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AlexandraLynch -> RE: how to punish a masochistic slave? (4/13/2009 12:00:39 AM)
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Actions have consequences. This is true in the mundane world. It's also true in the kink world.
If I tell my sub to clean the front room while I'm doing the grocery shopping and I return to find he got distracted by a back issue of Scientific American, he'll still have to clean. And you know, I find that in those circumstances that the extra time it takes to complete the task is the exact same amount of time I had mentally reserved to engage in an activity the sub really likes later that evening. The extra time's got to get taken from something else, after all; there's only 24 hours in a day. That's just a consequence.
I've been ticketed before for not wearing my seatbelt, and I admit, part of what then drove me to make it a nearly unconscious habit to put it on when I got in was, in fact, the memory of the embarassment of the stop, the financial pain of the ticket, and the annoying bureaucratic hassle of paying it off. It would be nice if all of us as adults would always be properly responsible all the time, but it doesn't happen.
My girl isn't a masochist, but thanks to childhood abuse can endure quite a lot of pain without a whimper, and will not tell either my husband or I when the pain goes deeper than her doms meant to deliver. She got a bruise last night we were not intending to inflict, because she did not say anything when a spank hit harder than intended
I told her that if she says to herself, "But she's having fun, I don't want to stop my Mistress not having fun" or "I'm such a brat sometimes, I really deserve it" or "it's really not a big deal, my dad did worse most weekends when I was young" or any of that other bullshit again, she'll do a sinkful of dishes while listening to rap. BAD rap. I'll do it, too. (grin) Punishment in this game is not always a matter of merely beating someone's ass.
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