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Lockit -> No Strings Housework? (4/7/2009 4:01:14 PM)

Okay, what is this thing called no strings housework?  I really want to know.  I have never seen no strings housework slaves/submissive's and I believe it is a fable... an evil little story that was created to torment dominant's with the fantasy of it.  Who was the evil lil one who decided it might be nice to entice a dominant woman with this little fable?

I have heard of no string house cleaning slaves, but I have never personally seen one.  Are they real?  Do they really come and clean and expect nothing?  Do they really know how to clean?

Tell me true... what should I do... believe in the fable and it might one day happen for me or move it along oh domina one... everyone knows no strings housework submissive's are not true????



crazyredhead1957 -> RE: No Strings Housework? (4/7/2009 4:17:03 PM)

i am curious too, as i love housework, believe it or not.  But i would rather do it for my Dominant as part of a D/s relationship.



Lynnxz -> RE: No Strings Housework? (4/7/2009 4:17:52 PM)

No silly, no strings housework slaves prance over with a feather duster and a latex maids outfit, knock all the dust off your fan so it sticks to your computer, and then giggles going "O Ooooooops! Tee hee!" to provoke you into punishing them... but not too hard, cause, you know, that would hurt.


[8|] My experience anyway.



Lockit -> RE: No Strings Housework? (4/7/2009 4:19:40 PM)

That's what I always thought... part of a relationship, but darn if I haven't read a number of profiles where someone said they were into no strings housework.  I just really wonder what they mean by that.



Lockit -> RE: No Strings Housework? (4/7/2009 4:21:48 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: Lynnxz

No silly, no strings housework slaves prance over with a feather duster and a latex maids outfit, knock all the dust off your fan so it sticks to your computer, and then giggles going "O Ooooooops! Tee hee!" to provoke you into punishing them... but not too hard, cause, you know, that would hurt.


[8|] My experience anyway.



That's what I'm thinking too. lol



Aylee -> RE: No Strings Housework? (4/7/2009 4:22:24 PM)

Maybe they mean in the nude.  Not even a g-string. 

But. . . if someone wants to come over and clean and expect NOTHING in return, except for the joy of cleaning, please email me and I will send my address AND directions. 



VelvetCruelty -> RE: No Strings Housework? (4/7/2009 4:27:17 PM)

I've only met one in many years.  He was a much older gentleman, 70ish - and he would clean the house top to bottom butt nekkid once a week.

He would put his tribute on the table, strip and get to work.  He'd take about two hours.  Never spoke a word, unless it was to ask about more cleaning supplies.  He knew what he was doing and my house was SPOTLESS!  So, they do exist, I just think it is a rare occurence.  (He's probably still in CT if anyone is looking, lol........)



Andalusite -> RE: No Strings Housework? (4/7/2009 4:28:46 PM)

As best as I can tell, most of them mean "no threads" (ie. not a stitch on) rather than "no strings."

Seriously, I've had a couple of guys offer the whole "no strings housework bit, but I'm not willing to claim to dominate someone/that he is submitting to me unless I actually feel dominant toward him and he reacts submissively toward me. It seems like a lie, otherwise.



Lockit -> RE: No Strings Housework? (4/7/2009 4:30:46 PM)

Now it gets interesting... he pays tribute to come make a spotless house... Nice!



PeonForHer -> RE: No Strings Housework? (4/7/2009 5:09:13 PM)

I think if I were doing housework for a domina by far the larger part of it wouldn't come from a submissive sort of motivation at all.  Frankly, I do everything around the house better than any partner I've had before, anyway.  Including sewing.  [;)]

But not including cooking.  To me, food's just fuel.  Just as well asparagus doesn't need to be cooked, isn't it?  (Thought I'd say that before anyone else does.)

And not including finding items that have disappeared.  I think women just swallow such things when one's back is turned.



MsDDom -> RE: No Strings Housework? (4/7/2009 5:52:53 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: VelvetCruelty

I've only met one in many years.  He was a much older gentleman, 70ish - and he would clean the house top to bottom butt nekkid once a week.

He would put his tribute on the table, strip and get to work.  He'd take about two hours.  Never spoke a word, unless it was to ask about more cleaning supplies.  He knew what he was doing and my house was SPOTLESS!  So, they do exist, I just think it is a rare occurence.  (He's probably still in CT if anyone is looking, lol........)


you were damn lucky!!  [:D]  that is what i want...dont talk, just clean and get out...mmm-mmm!



littlesarbonn -> RE: No Strings Housework? (4/7/2009 7:07:18 PM)

I can't tell you how many women I've come across that actually expect "no strings housework" even though I've never advocated a "come in, clean, and leave silently" type of relationship as a submissive. What happens is that my experience as a house slave or a live-in puts these fantasies into women that means I must also be that type of submissive they imagine that would want nothing but just cleaning. I remember a period of about three months where I went to coffee with a dozen different dominants who all somehow seemed to be looking for exactly that. They wanted me to come over, point me to cleaning supplies, and then never see me again until it was time to point me out the door. They would tell me that their "real" bdsm and D/s was reserved for specific partners. I couldn't figure out for the longest time why they kept contacting ME in the first place.

What's funny is that I state up front, whenever someone mentions "no strings housework" that I'm not into that. And then they get strangely surprised when it turns out that I'm all into cleaning and making their life less hectic, because that's the reality they wanted, not the fantasy they keep asking for.



ShaktiSama -> RE: No Strings Housework? (4/7/2009 7:21:19 PM)

*thoroughly confused by littlearbonn's post, and thus moves on*

Back on topic, I hear that there are these little tiny submissives who sometimes come in the night and do all of your chores?  All you have to do is leave them a little bowl of milk to drink or some oatmeal and honey.  They call them "brownies"!  They'll do all your housework and make shoes for you and everything.  You just have to be sure not to call the food you leave a "payment", though.  If you do, they'll leave...

Sounds unlikely, sure.  But so do all stories about no-strings housework.  [;)]




marie2 -> RE: No Strings Housework? (4/7/2009 7:28:04 PM)

I think they get off on it sexually and probably leave a load of jizz somewhere around.



LadyHibiscus -> RE: No Strings Housework? (4/7/2009 7:29:08 PM)

And don't make critical comments about the Brownies or take advantage of them, or they'll sour your milk and break your dishes!



undergroundsea -> RE: No Strings Housework? (4/7/2009 7:33:23 PM)

They do exist. Strings may be broadly defined. For some, the act of doing work itself is the kink. For some in this bunch, the string is that this kink of feeling like a servant needs to be fed.

I think it would help a domme who wishes for housework done to understand what is the motivation behind this work and, if the motivation does not make for incompatibility, to feed this motivation. This scenario then becomes one in which energy flows both ways.

Cheers,

Sea






MissLaura1973 -> RE: No Strings Housework? (4/7/2009 7:37:11 PM)

Yep, they do exist - I've been honored to have been served by two different people who had this desire - each found their pleasure and fulfillment in knowing that they were doing something that made my life easier / less stressful / less complicated. Their wiring / interest was such that they weren't looking for sex or "kink" or anything along those lines - they wanted to show-up, find a list of what needed to be done, complete those tasks, and leave. Sometimes there would be interaction, sometimes not - but if there was interaction it was very vanilla - like sitting at the table and drinking tea with me while discussing gardening.

Love to meet another one of these people at some point :)



ShaktiSama -> RE: No Strings Housework? (4/7/2009 7:52:38 PM)


quote:

ORIGINAL: LadyHibiscus

And don't make critical comments about the Brownies or take advantage of them, or they'll sour your milk and break your dishes!


Or leave jizz in your sock drawer.

That's what I heard.



LovingMistress45 -> RE: No Strings Housework? (4/7/2009 7:52:38 PM)

I WANT one!!!



slvemike4u -> RE: No Strings Housework? (4/7/2009 8:01:52 PM)

Okay I need a clarification here......if a sub comes over on a Tuesday....and cleans,or mows Your lawn....has a bite to eat with You(food,you perverts) bids You a fond farewell...and goes home.Is this no-frills housework...Yes right.Not lets tweak this example a little...this same slave knows that on Saturday he will meet you at the local dungeon and You will commit acts upon his body not allowed by the Geneva convention....was Tuesday's labors still no string.There is no quid pro quo....buttttt



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