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RE: Submissives who call the shots - 2/19/2009 2:00:09 PM   
YourhandMyAss


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ORIGINAL: GreedyTop

Esstee.. welcome to the boards!  And thank you for such a great post!

(i'm not sure the Op will bother with it though, since you don't have dangly bits..LOL)


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RE: Submissives who call the shots - 2/19/2009 2:05:07 PM   
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ORIGINAL: WiseCracknSadist

I have a whole journal entry about this. I have said many times in many rants. To me it makes them posers or frauds. And don't give me crap about personal preference, it's topping.


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RE: Submissives who call the shots - 2/19/2009 2:07:29 PM   
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ORIGINAL: LaTigresse

"Send me yuur wemen, children........and moneyyyyy"

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RE: Submissives who call the shots - 2/19/2009 2:16:53 PM   
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ORIGINAL: WiseCracknSadist

I have a whole journal entry about this. I have said many times in many rants. To me it makes them posers or frauds. And don't give me crap about personal preference, it's topping.


..What? Care to elaborate?

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RE: Submissives who call the shots - 2/19/2009 3:13:02 PM   
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ORIGINAL: Lynnxz

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ORIGINAL: WiseCracknSadist

I have a whole journal entry about this. I have said many times in many rants. To me it makes them posers or frauds. And don't give me crap about personal preference, it's topping.


..What? Care to elaborate?





i read his rant.  eh... no biggie.  perhaps its because im a 43 year old woman and seeing a man barely older than my own offspring spouting off about what others should be and shouldnt be.



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RE: Submissives who call the shots - 2/19/2009 6:32:37 PM   
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ORIGINAL: WiseCracknSadist

I have a whole journal entry about this. I have said many times in many rants. To me it makes them posers or frauds. And don't give me crap about personal preference, it's topping.


 
The flaw in your premise is this:  if I have not yet agreed to submit to a person, there is no ‘bottom’ to top from. 


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RE: Submissives who call the shots - 2/19/2009 6:36:21 PM   
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ORIGINAL: catize
 
The flaw in your premise is this:  if I have not yet agreed to submit to a person, there is no ‘bottom’ to top from. 



Well said, Catize, and exactly to the point.

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RE: Submissives who call the shots - 2/19/2009 6:40:10 PM   
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ORIGINAL: chainedgirl

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ORIGINAL: susie

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ORIGINAL: chainedgirl

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ORIGINAL: RedMagic1

Well, I'm a man.  And, chainedgirl, you are wrong.  But don't worry your pretty head about it.  Just come over here.  I'll fill your mouth with something so you stop talking, and I'll spank you until you can't think about anything but the heat and the pain.


Please take that up with my Master.



ROFL that must take the prize for the best answer yet!!!!
More than a little silly after suggesting Masters pm you.

Good grief is it just me or are people losing the plot?




Not at all, unlike some on here i am able to hold a decent conversation with people.  Master also trusts me, He doesn't need to keep an eye on everything i do or say 24 hours a day, because He knows i am commited to Him.  It seems some Dominants don't know how to trust their property if they have to vet everyone they contact.



Can you puleease teach me about True Submission????? Your one way seems to be the one Real and True way.

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RE: Submissives who call the shots - 2/19/2009 7:04:42 PM   
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Thanks, Esstee! Welcome to the forums!

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RE: Submissives who call the shots - 2/20/2009 12:19:28 AM   
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ORIGINAL: chainedgirl

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ORIGINAL: susie

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ORIGINAL: chainedgirl

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ORIGINAL: RedMagic1

Well, I'm a man.  And, chainedgirl, you are wrong.  But don't worry your pretty head about it.  Just come over here.  I'll fill your mouth with something so you stop talking, and I'll spank you until you can't think about anything but the heat and the pain.


Please take that up with my Master.



ROFL that must take the prize for the best answer yet!!!!
More than a little silly after suggesting Masters pm you.

Good grief is it just me or are people losing the plot?




Not at all, unlike some on here i am able to hold a decent conversation with people.  Master also trusts me, He doesn't need to keep an eye on everything i do or say 24 hours a day, because He knows i am commited to Him.  It seems some Dominants don't know how to trust their property if they have to vet everyone they contact.



This made me spit coffee at the computer when I read it this morning. I hope that your response to me was meant to be funny because it certainly made us laugh like drains.

If your Master trusts you and if you can hold a decent conversation with people why the need for the "Please take that up with my Master" comment?

Lord help any submissive that takes you up on your offer to "assist them on their journey". It seems more like a veiled attempt at finding a 3rd to me.

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RE: Submissives who call the shots - 2/20/2009 1:07:15 AM   
GreedyTop


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(hey, when I get moved there... lets go do coffee or soemthing??)


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RE: Submissives who call the shots - 2/20/2009 1:25:40 AM   
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I have a whole journal entry about this. I have said many times in many rants. To me it makes them posers or frauds. And don't give me crap about personal preference, it's topping.

I read your journal entry. First off, PLEASE learn the difference between the words "dominant" and "dominate". The use of the verb in place of the noun makes my teeth itch, thanks.
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I tire of the endless list of things subs tell Doms they must submit to before the sub will submit to the Dom. Subs, in my opinion, have only requests to be considered and if they have chosen wisely in their Dom should have nothing to fear

Now, here's the thing. If an s type hasn't submitted to a dom, then she hasn't yet chosen, wisely or not. That being the case, she can't "top from the bottom" as she isn't his bottom, sub, slave, slut, or anything else yet. That said, I don't see an s having standards as demanding that a D submit to anything, but rather a way of finding a suitable partner. If my hard limit is a D's favourite kink, we just aren't a match- no harm, no foul. If the fact that I'm not interested in a partner who doesn't have a stable job and/ or isn't capable of living within his means is seen by a D as demanding that he submit to something, again- we aren't a match. Having standards is a big part of HOW an s type knows that she has chosen wisely, and that she will have nothing to fear once she has agreed to submit.

Why is that so hard to understand?

[edit]- what Catize said- only far more long-winded
*note to self- read the latest posts before replying*


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RE: Submissives who call the shots - 2/20/2009 2:28:10 AM   
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RE: Submissives who call the shots - 2/20/2009 3:26:27 AM   
susie


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ORIGINAL: GreedyTop

*adores Susie*


(hey, when I get moved there... lets go do coffee or soemthing??)



Sounds like a great idea, but the something sounds better!

When are you coming over?

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RE: Submissives who call the shots - 2/20/2009 3:49:38 AM   
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ORIGINAL: LaTigresse

"Send me yuur wemen, children........and moneyyyyy"


Well, if I send you my woman child and her horse, then my money inevitably follows

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RE: Submissives who call the shots - 2/20/2009 3:57:54 AM   
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ORIGINAL: DesFIP

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ORIGINAL: LaTigresse

"Send me yuur wemen, children........and moneyyyyy"


Well, if I send you my woman child and her horse, then my money inevitably follows


Ohhhh, don't I know that one!! I just came in from feeding my two equine money pits. And realized I need to call the farrier also. And order spring shots, and buy more wormer, and.............

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RE: Submissives who call the shots - 2/20/2009 8:18:30 AM   
GreedyTop


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ORIGINAL: susie

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ORIGINAL: GreedyTop

*adores Susie*


(hey, when I get moved there... lets go do coffee or soemthing??)



Sounds like a great idea, but the something sounds better!

When are you coming over?


Not sure..friggin immigration hoops....


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RE: Submissives who call the shots - 2/23/2009 2:45:53 AM   
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RE: Submissives who call the shots - 2/23/2009 12:30:41 PM   
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ORIGINAL: SirDarkside357

I belong to a fellowship called the DSF.  We believe that the man is head of the house, the women who belong accept this and are happy with it.  


I'm not able to make any connections between your statement, quoted above, and the discussion about submissives who call the shots.  (Perhaps you're assuming that all households have men in them? )

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RE: Submissives who call the shots - 2/24/2009 6:18:49 AM   
Leonidas


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ORIGINAL: Lashra

I wonder if its a way to troll. Because otherwise they would know that this is an open forum and that anyone can reply to posts here. Besides some Mistresses do use the title "Master" so if she just wants to hear from "dangly bits" she should have put that.



I don't post in the "Ask a Mistress" section.  Since there is a "General" section, an "Ask a Master" section, and an "Ask a Mistress" section, I think it's common sense that if someone posts in "Ask a Mistress" they're looking for a fem-dom point of view.  I don't have a fem-dom point of view to offer, so I don't post there.  My personal opinion is that it's just plain common courtesy and respect for the people who post there looking for a fem-dom point of view.  Can I post in "Ask a Mistress"?  Sure, I can, and I'm sure that the moderators of this board don't want the task of removing every errant post that lands there, or to deal with the temper-tantrums and threats of first amendment suits that would ensue if they restricted it.

I agree with the others in this thread that having standards is a good thing.  I think that is doubly true when you're talking about standards for your own behavior.

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