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malloves69 -> RE: Question for Dommes 35 and older. (4/10/2009 9:59:57 AM)
i love older dominant women ...they are much more comfortable with their sexuality i think which can be lots of fun [:)] my current mistress is 52 ..awesome body ....and yes still a great appetite for sex [:)] plus she looks great wearing a big strapon [:)]the chemistry we have together is amazing ..oh by the way i will be 52 this year ..sure dont feel like it when im with her [:)]...went to vegas recently with her and she got me to cum like 6 times in 2 days [:)] not bad for a couple of 50 year olds ehh ? [:)] and we dont belive in condoms which makes it even better [:)] have fun mal

emtlbear -> RE: Question for Dommes 35 and older. (4/10/2009 10:56:27 AM)
I would not mind spanking or even bdsm with a young man. But we all have to be very careful now a days because of the law. You think you are playing with someone of age and the law says that you are not. I ask for ID before we play or before we discuss anything sexual. That mostly gets the underage or players of your back. Also most of the younger boys are players and just want to bust a nut. I do not like players.

FullfigRIMAAM1 -> RE: Question for Dommes 35 and older. (4/10/2009 3:29:04 PM)
It must be just me, but the above post just put a gross factor into this thread for me. If you don't know someone well enough (where they've been, what they've done, and who they are), and their legal age is even close to questionable, shouldn't you leave that arse untapped?! M

subsubtle -> RE: Question for Dommes 35 and older. (4/10/2009 6:57:12 PM)
It's not just you, FullfigRIMaam, that post above yours did not sit right with me either... HeavansKeeper, I liked your post and I'm glad you wrote it even though you thought this conversation was over. For the record, though, I have used the word "MILF." :) To me it has almost become its own word and not an acronym. I just use it, mostly only with my friends, to describe an older woman who I'm very attracted to, that's all.

FullfigRIMAAM1 -> RE: Question for Dommes 35 and older. (4/10/2009 7:00:00 PM)
Thanks Subtle. [:D] Now where did you say you were again? Just kidding.[8D] M

azjojoba -> RE: Question for Dommes 35 and older. (4/11/2009 1:56:13 AM)
It' interesting to see the difference between women and men on the age issue. Most men like young women because they are sweet sexpots. Older women don't seem to be motivated by the same things.

LadyPact -> RE: Question for Dommes 35 and older. (4/11/2009 10:19:27 AM)
Ever think that might be because some of us aren't here just to get laid?

HeavansKeeper -> RE: Question for Dommes 35 and older. (4/11/2009 12:16:40 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: subsubtle It's not just you, FullfigRIMaam, that post above yours did not sit right with me either... HeavansKeeper, I liked your post and I'm glad you wrote it even though you thought this conversation was over. For the record, though, I have used the word "MILF." :) To me it has almost become its own word and not an acronym. I just use it, mostly only with my friends, to describe an older woman who I'm very attracted to, that's all. Ok, it was a bad example as "milf" is a word like "slut" in that it can be (has been?) reclaimed as a compliment regarding sexuality. Every time I hear it, though, I think of that scene in American Pie where those two drunk kids are looking at a portrait of Stifler's mother. They are the demographic I picture using it most. That said, there are some mothers I'd like to do wondrously terrible things to... [:)]

Lockit -> RE: Question for Dommes 35 and older. (4/11/2009 12:21:45 PM)
I was checking out a profile of one of my adult daughter's friends. She called herself a MILF. I laughed so hard. It was difficult picturing a 21 year old MILF. Of course she was correct in being a MILF, but I see a MILF as typically older and not a 21 year old calling herself a MILF...

subsubtle -> RE: Question for Dommes 35 and older. (4/11/2009 1:05:06 PM)
In order to be considered a "MILF" to me, a woman has to be old enough to be my mother I'd say. I'd say you're a MILF, Miss Donna. That is 100% a compliment, doesn't have to have bad connotations. :)

Lockit -> RE: Question for Dommes 35 and older. (4/11/2009 1:12:59 PM)
LOL subsubtle... I know... it's for my brain right? hehe Since I am aging quickly here.. and have had compliments on my looks more than my brain and since I am losing both (pics don't show my fine lines)... I'd like a few more brain lovers to appreciate me for the feel good! hehe No need to respond here... just let me live in my fantasy. lol Edit...I meant to say Thank You! See... more brain goin every day! lol

FullfigRIMAAM1 -> RE: Question for Dommes 35 and older. (4/11/2009 1:16:50 PM)
quote: Ok, it was a bad example as "milf" is a word like "slut" in that it can be (has been?) reclaimed as a compliment regarding sexuality. Every time I hear it, though, I think of that scene in American Pie where those two drunk kids are looking at a portrait of Stifler's mother. For the record, the word MILF is not what made me uncomfortable, though I dislike the word myself. What gave me a bit of reflux was the wording on this.... quote: I would not mind spanking or even bdsm with a young man. But we all have to be very careful now a days because of the law. You think you are playing with someone of age and the law says that you are not. I ask for ID before we play or before we discuss anything sexual. That mostly gets the underage or players of your back. It also got me wondering how many of them you're attracting in the first place and visions of the show to catch a.... M

youngsubgeoff -> RE: Question for Dommes 35 and older. (4/11/2009 5:57:54 PM)
I think one of the problems is that male subs are seen as an over abundant, faceless commodity, and even more so with the younger ones such as myself. we have to fight even harder to get noticed, and even then its a one in a million shot. My thought process is if they want me, theyll write me.

Lockit -> RE: Question for Dommes 35 and older. (4/11/2009 6:03:23 PM)
The only people that are faceless to me, have no face. So I guess that isn't anyone I have seen. Because I want certain things in my life does not mean I don't see the wonder of another human being that just happens to be thirty years younger than I am. I happen to think some of my younger friends are quite impressive. Including subsubtle.

LadyPact -> RE: Question for Dommes 35 and older. (4/11/2009 6:12:24 PM)
You know, I have a thread going on the general board right now about stereotypes that are associated with those of us who like higher protocol. There's stereotypes about Dominants, subs, younger folks, older folks, so on and so on. I'm betting just about everyone could have one stereotype or another associated with them. Maybe even more than one. Knowing that stereotype is out there doesn't bother Me. I even mentioned in the other thread that I don't even mind working harder to show folks that the stereotype isn't true of everyone. In ways, I don't see this as any different. Besides, younger subs will get older in time. Not all stereotypes are things that can or will change.

subsubtle -> RE: Question for Dommes 35 and older. (4/11/2009 6:52:53 PM)
I definitely know I'm going to have to work to prove myself and disprove the stereotypes about young sub males when it comes to myself. The problem is that I'm not even being given a chance to do that. And I know I'll be older someday. Still, waiting years to get what I want is not fun at all. :)

LadyPact -> RE: Question for Dommes 35 and older. (4/11/2009 7:24:24 PM)
I can empathize for you on that one. I've never said on any of these age related threads that I don't. I didn't come into the lifestyle in My youth, but I bet it would frustrate the hell out of Me. So, My follow up to you would be, what are you doing to disprove the stereotype about yourself? If you don't mind, as an older Domme, I'd like to share with you things that I've noticed have worked for others. If you're talking about online stuff, as others have said, participate in the forums and show what you're made of. Give folks a chance to see your positive qualities of maturity, intelligence, and your personality. If it's in meatlife, get into the community and get to know people. Offer to help set up or tear down at events. (This is advice I give to people of any age.) It gives you the opportunity to know others and others to know you. That's not just the play aspect. Participate in discussion munches and socials. Most people can make dinner conversation. You do have a good profile, but don't focus on the age so much. Many people already know what you are up against. Make friends, learn things, and have fun.

ostrow30 -> RE: Question for Dommes 35 and older. (4/11/2009 7:56:28 PM)
I think it is interesting that there are so many people in the kink community who seem so incapable of empathizing with people with other people's "kinks", and recognizing them for what they are. There are people on here who will give a million reasons why they wouldn't choose someone younger, but ultimately, it boils down to the fact that they don't understand the mommy dommy kink. It's funny. I've spoken with others in the kink community who will be into some random kink, like "rope bondage with fox heads and ice cream in panties", or, well, any kink you can imagine, saying "oh my gosh...crossdressing! That is SO weird!" lol! I almost roll on the floor laughing at such comments. Ultimately, any of us into our fetishes are the LAST ones who should be considering any other kink "odd", as we ourselves are odd, aren't we? Is that bad? Of COURSE not! It's what gives us flavor! I must say, that never ceases to totally amaze me. So, at the end of the day, these women who deny you based on age simply aren't into the age difference kink. It isn't necessary because you aren't into the same music, are into a family life when they aren't, afraid you'll leave them....it is just that they aren't into the age kink. I have met some women who are. Older women who LIVE for meeting men young enough to be their sons. Its what gets them hot. So, keep looking for that woman. As diverse as all of our kinks are. ALL of us posting on here...have our odd kinks. You will find them. It's like asking the question "Why don't women like crossdressing men?" You're going to get tons of answers why from women who aren't into crossdressers. But do any of the answers matter? Of course not! Because there are some women who ARE into that, and eventually, they will come along.

Lockit -> RE: Question for Dommes 35 and older. (4/11/2009 8:18:54 PM)
So... an older person with a younger person has an age kink or fetish??? I must disagree. When I speak and give a reason for why I won't be with a young man thirty years younger than I am... it has nothing to do with any kink and everything to do with my life. Don't take words out of our mouths and give them new meaning please. I am very able to speak my mind honestly and without denial and I do mean what I say.... even if a young man tempts me... I still know my life and what I say to be true for me. Edit... Not every relationship with a big age difference is mommy domme. Not every young man wants to be baby boy... He wants to be a man... to a woman... pretty simple. I don't mean to sound harsh and I know my words do. But I guess I am so tired of people talking for other people and while you were trying to be nice to subsuble... your take on it all... isn't 100%.

SweetDommes -> RE: Question for Dommes 35 and older. (4/11/2009 8:30:54 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: ostrow30 So, at the end of the day, these women who deny you based on age simply aren't into the age difference kink. It isn't necessary because you aren't into the same music, are into a family life when they aren't, afraid you'll leave them....it is just that they aren't into the age kink. I have met some women who are. Older women who LIVE for meeting men young enough to be their sons. Its what gets them hot. Speak for yourself, please, not for me. We want someone who we can have a long term relationship with. Someone who still has a lot of growing up to do isn't as likely to be that person. Someone that we have nothing in common with isn't going to be that person. Someone who wants kids is not going to be that person. It doesn't matter their age, but we have found that most of those under the age of 25 fall into the various catagories that mean "not going to be that person". It's true, I don't understand the "mommy domme" thing, but I know plenty who want that who are our age or older, so that is NOT why we are not interested in those under 25.

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