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Dastan -> RE: Questions for male submissive's (4/16/2009 6:56:59 AM)
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ORIGINAL: subtlebutterfly
I don't mind ppl looking, I just find it kinda funky that the "who's viewing me" keeps screaming "light blueeeee" n then there's tiny bits of pink/red/dark blue/purple
and well ..it was before I even started posting in the forums.. and even when I've empty profile so there litereally was nothing else to see[8D]
but then maybe it could be 'cause sub men are..the biggest portion of this site(I wouldn't know)?[8|]
If I may, Miss Subtle....
In my country, a thing all men learn when growing up is the famous Rule of Three.
It is a saying, a phrase which, like an inmovable axiom, we learn at our puberty: " For every man who is chosen by a woman to be hers, there will always be three who she didn't choose: the one who couldn't even try, the one who tried and lost, and the one who came closest but came up short enough to be second and therefore not the One chosen". It teaches us that there will always be such a ration in life.
This applies to BDSM. For every Domme, I'd calculate an average of 37 Male Subs, where about 18 are serious and the remainer is just a mass of occasional sexually-oriented shallow play bottoms. And within those 18 serious Subs, I'd say that applying the basic values of an evaluative standard, only 20% or less have what it takes to find and be claimed by Dommes of equally great merit, and another percentage close to 35% has to settle for what you could consider a lukewarm BDSM relationship with a mere Top.
If we take this into consideration, you see why, even without any basis for interaction such as forum postings, men have viewed your profile. Even if you just created it today, it has the necessary things to attract a male sub like a moth to a flame: It says "Female", so for many, the age, the sexual orientation, location or the absence of a pic just further their curiosity and their own wrongful conceptions.
I guess that you will never get rid of such nuisance. I have entered chats here, and looked at many profiles like so, without messaging, rarely do I look at a profile twice when doing so, but I get many views from male subs. I once got contacted by one who told me that my nationality made him curious and he entered my profile to see if I was for real, as he said it. Another one told me he was not even bi but he liekd my pic because he was in the gym and I was a good aim as to how he wanted to look, and so on.
Perhaps it's not just the moth who flies to the flame, but anything else may have its own reason why, but they surely don't mean you no harm.
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