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dennidson -> RE: Questions for male submissive's (4/6/2009 3:57:01 PM)

Sorry I seemed to overlook the part where she said "conistantly look at my profile". Although that has also applied to people looking at me. There have been times where I have messaged them thinking they must have had a hard time making the first step and had nothing in return most of the time.
As for your comment about Lynnx: I try not to get caught.




slvemike4u -> RE: Questions for male submissive's (4/6/2009 4:02:13 PM)

We all get caught ,there is that annoying little "Who's Viewing Me?" thigamijig....bust's you every time....lol




Lockit -> RE: Questions for male submissive's (4/6/2009 4:06:52 PM)

No... you don't have to get caught!  There is a way to see all the pictures without viewing the whole profile! lol  Go explore and figure it out guys!  I won't be the one that share's how... just becasue sometimes we like to catch you! 




slvemike4u -> RE: Questions for male submissive's (4/6/2009 4:12:12 PM)

Shhhs lockit...if I had to get busted doing these things ....so does he.....let him learn the hard way like I did.
LOL...pstts...look for "View All Photos"
Besides for some of us sub/slave types getting caught is half the fun....hehe.




dennidson -> RE: Questions for male submissive's (4/6/2009 4:15:02 PM)

I was beginning to think I was the only one who knew  a way around it




slvemike4u -> RE: Questions for male submissive's (4/6/2009 4:18:30 PM)

Shit, when one does as much perving as I do....one learns a trick or two.....




manxcat -> RE: Questions for male submissive's (4/6/2009 4:21:58 PM)

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ORIGINAL: slvemike4u

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ORIGINAL: Lockit

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ORIGINAL: slvemike4u

*sneaks back after perving manxcat's profile for the 5th or 6th time*


Did it work?  hehe
Nope haven't heard a peep from Her.......dammit.


Oh mike, i assumed you simply wanted to see who was was posting some incredibly  brilliant (cough) responses to some of the threads. [:D] As it usually has been after i have posted something.
I often perv for the same reason, or because occasionally it is the opposite and i really need to see where that person is coming from.

BTW you have cmail.

manxy




Politesub53 -> RE: Questions for male submissive's (4/6/2009 4:27:47 PM)

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ORIGINAL: Lockit

Thank you Mike!  I'll grill you later! hehe


o0o A barbeque. I`ll supply the sauce.  [8D]




slvemike4u -> RE: Questions for male submissive's (4/6/2009 4:36:53 PM)

Politesub it is not polite to invite oneself to a private party.....
manxcat my perving motivations are much the same...though i am much quicker to do so when the poster is a Dominant Female(not all that interested in the mindless meandering's of my fellow males...go figure)...BTW You have CM




Lockit -> RE: Questions for male submissive's (4/6/2009 4:44:07 PM)

I'm thinking we might need some meat skewer's.... yes.. I think so!

Thanks politesub!  Sauce would be great! lol




manxcat -> RE: Questions for male submissive's (4/6/2009 4:49:49 PM)

I have all kinds of skewers.  And many other sharp pointy objects.[:D]
Who errr what will we be bar b queing?


manxy




manxcat -> RE: Questions for male submissive's (4/6/2009 4:51:28 PM)

Do you know how i did that last response mikey?[;)]

manxy




LookieNoNookie -> RE: Questions for male submissive's (4/6/2009 4:59:32 PM)

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ORIGINAL: Lockit

I've been at CM for almost two years and have a number of submissive men who consistantly look at my profile, but have never made contact.  I have wondered from time to time, what they were there for and what might be going on.  This isn't a complaint because I am not getting enough email! lol  I just wondered if there are reasons that a submissive male might be afriad or too shy to make contact with a dominant and sometimes if they are continuing to visit a profile in hopes that the dominant will contact them.

What are red flags to you besides the financial demands you might find on a profile?  What do you like to see in a profile?  What do you look for and what attracts you?  What makes you decide to contact a dominant?  What are you looking for in life and with a dominant?  Are you just viewing profiles just to look at pictures or for other reasons? 

Please speak your mind and give a view into the way you see things.

I am not looking for evaluation on my profile or for anything other than to understand what some of you might be thinking and feeling.


I've very carefully looked at your profile...and here are my comments/concerns:

1)  Nowhere in your profile does it say "LookieNoNookie is the most studliest of sub males....and frankly...I really don't understand why you'd email me knowing he was still alive".

2)  (See above....it really covers all the specifics).

3)  You...are a complete, total babe....that you're still single....well....it astounds me. (I'm available on Thursdays and weekends....just for the record).

4)  I've read your posts....they're always well thought out (and kind...you're never abrupt). 

5)  "What makes you decide to contact a dominant? ".....her brain.  I love a woman with a huge brain (not like a mammoth sized hayud {although I have actually taken out forceps on a date and asked a woman to "hold still for just a damned minute....STOP MOVING DAMMIT!!!!!!" while I measured the space between her ears and her lower lip...a common measurement for high thinking Dommes} .....just a good mind....I loooooove a smart woman).

6)  "What are you looking for in life and with a dominant? ".....one simple answer....."my best friend"....nothing more....and only that :) If I find that....CM can kiss my......so anyway....as I was saying.....

7)  "
Are you just viewing profiles just to look at pictures....."

Uhhhmmmmm.....no...of course not....I only subscribe to CM to read the articles.....(honest).




Lockit -> RE: Questions for male submissive's (4/6/2009 5:04:11 PM)

ROFL Lookie!

I'm never abrupt???  You must have me confused with someone else! lol  That or you are blinded by the titty thread!

Thank you!




LookieNoNookie -> RE: Questions for male submissive's (4/6/2009 5:11:37 PM)

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ORIGINAL: Lockit

ROFL Lookie!

I'm never abrupt???  You must have me confused with someone else! lol  That or you are blinded by the titty thread!

Thank you!


(It is a dilemma I've faced in the past....titties have a profound effect on me).

<----- (I'll be over here)....




igor2003 -> RE: Questions for male submissive's (4/6/2009 5:17:32 PM)


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ORIGINAL: Lockit

I've been at CM for almost two years and have a number of submissive men who consistantly look at my profile, but have never made contact.  I have wondered from time to time, what they were there for and what might be going on.  This isn't a complaint because I am not getting enough email! lol  I just wondered if there are reasons that a submissive male might be afriad or too shy to make contact with a dominant and sometimes if they are continuing to visit a profile in hopes that the dominant will contact them.

What are red flags to you besides the financial demands you might find on a profile?  What do you like to see in a profile?  What do you look for and what attract's you?  What makes you decide to contact a dominant?  What are you looking for in life and with a dominant?  Are you just viewing profiles just to look at pictures or for other reasons? 

Please speak your mind and give a view into the way you see things.

I am not looking for evaluation on my profile or for anything other than to understand what some of you might be thinking and feeling.



I'm one that often does revisit various profiles on different occasions mostly because my memory is about as short as my...New Years resolutions. Why do I visit in the first place? Often they will say something in the message boards...sometimes rediculous, sometimes profound...and I want to know more about the person behind the statement or belief. If and when I have a desire to contact a dominant woman I have no qualms about doing so. I'm definitely not too shy or afraid to make first contact.

If I contact someone on this side of CollarMe (the message boards) I'm probably not contacting them about a relationship. In fact the only time I can remember contacting a dominant woman from the message boards via c-mail was simply to talk to her about some music since she seemed to be knowledgable about a certain type of music that I some questions about.

Red flags, other than the financial, tribute, money-Domme thing aren't many. If I am looking at someone from the message boards and see that the picture they have on their profile is of a different person than what is on the message board I would definitely see that as a red flag. If they want to see me on cam to be sure I am who I say I am, but then refuse to do the same in return, that is a red flag. There are other things that I look at with a grain of salt, but will let them slide until more information is known.

Information in a profile should give a good all-around picture of the person and their likes and dislikes, both in every-day life as well as in their BDSM interests. If a woman says she is dominant or a Mistress, but won't (or don't) list any of her BDSM interests makes me wonder just how dominant she really is. This is, after all, a BDSM site, and looking at BDSM compatability is every bit as important as compatability in any of the other areas of a relationship.

What attracts me? Difficult to define since there are an infinate number of combinations of things that I would find attractive. Intelligence and a good attitude are at the top of the list. What makes me decide to contact a dominant? I assume that is in hopes of estabishing a relationship? I need to feel that there is at least a possibility of compatability....a sharing of interests, etc. What I would look for in a life with a dominant would depend on the dominant in question. There are things I might like, look forward to, and enjoy with one dominant that could very well be pure hell with a different dominant. Each case is different.

Am I going to the profiles just to look at the pictures? LOL...there are much better places to view pictures than going through the profiles.




Lockit -> RE: Questions for male submissive's (4/6/2009 5:24:54 PM)

LOL Igor... thank you, that was very beautiful!




dennidson -> RE: Questions for male submissive's (4/6/2009 5:33:50 PM)

Igor I wish I could put myself across as well as you do.




slvemike4u -> RE: Questions for male submissive's (4/6/2009 5:35:27 PM)

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ORIGINAL: manxcat

Do you know how i did that last response mikey?[;)]

manxy

 Nope ,completely bewildered here.
Polite it would seem my private grilling is to be a crowded party....might as well bring the sauce...hehe




Lockit -> RE: Questions for male submissive's (4/6/2009 5:36:31 PM)

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ORIGINAL: slvemike4u

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ORIGINAL: manxcat

Do you know how i did that last response mikey?[;)]

manxy

Nope,completely bewildered here.


I am soooooo totally curious! lol




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