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KatyLied -> RE: Question for all female subs! (2/16/2009 7:17:38 AM)

I prefer taller than me and fit as well, height/weight proportionate.



missfrillypants -> RE: Question for all female subs! (2/16/2009 7:41:45 AM)

well, i've been with guys who were shorter or the same height as me, and it wasn't an issue except with one who THOUGHT it was. he made a huge deal out of me wearing any kind of shoe with any kind of heel, even those less than an inch, and i have big feet, so it's hard enough for me to find shoes i like that fit right. he would do things like that a lot that worried me and obsess over the fact that i was a bit taller. generally it doesn't matter to me, but i don't like the type a lot of the girls on this forum seem to prefer much... when i guy is so strong he can break me in half with his bare hands, my brain automatically thinks he's probably not very intelligent, and being able to physically restrain me is all well and good, but i'm not all that strong and it's not a huge deal for me, particularly since i WANT to be restrained, and i can go along with it, and hey! some smart dominant types invented things like ropes awhile back! i absolutely must have an intelligent dom, though, because of the kind of person i am. also, from an aesthetic standpoint... people who are too physically fit are WEIRD LOOKING! that thing they call a six pack is fucking creepy on people of either gender, and i don't want to see every muscle in a living person. i want to be thinking how nice they look, not of anatomy lessons and my little brother's action figures!

although i say this, there's a boy who i know who i normally wouldn't flirt with as much as i do except that he's a giant. he's 6'3 or so with his shoes off and he wears those goth boy platform boots all the time, and i do really like how incredibly tiny he makes me feel...



megaen -> RE: Question for all female subs! (2/16/2009 7:47:57 AM)

When your 6'1 it's pretty hard to find a taller guy i like them to at least be 5'11.



Alexis27 -> RE: Question for all female subs! (2/16/2009 9:32:35 AM)

I'm on the tall side for a woman, Master is just taller than I am, but when I wear heels for him I am taller. It does not matter since the real attraction is in his creativity and mind. Besides I'm seldome standing when we are playing anyway.



ExKat -> RE: Question for all female subs! (2/16/2009 11:05:03 AM)

    I would have scoffed and poo-pooed the idea that height meant anything to me...until I went out with a guy who was shorter than me. I'm 5'2" on a good day...and so someone who was shorter was unexpectedly a huge turn-off (also, that his profile said he was 5'7"). Ex is 6'0", which works out perfectly for me. There is something delicious about looking so far upto him when he's being all dom. Yummy!



angelbonds -> RE: Question for all female subs! (2/16/2009 11:56:45 AM)

I prefer a taller, bigger, stronger man than myself. Its hard for me to respect a man who is shorter then myself.
Im 5'8" and like to look up to my Dom. I find most short men have issues with me as im a confident submissive.
Some men feel threatened by that quality. I find taller men generally more confident naturally.



gemseekstreasure -> RE: Question for all female subs! (2/16/2009 12:03:19 PM)

Hi,
i am not a sub but am a slave.  However, the differences are not important in regard to You question.  For me it a "must" if He is not at least 6 foot i don't feel the same (deep inside), i guess its knowing Daddy fits my "dream" i feel  He can control me better.  But, most sub/slaves i know in real life look beyond the height, as maybe i should but... yet, it is my preference. :} 
 
 Just as African American is  over white Doms.  i beleive it's whatever makes you feel forfilled as a sub/slave.
 
However, i get a lot of nasty mails from white Dom who are contacting me, i.e. why are your friends all black and so on...
 
 It is not that it is that they are not nice. i have "friends" of all races.



Aynne88 -> RE: Question for all female subs! (2/16/2009 12:17:25 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: ExplodingOats

How important is it to you that your dom is bigger than you? I imagine a dom of a smaller stature would be sort of akward. Yes? No?

Does it make any of you feel more submissive when you're dom is bigger or stronger than you?


It's not important. I'm 5'8" he is 5'7" and I wear heels all the time. He is physically stronger and mentally dominant at all times so why would height matter? For me it is a matter of being secure in my femininity and I don't need a taller man to feel sexy.  I need a man that brings it out in me, and He does.  



kallisto -> RE: Question for all female subs! (2/16/2009 3:09:55 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: Aileen1968

It's very important. I'm 5 feet tall. He's 6'3"
He totally engulfs and overpowers me with his size and it's a complete turn on.


Yes!  What she said [:)]  Although I am a couple inches taller. 



lusciouslips19 -> RE: Question for all female subs! (2/16/2009 3:13:21 PM)

I have dated 5'4 to 6'7 and though I love the feeling of a tall man's presence. Sexy is sexy and height has nothing to do with dominance.



BitaTruble -> RE: Question for all female subs! (2/16/2009 3:15:26 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: ExplodingOats

How important is it to you that your dom is bigger than you? I imagine a dom of a smaller stature would be sort of akward. Yes? No?

Does it make any of you feel more submissive when you're dom is bigger or stronger than you?


Ergonomically, it helps that Himself is taller than me. It's not all that important though because when I'm on my knees, I'm pretty damn short. ::grins::



littleone35 -> RE: Question for all female subs! (2/16/2009 3:48:30 PM)

I am only 5' tall so finding a man shorter then myself it a bit dificult.  i havle always ben attracted to tall men.  Master is 6' ttll (the top on my head reaches his shoulder).  I am fairly strong so a stronger man for me is a must.  Height does not matter it is just a persnal preference for me.

Matt's littleone



playfulotter -> RE: Question for all female subs! (2/16/2009 4:05:47 PM)

I find taller men mentally more powerful initially but to be honest men closer to my height sexually it is all better..because you work more smoothly as a machine during the whole process (like on your knees at the edge of bed etc.)..but i must say this is just sexually and nothing do do with the mental aspect as i have never had a Master or Dominant shorter than me only taller men i have been in relationships with  involving D/s or BDSM in anyway...not that i didn't try!!!![sm=ballchain.gif]



SwimGoldfishSwim -> RE: Question for all female subs! (2/16/2009 4:13:43 PM)

i'm 5' so it's not really an issue for me, i would have to actively search for someone shorter lol.

but to be honest the towering over does add a bit of a special effect to the domination factor



Drifa -> RE: Question for all female subs! (2/16/2009 4:21:12 PM)

While I find tall, tough women captivating (Lucy Lawless as a whip-wielding domme Xena /sigh!) and I am pretty happy to belong to a tall blonde Valkyrie of a Lady, honestly in my experience domination has nothing to do with size.

I don't need to be wrestled to a standstill. If my domme can't tell me to get in whatever position it is and STAY ... well, a real domme CAN do that, and that magic that makes them dominant makes it work.

Or, if the activity to follow is something I can't hold position for, well, that's what straps and tethers and ropes were invented for, no? If there's going to be enough pain that I can't hold position, I've found that either a domme will stop when my control is shaky and order me back into place, or use sufficient bondage to let me fight the bonds. 

Both things have their attractions... sometimes reaching inside yoruself to allow that one more stroke -- finding the submission to offer to your domme to accept what she is asking -- /fans self! Wow, that makes me wet thinking about it.  And sometimes being able to let loose and fight the ropes for all I am worth is also hotter-than-hot.



paddlebottom -> RE: Question for all female subs! (2/16/2009 4:26:26 PM)

Iwant adom. female biggerthan me



pinkwind -> RE: Question for all female subs! (2/16/2009 5:48:26 PM)

i don't think i could take seriously any Dom who was the same height as me or smaller, but then there are very few at 4'9", most of the population being taller than me, including juveniles!

my ex husband was not tall in the scheme of things, 5'7", but the Master and Dom still in my life are both over 6' and i love the feeling of being both physically small but also emotionally so as well, if that makes sense.




sultana1 -> RE: Question for all female subs! (2/16/2009 6:06:36 PM)

How important is it to you that your dom is bigger than you? I imagine a dom of a smaller stature would be sort of akward. Yes? No?

Does it make any of you feel more submissive when you're dom is bigger or stronger than you?

Not really, no.

Nope. :)



DavanKael -> RE: Question for all female subs! (2/16/2009 7:13:24 PM)

I don't identify as a sub (I do identify as a switch).  As I am 5 feet tall, it would be super-strange for a male to be shorter than me and a man would have to be downright scrawney to be smaller in terms of body mass. 
I like big, tall, masculine men!  I have always preferred men at least a foot taller than me (With only a couple of exceptions and those involved men who were physically powerful despite their shorter < one is 5'10", one says he's 5'8" though I think he's shorter than that > stature).  Yep, like big males.  Always have.  Very hind-brain thing for me that's honed by my cognizance of the reasons for said appeal. 
  Davan



nafakcha -> RE: Question for all female subs! (2/16/2009 8:11:09 PM)


quote:

ORIGINAL: ExplodingOats

How important is it to you that your dom is bigger than you? I imagine a dom of a smaller stature would be sort of akward. Yes? No?

Does it make any of you feel more submissive when you're dom is bigger or stronger than you?


It doesn't matter to me one way or the other whether my dominant is bigger, smaller, taller or shorter then me. I don't find a dominant of smaller stature awkward of course I also (while standing) don't look up at to many people either with my height.

A dominants physical size has nothing to do with making me feel submissive towards him. I would probably say his mind, personality, eyes, our dynamic but physical size isn't something that is on the list.

Keiko



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