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RE: BDSM Conventions that turn you off... - 3/29/2009 1:54:15 PM   
Andalusite


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Wow - that was pretty incoherent! I couldn't understand a lot of what you said there, but I never claimed you were racist, just that switches are one more category of actual people, so it's very arrogant and absurd to claim we don't exist. It's particularly ironic, since your profile comes across very "I've never done this before, so I want to discover myself online," while I've had BDSM involved in all of my relationships for the past 14 years.

By the way, many words in the English language can have multiple meanings. Switch can mean someone who is both Dominant and submissive, or someone who is both Top and bottom. We have light switches, railroad switches, and on-off switches on appliances, as well as willow and peach switches. "Switches" is also a verb, meaning to shift between two things, or to hit someone with a willow or other switch, or to switch on a top/bottom or D/s basis.

I don't care that I or other switches turn you off, I wouldn't be interested in you in any circumstances anyway!

< Message edited by Andalusite -- 3/29/2009 1:55:01 PM >

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RE: BDSM Conventions that turn you off... - 3/29/2009 4:39:43 PM   
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..but you did have some interest in me didnt you? by getting offended by my opinion. and you contiuning to comment on my opinion is only solidifying that even more. quite a simple solution to that...you see my name ..cant miss it its right there to the left..if you see me commenting on posts..ignore me..easy really...should try it.....but hows this before i go further into this lil' lala land....why not start up a new post...talking all about how switches are real and not made up...makes more sence then sitting here and droning on and on about my opinion and turning this post into a switches are real cause we the switches say so...unless you are that bored and need to feel some sort of justification to what you seem to be.
as to you mentioning that there are many types of switches...good job. i'm proud of you. but in your list you forgot all about toggles
and you think these have been incoherent...be glad i dont feel the need to talk to you in person..you would be really lost. lol
glad to hear you have so many years of knowledge under your belt... way to go...woohoo..is happy for you really iam hope to one day get to tht point as well.(minus the offence ofcourse)
why yes i am new at this...but i'm sorry i didnt know that being new and all i wasnt allowed a personality or an opinion....didnt realise that came with more knowledge and time under my belt....
as to being arogant and absurd for having my own opinion and having talked to others off and on and hearing them say they dont think switches are real either...well as i said its my opinion and as far as i know..i am allowed to have one and many in fact and will continue to have them until the day the opinion nazis say i am no longer allowed.
and i never claimed that switches turn me on..now the switches attached to all my toys those do and i will gladly turn them on and off at will...
so you say switches are real and what not...good for you ..go on with your bad self sorry but no matter what you or any others say...switches are not real to me. period. please be nice and start up a another post so you and the other switches can talk about just how real you are.....or what ever i really dont care. but this has turned into a silly lil' piss fit all over my opinion. and im not sure about any others who are reading this..but really we have hogged this post long enough with this silly lil' game of pissin' vinegar. have a nice day and enjoy.

and no this isnt some sort of experiment...and yes that was me being humorus in my reply to andalusite.  

< Message edited by subharlequin -- 3/29/2009 4:54:22 PM >

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RE: BDSM Conventions that turn you off... - 3/29/2009 4:54:01 PM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: subharlequin

..but you did have some interest in me didnt you?

I just read your post... and I have no interest in asking you out either.  Calm down.  I don't know Andalusite in real, but her posts are superb.  You could learn a lot if you paid attention instead of acting defensive.


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RE: BDSM Conventions that turn you off... - 3/29/2009 4:58:32 PM   
subharlequin


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yes i know that andalusite has good insight. ive read some of his/her comments and posts.
i am calm really i am. and im not here to get asked out by anyone. im here to read and learn nothing more nothing less. when i am ready to start getting asked out i will put that on my profile along with any and all info pertaining to my likes and dislikes.

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RE: BDSM Conventions that turn you off... - 3/29/2009 4:59:08 PM   
heartcream


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Does this mean Nairod wont ever have brown spatuals? Que sera sera.




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RE: BDSM Conventions that turn you off... - 3/29/2009 6:28:34 PM   
GotSteel


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what turns me off.....people that rant incoherently for a really long time using not only caps but a giant font as well. Especially when they are entirely off topic. subharlequin, it seems like it's well past time to take your topic to another thread.

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RE: BDSM Conventions that turn you off... - 3/30/2009 3:05:36 AM   
subharlequin


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good grief....did you miss the part where i did say it was time to move on??

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