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ORIGINAL: subinchico

Insane, psychotic, mentally challenged humans could be true "no limits" humans.

A sane, mentally intact human that says they are a "no limit" slave/sub are stating a fib, misinformation, etc..
Just wondering who are the psychotic humans or fibbing humans on CM?

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ORIGINAL: Domin8tingUrDrmz

In my opinion, a slave's limits are set by their owner's and I think it is wise for a slave to learn of their potential owner's morals and desires ahead of time.

I think a submissive is one who has limits of their own that their Dominant should at all times respect.

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ORIGINAL: InTonguesslut

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ORIGINAL: DesFIP

http://www.mayhem.net/Crime/robinson.html

A serial killer within the realm of BDSM.

Ya gotta love it when stuff like this gets dragged out to try and support the 'i have limits' camp.

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ORIGINAL: InTonguesslut


 
I am a no limits slave. I'm not fibbing, i'm not giving misinformation. I take on the limits of my Sir, they are not my limits, they are his.
 

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ORIGINAL: SilverMoonSlave

Hello Everyone...

I was wondering what thoughts you have on this. Please forgive me if this has been brought up ad nauseum, I searched and could not find a thread.

Now this concerns a situation where you have initially discussed desires and needs and then later on a Master wants you to do something that you know will cause you harm either mentally or physically.

I've come across people who feel that a slave should do whatever her Master asks of her... even her absolute hard limit. I consider a hard limit something that I know I can never bring myself to do... not just a 'gee... hmmm... i don't know', but something that I know will disturb me or can cause me true harm.

For example, I am not into scat or drinking urine. No matter how much I'd love and desire to please and pleasure my Master, that is something I will not do.

I also feel that if He insists and is completely unwavering, even to the point of questioning my loyalty, then there is something off in our relationship.

Now don't get me wrong. If I deeply care and love my Master doing anything He asks will be an absolute pleasure... except for true hard limits. I believe when I have a Master He will know me, push my boundaries but at the same time respect me.

What say you?

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ORIGINAL: kazzaslave

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ORIGINAL: subinchico

Insane, psychotic, mentally challenged humans could be true "no limits" humans.

A sane, mentally intact human that says they are a "no limit" slave/sub are stating a fib, misinformation, etc..
Just wondering who are the psychotic humans or fibbing humans on CM?

Hi subinchico,

First of all, have we met? chatted? had any contact at all? Because this posting is in response to what kazza wrote and as far as she knows we have never so much as exchanged a single message and so you have no way of knowing what her mental state is. For the record, and if you read her post carefully, she has never said that she doesn't have limits, only that she has never felt the need to discuss them with Master Malkinius because she knows he would never do anything to harm her mentally or psychologically.

Please don't make judgements of kazza which have no foundation when you have no idea what she is like and who she is.

Thank you for the way you wrote this response and in reflection I must be to literal/objective,,, or being trampled severely by dommes is not BDSM, fetish and I'm just fucked up mentally.


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ORIGINAL: Her1Obsession
Dear SilverMoonSlave,

You sound a lot like my pet, (MyLovespet) she asked me the same thing and I respect her HARD LIMITS and I will never love her less...

She is my world, and I will protect her and love her and see that no harm comes to her,

Follow your and trust your Heart SilverMoonSlave !

May you be as loved an cared for as MyLovespet...

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ORIGINAL: Drakontos

*grins*
zaphira told Master once that she had a hard limit of listing hard limits

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Meat hooks have become a hard limit.

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I am a no limits slave. I'm not fibbing, i'm not giving misinformation. I take on the limits of my Sir, they are not my limits, they are his.

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He has told me that I will never be harmed and that I will always be healthy mentally and physically to take care of my kids.
He's proven countless times that he is in control of himself and that he is rational. We both like going to the edge and to do that we have to trust each other and tread on those limits.

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ORIGINAL: leadership527

~FAST REPLY TO ALL~
In the past I've offered up this answre to the whole 'no limits' thing. Maybe this'll sit right for some of you.

In my opinion, the vast majority of the limits/nolimits debates have nothing to do with any disagreement at all. It has to do with terminology and mental outlook. Let's divide the world into the poets and the engineers. The poets will say things like, "I am a no limits slave" because it is true in their reality. Contained within that statement are a bunch of assumptions like, 'we are not discussing mental illness, horror movies, or any other related crap'. They are extolling the virtues of their choices as poets are wont to do and really, who runs around saying poets are all liars because they say things like, "You shine brighter than the sun." or "Your eyes are the windows to my world." Neither is factually true.

Then, of course, we have the engineer types (myself among them), who are looking at an entirely different world view. To us, absolutes are... well.. absolute. When we say absolute zero we mean that temperature beyond which it is not possible to be colder. It is absolute. There are no exclusions or caveats. If we later find out it really was possible to get colder than that, we'd change the definition, not run around insisting that the old temperate was still absolute zero. So when we say 'no limits' we mean literally there is no limit to what this person would do. To us, that is a meaningful distinction and the fact that it is not to the poets doesn't make us either stupid or unable to imagine the wonders that is TPE.

Yup, as an engineer, I don't acknowledge any no-limits slaves in my engineering definition of what no-limits means. And here's a big surprise... all the poet types tend to agree with me when put that way. But when I equate 'no limits' to any of the other statements I routinely make and accept within my marriage, then I'm perfectly fine with the phrase and, in fact, would say Carol qualifies.

"Carol has no limits which are relevant within our relationship"

How's that?

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ORIGINAL: SlyStone

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I am a no limits slave. I'm not fibbing, i'm not giving misinformation. I take on the limits of my Sir, they are not my limits, they are his.

You are forgetting about the most important limit of all, the one that is never mentioned when discussing limits, and that is your freedom to stay or go. Unless you relinquish that, give up that basic human right, your no-limit declaration is nothing more than an idealistic statement of intent,  rather than a stone cold situational reality.