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Beautiful Minds - 2/13/2009 1:44:40 AM   
QuixoticErrant


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Status: offline 		The laughter thread made me think of this.

I recently got into a conversation with a young lady about trans-finite mathematics.  To be specific, Cantor, continuum  hypothesis and that sort of stuff.  It went into non-Euclidean Geometry, General Relativity and Aristotle vs. Kant with a detour into Pascal.  It was a conversation about the nature of infinity as a mathematical and a philosophical object. We giggled at the time because she was tied up while talking about these things. I had just spanked her quite a bit, and she kept waggling the ropes when she was making a point. We both thought that was hilarious.  Partially, there was this kinky overtone where I was the professor and she was the lusty student, but then the conversation just got too interesting. We got distracted by the academic exchange and then laughed a lot and had a rather intense session. 

I suppose I am asking, have you ever found that you are just enjoying each other on ten other levels and then the sex - and even the kink became something of an afterthought, only to come back all the more intensely?

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RE: Beautiful Minds - 2/13/2009 1:51:53 AM   
Gwynvyd


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Status: offline 		I think things like this happen more frequently when you are well matched in your partner.

I have never been able to partner up with someone with whom I did not also lust after their mind. *smiles*

Sure ropes, and games of slap and tickle are fun.. however there *has* to be something between the ears, and in the heart to capture and keep my attention.

If I do not respect them then I simply can not go on with any of it.

Just my

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RE: Beautiful Minds - 2/13/2009 2:09:00 AM   
QuixoticErrant


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ORIGINAL: Gwynvyd

I think things like this happen more frequently when you are well matched in your partner.

I have never been able to partner up with someone with whom I did not also lust after their mind. *smiles*

Sure ropes, and games of slap and tickle are fun.. however there *has* to be something between the ears, and in the heart to capture and keep my attention.

If I do not respect them then I simply can not go on with any of it.

Just my

Gwyn


With you there!

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RE: Beautiful Minds - 2/13/2009 3:11:13 AM   
kallisto


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Status: offline 		Exactly.  I doubt I could carry on a conversation about "trans-finite mathematics" without there being much laughter (on His part)  but that being said ... His mind has to "turn me on" before there can be anything else.  

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RE: Beautiful Minds - 2/13/2009 3:33:13 AM   
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Status: offline 		I don't think I could carry on a conversation about whether or not we needed to get milk while bound, let alone anything more involved. During straight sex, sure there have been times we stop and talk and then get back to it. But while tied up? No.

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RE: Beautiful Minds - 2/13/2009 3:34:23 AM   
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ORIGINAL: DesFIP

I don't think I could carry on a conversation about whether or not we needed to get milk while bound, let alone anything more involved. During straight sex, sure there have been times we stop and talk and then get back to it. But while tied up? No.


Honestly, that was part of what made it so arousing.

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RE: Beautiful Minds - 2/13/2009 4:45:33 AM   
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Status: offline 		What's next??Quantum Physics??

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RE: Beautiful Minds - 2/13/2009 4:46:35 AM   
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RE: Beautiful Minds - 2/13/2009 5:55:46 AM   
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Status: offline 		It is the mind that attracts me first. I am a student of life and have a strong thirst to learn. I use to have a saying I rather F...someone's mind then their body. A mind that is used is absolutely beautiful.

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RE: Beautiful Minds - 2/13/2009 6:17:17 AM   
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Status: offline 		Yes I have carried out complex theoretical discussions and debates in the middle of both sessions and conventional (if there is such a thing) sex. However, to submit to someone I need to be attracted to their brain, look into their eyes and not only see them and their potential but have it backed up by their actions. If those things happen (obviously everything else helps) then submitting to them allowing myself to go where the situations takes us is possible. The mind is what attracts me - without it nothing sexual is going to happen. (Hopefully that makes sense, its been an exceptionally long couple days.)

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RE: Beautiful Minds - 2/13/2009 6:21:14 AM   
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RE: Beautiful Minds - 2/13/2009 6:36:19 AM   
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Status: offline 		Did it start with the similarities between Mobius strips and rope work? Or was it the fractal nature of labia? Both of those have happened to me.

One of the best mind fucks i have ever had, perhaps the best, was sitting outside a cafe talking about the passing traffic and people and where they were going. I was so wet i left damp butterfly wings on the chair through panties and jeans.

And all these years later, he can still make my mind and body jump through hoops.  

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RE: Beautiful Minds - 2/13/2009 7:23:06 AM   
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Status: offline 		I've had the Stephen Hawking vs. Einstein vs. Newton mathematical physics vs. quantum physics vs. theology conversation as foreplay.  My level of erotic interest is directly related to the amount of intellectual interest a woman, or man can generate. Seduction does, after all, begin in the mind, the ultimate erogenous zone.

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RE: Beautiful Minds - 2/13/2009 9:45:18 AM   
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Status: offline 		I enjoy those kinds of conversations a lot, but when I'm bottoming or submitting, I'm usually barely coherent, and when I am topping or dominating someone, I try to affect him in ways that aren't exactly intellectual. It's fun to talk about stuff like that before or afterward, though!

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RE: Beautiful Minds - 2/13/2009 10:05:59 AM   
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Status: offline 		*nod* I know that one thing that I really want, if we should ever find someone to add to our communion again, is someone who would understand the concept of "Happy Tangent Land"... the idea of a conversation that starts out here (X), and travels this circuitous, scenic journey through realms that one wouldn't even think of as being remotely related... and yet, the track of the conversation makes perfect sense as it goes along... only to end up -back- at (X) at some point (often -hours- later). We used to wake up in the middle of the night to these amazingly complex conversations... they'd just wander around, like professors in their nightgowns, tossing out relevant, but random, concepts for the nearest butterfly net.

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RE: Beautiful Minds - 2/13/2009 12:37:50 PM   
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Status: offline 		It seems a lovely concept.  One of the Zen philosophies is "when you're walking, walk;  when you're sitting, sit;  when you're running, run", meaning that the activity in hand is the world as it exists in order to enjoy it to its full.  i would find it difficult to get a pre pain connection when already the commitment of the tie up is made.  However, i MAY get HUGELY turned on by a lecture
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RE: Beautiful Minds - 2/13/2009 12:50:11 PM   
agirl


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Status: offline 		No, it wouldn't happen at a time like that. Usually all MY energy, along with any rational thoughts have buggered off by then. I'm usually trying not to cry , trying not to shout/scream/yelp too loudly and so on.

We did have this one conversation, though.......It was really deep and meaningful. I said I didn't want to hurt and he said, *You can't bleed unless you're hurt, you silly girl*. That's about as intelligent as we get at these times..lol

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RE: Beautiful Minds - 2/13/2009 1:24:47 PM   
QuixoticErrant


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ORIGINAL: chezzy71

What's next??Quantum Physics??


Actually, outside of play, she wants me to teach her QM.

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RE: Beautiful Minds - 2/13/2009 1:27:42 PM   
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ORIGINAL: nafakcha

Yes I have carried out complex theoretical discussions and debates in the middle of both sessions and conventional (if there is such a thing) sex. However, to submit to someone I need to be attracted to their brain, look into their eyes and not only see them and their potential but have it backed up by their actions. If those things happen (obviously everything else helps) then submitting to them allowing myself to go where the situations takes us is possible. The mind is what attracts me - without it nothing sexual is going to happen. (Hopefully that makes sense, its been an exceptionally long couple days.)

Keiko


It has been my experience, that many submissives are very intelligent.  I can not imagine a smart lady giving herself to a dunce.  I don't see how she could possibly respect him.  I mean he might be a big scary brute, that she might fear, but I can't see how she could respect him if she knew she was ten times smarter than him.

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RE: Beautiful Minds - 2/13/2009 1:28:48 PM   
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ORIGINAL: Serenelysmiles

I've had the Stephen Hawking vs. Einstein vs. Newton mathematical physics vs. quantum physics vs. theology conversation as foreplay.  My level of erotic interest is directly related to the amount of intellectual interest a woman, or man can generate. Seduction does, after all, begin in the mind, the ultimate erogenous zone.


Absolutely.

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