SurrenderForMe
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I disagree with almost everything that you said, but it would take volumes to address it.
If you look around you will, without much effort, be able to find examples that support your argument. They just aren't the majority.
I will say this, my experience is that women by virtue of - pick a preferred reason, biology, environment, psychology, evolution, intelligence, etc- are more often capable of being attracted to someone that does not fit their ideal. Note I wrote, more often, not majority or exclusive. Example, that six pack. Oh do I love them. I've been involved with, not meaning sexually for each one, 3 men with six packs. Two also had bulging muscles, which nauseate me. I can't overcome bulging muscles as a dislike. One had the perfect little swimmers body that I adore. He was a dick. I met the man of my dreams, absolutely unblemished cafe au lait skin, didn't look like hair would grow on that perfect skin, brown hair so dark it looked black, sleek smooth hair, just the length to grab onto, brown eyes, tall, tight ass, long legs, tight thighs, theoretical math major, unbelievably sexy voice with a French accent, funny, self deprecating, beautifully dressed (whether jeans or a suit), courteous, and just to make it unreal, his dad was rich. He was so hot. I, by the way, am average looking, intelligent, sarcastic, and very aggressive. There would be no way he should have wanted me. I kissed him once and it was over. Nothing. I felt bad and kept going for a while, but it was like kissing my brother. So gross. The worst part was that I really liked him and wanted to stay friends. He never spoke to me again. I had to be his lover and future wife or it was no deal. Now that's a shitty man.
I'm female, my standards match or exceed almost any person I can think of, for being picky. See above. The men and women I have been involved with range from unattractive to beautiful. Why? When you meet someone (not online, online is unreal so eye candy rules) and get to know them, you find them funny, touching, engaging or any number of other things. On both the male and female side, attraction can grow from a foundation of shared experiences, encounters, time spent. Those physical details can become secondary or non-existent. I've seen that happen many times.
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Why is it that, regardless of the surroundings, women as a whole, seem to follow men blindly?
I'm now jumping up and down and screaming NNNNNNNNNNNOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO!!!!!!!!!!!
Excuse the cliches. Ever see a Jewish couple, Asian, Italian, (not including specifically dom/sub). Behind the scenes, those women rule. For anyone in that group ready to kill me, it is not ALL, but it is very common in my experience. In fact, the only group I can think of where that cultural female submission may hold, is Muslims. I don't know any. A funny thing I learned, the facade is not the reality. Hang out with some couples for a long enough time that they are just themselves with you. The real dynamics in the relationship show up pretty quickly. You may be surprised. That applies both ways. There are healthy, happy female submissive relationships out there as well. They just don't interest me.
Where I do agree with an unfair balance, is the work place. The black female is the lowest paid in any category of work. Females in general are still paid less than men for the same job. That sucks.
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Sure, there is some pressure on men, but it's no big deal if a man is older or out of shape. So, not only do so many women fall into the trap of doing anything in order to be pleasing to the opposite sex, they don't even put the same amount of pressure on men!
I totally agree, men should starve and suffer just as much as women do. Lead me to all the little metrosexuals (that are submissive and like a lot of pain). That made me laugh at least. Hope someone likes my humor. Men do feel the pressure, I can't quatify if it equals females. Even the people who try to opt out still feel some pressure. It is inescapable. There are as many men dieting, getting plastic surgery, etc as women.
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A woman knows that a man shouldn't be beating her child. A woman knows a man shouldn't be beating 'her'. Hell, men don't put up with being hit by each other. Why do so many woman think it's okay to be hit or subjected to treatment that men themselves don't even tolerate?
Such a depressing final part. People, not just women, can be weak, stupid, dependent and vicious. Women also beat their kids. Abuse their partners. Rape both males and females. Men do put up with being hit by each other and by women. The people who tolerate child abuse are partners in that abuse. I can empathize, so I have no sympathy. I've heard the excuses. Women or men who allow someone to harm their child should slit their wrists. They have failed the humanity test. The -pick a word- who stay in a relationship of abuse, should get help, or slit their wrists. Done. Been there, did not and would not tolerate it.
Forgive any typos, I only had the energy to qc twice.
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