive) to date before fucking. Fuck - to see if there's any physical attraction - and then try to figure out if you're emotionally compatable.

I don't know. Maybe there's something in the water.

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RE: Does age have anything to do with it? - 2/5/2009 1:28:01 PM

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I'm just your average clueless old fart who is and has for the last 8 year married and been with for a total of 10 years the same lady 30 years younger then I and this year I turn 64. I rather think that if a dumb ass like me can get it right the answer to that gentleman who approached you and the others too is SENILITY.......

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RE: Does age have anything to do with it? - 2/5/2009 1:34:10 PM

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I'd say you have been exceedingly lucky not to get the same (old) stuff from the young ones. But if you think deception is a good thing, more power to you. I like to know the whole truth up front and if the idiot is an idiot or an Awhole or whatever else it is, I'd rather see it in spades than hear the babies lies and cries.
That is not to say older folks don't lie, but neither the lying nor the straight up bullshit is good in my book.
Deception doesn't do it for me. Yep, that's experience speaking.

edited to add that I don't think it's the age so much as the individual

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RE: Does age have anything to do with it? - 2/5/2009 1:38:06 PM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: SomethingCatchy

I recently replied to a post in the Mistress section about someone who enjoys anal worship. Hey, whatever floats his... anyway.

I looked at his profile and it says that he is 56 years old and it got me to wondering. I've been approached by many men in their late 40's all the way to 67. I think the one that takes the cake is the almost 70 year old who wanted me as a brood mare to pop out babies for him. *shudder* The main thing in common all these men had was their advanced age and their subsequent cluelessness. And I wonder - Does being that old make them think they can cut corners? This guy who likes anal worship doesn't seem to have a clue that he needs to form a relationship with a woman before she'll drop her pants and let him gaze at her brown eye. The almost 70 year old man who wanted to breed me told me that he doesn't need to go through 'red tape' to get a girl and that I need to stop playing games. I've been told this very thing more than once, in some form or another, from men of advanced age. It's the main reason why I do not go to the chatrooms anymore.

I have never had an 18-30 year old approach me here on this website that didn't at least know how to lie to get what they wanted. So what's with this older generation? I realize it doesn't go for all of them (lots of fine older gentlement right here on this forum), but there are a lot who seem to have their heads stuck up their asses.

I get twice a year a post from a pretty local girl that wants to be used as a breeder.She doesn't ask about a relation..she asks to be used. It is not about age..it is about what people look for. Just not that many that share that interest propably.

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RE: Does age have anything to do with it? - 2/5/2009 1:42:49 PM

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Let's not forget also it has not been that long ago women were more submissive in general and expected to be and act that way both in public and in private. I am sure some of these guys never adjusted well to the changes in attitudes as far as women in society are concerned. They figure they can find some sub who will be an easy target and more like what the woman of their youth were like. Or at least what they remember them to be like. Plus they have more than likely been turned down so many times with attitudes like that they do not even bother really trying anymore. It becomes the classic viscous circle.

So it's an age thing. A generation gap thing. And just some clueless personalities with no people skills.

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RE: Does age have anything to do with it? - 2/5/2009 1:53:05 PM

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I'm probably gong to get flamed here but I offer a qualifier "many..not all"

Being from that age bracket here is what I've seen, they are divorced, widowed or cheating--they have heard through the ever reliable internet grapevine tha all they have to do is claim an orientation and bam!

Profess Dominance and a bevvy of lusting nubile women will fall to their knees, proclaim you Master of their domain and be attentive to their cocks 24/7,-- living naked and never questioning authority---I mean what else is there ya know?

Profess Submission and a bevvy of hot stiletto heeled, busty financially secure babes will collar them, take them home, relieve them of all life obligations, take on theor debt and their baggage and spend the day playing lasso the winkie---never asking anything more, well maybe oral service then lasso the winkie----I mean what else is there ya know? ( oh and I find more of the Dominants in this age bracket "are really submissive but didn't want any one to know"...

Its become the latest testerone game in town--annoying as hell, IMHO.

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RE: Does age have anything to do with it? - 2/5/2009 1:53:35 PM

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LOL... now you know what us older ladies have been dealing with most our live's. The guys that think the only thing that matter's to a woman is a marriage purposal, a um or two and not being left an old maid... Silly creatures that thought that was it, were more numerous back in the day. I used to bartend and it always amazed me that the old farts didn't do a darn thing in personal upkeep and would expect a twenty five year old babe to fall all over them, as they tried to grope and then blamed it on women's lib.

Rejection after rejection... they still didn't get it.

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RE: Does age have anything to do with it? - 2/5/2009 1:58:41 PM

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*leaves to go play lasso the winkie with slaveboy*

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RE: Does age have anything to do with it? - 2/5/2009 2:08:02 PM

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quote:

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Profess Submission and a bevvy of hot stiletto heeled, busty financially secure babes will collar them, take them home, relieve them of all life obligations, take on theor debt and their baggage and spend the day playing lasso the winkie---never asking anything more, well maybe oral service then lasso the winkie----I mean what else is there ya know?

Dayum. I'm turning in my License to Top if I can get this.

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RE: Does age have anything to do with it? - 2/5/2009 2:23:10 PM

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quote:

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LOL... now you know what us older ladies have been dealing with most our live's. The guys that think the only thing that matter's to a woman is a marriage purposal, a um or two and not being left an old maid... Silly creatures that thought that was it, were more numerous back in the day. I used to bartend and it always amazed me that the old farts didn't do a darn thing in personal upkeep and would expect a twenty five year old babe to fall all over them, as they tried to grope and then blamed it on women's lib.

Rejection after rejection... they still didn't get it.

I had an older lady friend a few years ago that said about as much as this. I didn't remember it until now. She divorced her husband of 40 years (yes 40! They'd married at a very young age) after she found he'd been having an affair and he didn't think it was a big deal since they had children, grandchildren, a big house, and he just bought her a new car. What more could she want from him? Faithfulness? BAH!

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RE: Does age have anything to do with it? - 2/5/2009 2:28:15 PM

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LOL... yup... some of us dumped the old guy and went out and found younger one's that knew better! I have nothing against an older man... hell... how could I? But... they need to be less cave man and more progressive! There are classy older men that are just... yum, yum... but... lol

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RE: Does age have anything to do with it? - 2/5/2009 2:33:51 PM

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I've met a handful of delicious older gentlemen, and I've thought about running off with a few of them before, but they're few and far between. I partly blame that on the areas I've lived in. The older men who are available here and back home aren't exactly something a 23 woman couldn't find in a better, newer, faster model.

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RE: Does age have anything to do with it? - 2/5/2009 2:41:04 PM

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My ex was 54 when I was with him and there was no stopping that man...omg! He is about 57 now and has a 27 year old gf... Some older men are amazing... in some sitautions... it would be well worth it! lol

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RE: Does age have anything to do with it? - 2/5/2009 2:50:51 PM

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I'm not sure that it is that much better to prefer mail from people who are accomplished liars.

As far as why the older generation is so blunt? Probably because they're tired of wining and dining women and never getting what they want. So they don't want to be used for their income and do want to know upfront if you're on the same page. You get used a lot, you're bound to get jaded and bitter.

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RE: Does age have anything to do with it? - 2/5/2009 2:54:16 PM

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Since two people have commented on my possilby liking liars, I'll go ahead and clarify. It was an example, and nothing more. I PREFER I don't get any mail at all, since I'm happily off the market. The ones I do get are from idiots who can't read or are telling me about local happenings.

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