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RE: Something came across my mind and path - 1/19/2006 9:57:16 AM   
EvilGeoff


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Status: offline 		My girl janey and I are approaching our 3rd year together. We both have ink (I only have the one right now, she has 13 or 14, I lose count... ).

In any case, we both would like to get more, and in the right time I will have her tattoed with my mark, or possibly branded. Like typesgirl though, I think the design will be something that has special emotional meaning to janey, without having a literal "Property of Geoff" or somesuch hanging out there for all the world, or another relationship partner, to see.

Symbols have meaning, and this one will have a LOT of meaning.

YIK,
- Geoff

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RE: Something came across my mind and path - 1/19/2006 10:04:12 AM   
mistoferin


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quote:

This morning we starting planning our wedding ceremony.


omg....Congratulations!!!!!! I know that the little piece of paper isn't going to make your commitment to each other any deeper than it is today...but I still think it's just awesome!

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RE: Something came across my mind and path - 1/19/2006 10:06:03 AM   
Eir


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Status: offline 		Congrats :D *hugs&kisses*

I am glad for anyone that finds their path and partner :) Maybe I am also just a little silly romantic person? *blushes*

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RE: Something came across my mind and path - 1/19/2006 10:55:05 AM   
MasterRobert1


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Status: offline 		It means (should mean) long term, permanent comitment. Period. This isn't something you do casually. Or quickly. At least you SHOULDN'T. But, I know of a woman being branded by her Dom next month. And she has known him a few months. Too much fantasy, not enough reality.

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RE: Something came across my mind and path - 1/19/2006 10:59:33 AM   
veronicaofML


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Status: offline 		This morning we starting planning our wedding ceremony.
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like..................for sure..........totally awesome.....

i am SO happy for You two..........

cool beans jack!

take care


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RE: Something came across my mind and path - 1/19/2006 11:01:23 AM   
perverseangelic


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Status: offline 		I would be marked by my owner with any type of mark he'd like, with one caveat- it can't affect my professional life. This is soemthing we agreed on a long time ago. If he wants to have a "property of" tattoo or brand, I'd do it in a heartbeat as long as it's on my back, or upper thigh or something else hidden under professional clothes. If he wants something that everyone will see, I'd do it in a heartbeat again, if it were something a little more abstract.

For me, as with some others here, while I think my relatioship will last, even if it doesn't, a mark to me is a sign that I had a commitment to this person. LIke my other tattoos, its a memorial of some part of who I am. I've only ever broken up with one person such that there are so many bad feelings I wouldn't want to have a mark of his. For everyone else Iv'e been with, they've effected my life in some way. Wearing a visible mark of that, even a "property of" mark recognizes that.

too, though, I -adore- tattoos. I love body modification. I would love it if my owner wanted me to wear something to mark myself as his. Unfortuantly, this isn't his bag. :)

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RE: Something came across my mind and path - 1/19/2006 11:37:35 AM   
Petruchio


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quote:

i have a huge tattoo on my butt from my 1st domme

and my 2nd domme is not too damned thrilled to see it all the time


Sounds like it was a half-ass decision to me.

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RE: Something came across my mind and path - 1/19/2006 11:56:08 AM   
Petruchio


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Status: offline 		Eir, I think you asked one question (which people answered) but you had in mind another which hasn't been addressed.

I saw an internet photo not long ago where some ass had written WHORE and SLUT on a girl's face in permanent marker. Fortunately, some day that will come out, but carved skin will never completely erase.

No excuse in the world can justify anyone anytime anywhere carving the word WHORE into anybody.

The perpetrator wasn't a dom, but a vile, sick fücker who is so weak and insecure that he can only torment someone weaker than he is. Let's face it, if he'd done that to a dog or even a goldfish, he'd be in jail.

Hmm… On the other hand, let's take up a collection for a skin graft… using the dermis from the sick bastard's chest. I'll carve if y'all will hold him down.

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RE: Something came across my mind and path - 1/19/2006 12:13:24 PM   
yourMissTress


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Status: offline 		I'm with you on this one Petruchio.

Oh, and I have a better idea from where to take the skin....

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RE: Something came across my mind and path - 1/19/2006 12:22:12 PM   
sweetwhisper


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Status: offline 		Merc & Beth Congrats!!!!

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As for the tattoo/branding/piercings.....When i decided to be Master's slave i took that step fully aware that i would have no control of my life or of me as an individual from that moment on. I am his 100% completely - He has marked my body many times, i wear his name, nickname, and even our wedding vows (Love Honor & Obey) on my body. There are many more to come, and will be branded eventually.


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RE: Something came across my mind and path - 1/19/2006 12:33:35 PM   
Petruchio


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quote:

Oh, and I have a better idea from where to take the skin....


MissT, something that dinky just doesn't have enough skin.

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RE: Something came across my mind and path - 1/19/2006 12:46:57 PM   
yourMissTress


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quote:

ORIGINAL: Petruchio

quote:

Oh, and I have a better idea from where to take the skin....


MissT, something that dinky just doesn't have enough skin.



*smiles* *nods* wanders off thinking Petruchio read my mind...

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RE: Something came across my mind and path - 1/19/2006 2:24:46 PM   
RiotGirl


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quote:

To the subs : Would you alow your master to carve or brand or give you a tattoo that had no meaning exept you were his slave? And if you would... what would it mean to you if you would break up?


you know this is similiar to my dads complaint about my tatoos. He gets that offended look and says "but what about when you dont want the tatoos anymore (like when i grew up)"

And i always reply. But who i am now, i am not ashamed off, it is apart of me. i will never be ashamed of who i am. That part of me will always be there. Whether i grow or change. i am still me. If i were to, say in 10 years (i was about 15 at the time) be ashamed, then thats not me. (and its time to do an exocerism)

Same here. Oh yeah, i want his marks, his tatoos and i'm not even blind enough to think my relationship will last. To me its not a symbol of submission. Its a symbol of this time in my life, where i am NOW as it is for him. Now i am owned. i will NEVER be ashamed of being owned, i will never be ashamed of my relationship. i dont need to hide it, i dont need to make the reminders of it go away. i will happily own up to it.

And 12 years later i am yet to be ashamed. No matter my company. (which was always my fathers fear.. the change of company LOL). Talking to the prince of Austria think i covered up my tatoos? Think i hid myself? Heck no, i told him his suit made him look like a cow and asked if he would moo.

Manners are one thing.. (like walking around with a sexually explicit tat) but being me is another. And my tatoos and any markings will BE apart of me.

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RE: Something came across my mind and path - 1/19/2006 2:38:51 PM   
BitaTruble


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quote:

If your "not sure" at the time you enter in a relationship maybe you shouldn't get into it; the relationship not the marking.

This morning we starting planning our wedding ceremony. It will be attended by family and friends, vanilla and flavored. We'll go through the process of becoming a "legal" couple. Yet what we did four years ago in a Venice, CA tattoo shop will have had more significance, than what will occur at the Venetian in Vegas. We were sure then, we're sure now.


I will never forget the date, time and place that Himself collared me. It was akin to a wedding with our friends standing by our side. We even video taped it and had an incredible play party afterwards as our way of thanking our good friends for sharing in the ritual with us.

I have the hardest time remembering the exact date we got married. I think it was June, either the 16th or 17th. ::chuckles::

Himself allowed me a tat, a small chain around my ankle with the ends held together by his scripted initial. That was after being collared to him for 5 years. I am about to be branded, which is something I've longed for and it took me 9 years to earn it... it only took me 7 to earn the wedding ring. :-)

Celeste

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RE: Something came across my mind and path - 1/19/2006 2:52:15 PM   
Gem


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Status: offline 		Brightest Blessings

<<<No excuse in the world can justify anyone anytime anywhere carving the word WHORE into anybody.>>>>

Well I beg to differ, I carry the scars of my Owners knife, I have whore and slut placed on my body as well as spider webs and his initials. He has tattooed me as well. I love every single mark, every single reminder of how deeply I went into my surrender, how much I am cherished and loved.

I understand that it is not for everybody, and that not everybody understands it. However that does not mean that those of us who carry the scars of our love are in abusive situations, or that our Owners are less because this is how they show their love.

If I was to be released, then I walk away carrying a living breathing scrapbook of my expereince, my service, of my steps of growth, of how far I went in my surrender. Each scar tells a story, some of them are wonderful tales, some aren't as great, however they are all the story of my life, and that is something special.

Blessed Be
Gem

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RE: Something came across my mind and path - 1/19/2006 2:53:31 PM   
Hallittlelolita


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Status: offline 		Hi there my Master and i have been married for 4 years and i have been collared for 6 months. i to would love to get a tat, and i know exactly what i would get, i would get a slavegirl of Hal symbol in japanese on my lower back. Master told me that would be cool, but i wouldnt be able to handle the pain. He said it would really hurt me and that i wouldnt be able to handle it. Well maybe someday. Does a tat hurt more than a brand or vice versa?

Sincerely Master Hal's lil cumslut slavegirl andie

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RE: Something came across my mind and path - 1/19/2006 3:35:47 PM   
kyraofMists


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quote:


To the subs : Would you alow your master to carve or brand or give you a tattoo that had no meaning exept you were his slave? And if you would... what would it mean to you if you would break up?


I am a slave; it is not up to me to allow him to do something or not. He wants to do it and it does not harm my well-being then it is done. There is no decision needed on my part to allow this or not to allow it.

That being said, he has cut his mark in me and it was the most incredible experience that I have had so far. It is a pair of crossed swords cut high on the outside of my right thigh. This was done in November and the marks are quite visible. I look at them and feel pride, I remember the absolute joy I had of knowing that I am his. Putting the mark on me was a reflection of our love and commitment to each other. It reflects his commitment to me and mine to him. It is not just a symbol of ownership, but a symbol of our devotion to each other.

This isn’t a decision that he made lightly. It was a conscious choice to mark me for the rest of my life with his symbol. He made that choice because there is no other option than to be in this relationship for the rest of our lives. I don’t think this is something that should be done without due consideration of the consequences and the consequences are that this may be a mark that you carry for the rest of your life. I mark very easily, so we both knew that cutting me this way would scar for the rest of my life.

If the relationship were to end, it would be a beautiful reminder of someone I love deeply. For me, there is not option to end this relationship. I am in it for the rest of our lives. That is the depth of our commitment to each other.

Knight's kyra


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RE: Something came across my mind and path - 1/19/2006 3:39:50 PM   
kyraofMists


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quote:

ORIGINAL: Petruchio


No excuse in the world can justify anyone anytime anywhere carving the word WHORE into anybody.




Just because you have issue with the word whore, does not mean everyone everywhere also has issue with it. It is not wise to presume that others share your same value system. To me, when I am called whore by my Lord it is a term of endearment and if he wanted to carve that word into my body, I would get great pleasure from the experience.

Knight's kyra


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RE: Something came across my mind and path - 1/19/2006 3:40:30 PM   
Noah


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quote:

ORIGINAL: Gem

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<<<No excuse in the world can justify anyone anytime anywhere carving the word WHORE into anybody.>>>>

Well I beg to differ,
Gem


Thank you for your thoughtful and gracious response.

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RE: Something came across my mind and path - 1/19/2006 7:53:09 PM   
veronicaofML


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Status: offline 		quote:

i have a huge tattoo on my butt from my 1st domme

and my 2nd domme is not too damned thrilled to see it all the time
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Sounds like it was a half-ass decision to me.
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it may be...to YOU...........but i am damned proud to have it..
She is a grand Lady............still to this day...
i dont remember having been told i had to ask your damned permission..........
ya dont like it

go elsewhere...

people like you make me belly fed up..........
i know for a fact YOU got some shit goin on "I" dont like either,,,but i aint said 1 friggen word to ya have i?

i am so sick of wannabes..............


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