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ExplodingOats -> Question for all female subs! (2/16/2009 2:28:33 AM)
How important is it to you that your dom is bigger than you? I imagine a dom of a smaller stature would be sort of akward. Yes? No? Does it make any of you feel more submissive when you're dom is bigger or stronger than you?

TheShrew -> RE: Question for all female subs! (2/16/2009 2:49:34 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: ExplodingOats How important is it to you that your dom is bigger than you? It's very important to me. quote: I imagine a dom of a smaller stature would be sort of akward. Yes? No? Yes. I'm smallish so a man smaller than me would be a tiny lil fella. quote: Does it make any of you feel more submissive when you're dom is bigger or stronger than you? Absolutely. Then again, I'm prefer the 6'-6'2" range.

Rayne58 -> RE: Question for all female subs! (2/16/2009 3:00:52 AM)
fast reply Sir is about an inch taller than me. When I wear heels I am taller....we don't care, it's no big deal. It definitely does not affect my level of submission! Sir once had a girlfriend who dumped Him because He was not tall enough....more fool her [8\|]

WyldHrt -> RE: Question for all female subs! (2/16/2009 3:15:34 AM)
Call me shallow, but I much prefer a Dom who is bigger (not necessarily taller, but bigger) and stronger than I am. I'm not even remotely petite, and dominant males that make me feel small get bonus points. [:D]

camille65 -> RE: Question for all female subs! (2/16/2009 3:19:13 AM)
He is 6'4" and I'm 5'7", his arms wrap completely around me. melt But I would love him if he were 5'10"! I once was with a guy who was about my height and it didn't make a difference.

came4U -> RE: Question for all female subs! (2/16/2009 3:22:30 AM)
Ditto to every word TheShrew said.

AquaticSub -> RE: Question for all female subs! (2/16/2009 3:30:39 AM)
~Fast Reply~ I care that they are dominant and can wrap their fingers in my hair and yank me to my knees. Val happens to be taller and that's nice but it doesn't really matter. I care about that fire in their eyes and that evil look that makes me have to change my panties...

simpleplan2 -> RE: Question for all female subs! (2/16/2009 3:32:47 AM)
Same here.

apiercedkitty -> RE: Question for all female subs! (2/16/2009 3:38:17 AM)
As someone who's only 5'1, i've yet to run across a guy in general that's shorter than i am. i would agree though that it's the look in His eyes and the way He grabs my hair that's the important part.

subtlebutterfly -> RE: Question for all female subs! (2/16/2009 4:53:02 AM)
Dominant..submissive..vanilla...I don't care I just don't date people that are shorter than me (nor younger) and I prefer them to be 6" and over if they're guys. Being a shortie, whether it be male or female, really shouldn't make a difference when it comes to being submissive or dominant...but it would probably be awkward if the submissive would be taller when on their knees[8\|]

Sandyshores29718 -> RE: Question for all female subs! (2/16/2009 4:57:03 AM)
I perfer a man larger than me; however, I had a play partner that was not and he was great! A larger Dom strikes fear into my soul that he can over power me and it doesn't matter what I do I can't save myself. haha I LOVE that.....So...its not that important but I do perfer a man larger than myself.

Aileen1968 -> RE: Question for all female subs! (2/16/2009 5:11:16 AM)
It's very important. I'm 5 feet tall. He's 6'3" He totally engulfs and overpowers me with his size and it's a complete turn on.

sambamanslilgirl -> RE: Question for all female subs! (2/16/2009 5:39:08 AM)
height - not important (short or tall - doesn't matter) weight - not an issue (i'm no barbie/super model myself) character/compatiblity - very important

littlewonder -> RE: Question for all female subs! (2/16/2009 6:13:27 AM)
His size has nothing to do with if I'm submissive or not to him but I am simply physically attracted to tall men who take care of themselves. I'm only 5'3" so most people are taller than I am and I've just never once been attracted to men who were shorter than 5'7".

catize -> RE: Question for all female subs! (2/16/2009 6:17:08 AM)
When I'm on my knees his height doesn't matter.

Lynnxz -> RE: Question for all female subs! (2/16/2009 6:23:54 AM)
Taller is a must, I'm 5'9, and like to wear heels.... sorry, but a shorter guy is not going to cut it here.

oceanwynds -> RE: Question for all female subs! (2/16/2009 6:33:27 AM)
height is not an issue for me. Late hubby was 5'8 and i am 5'3. Sir is 6'2. Though height is not an issue, i am attracted to skin and bones men.

marie2 -> RE: Question for all female subs! (2/16/2009 6:34:03 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: ExplodingOats How important is it to you that your dom is bigger than you? I imagine a dom of a smaller stature would be sort of akward. Yes? No? Does it make any of you feel more submissive when you're dom is bigger or stronger than you? I'm under 5 foot so this isn't an issue for me, but I do have a preference for tall men ( 6 foot and over), however, it's not an important criteria for me, it's just a physical preference. Demeanor goes a lot further than size in making me feel overpowered. If a guy is tall, it's just icing on the cake.

LadyAnnabelleLee -> RE: Question for all female subs! (2/16/2009 6:41:12 AM)
When you're 5' 11" taller is a must, my husband is 6'2". I like looking up to a man. And quite frankly I've been brought down by short doms, but I prefer those who aren't as... altitude challenged. [:D] Don't fret though, its not the size... you know the rest.

LaTigresse -> RE: Question for all female subs! (2/16/2009 7:14:15 AM)
Hey, I am 5'6" and dated a woman 5'10", that loved to wear 4" heels........I could still drop her to her knees. It wasn't an issue with us.

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