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Tribute Dommes - 5/4/2009 8:40:14 AM

ukmale4u

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Seems to me there are more Dommes wanting subs to tribute now than there are subs ,anyone else noticed the ever increasing number of pretty young ladys demanding your tribute , oh how they must love Domme for dommes sake lol

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RE: Tribute Dommes - 5/4/2009 8:50:07 AM

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This is your first post. Welcome to collarme.

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RE: Tribute Dommes - 5/4/2009 9:56:21 AM

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There are more subs to Dommes ratio anyway, regardless if tribute or not.

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RE: Tribute Dommes - 5/4/2009 10:13:49 AM

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Yes i know there are more in reality i was just making an observation as to the recent increse in the tribute cam online Dommes

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RE: Tribute Dommes - 5/4/2009 11:17:01 AM

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Supply and demand. A fool and his money are soon parted, the more fools, the more people show up to cash in on that old adage.

If they are more interested in the wallet than the person carrying it then it has NOTHING to do with D/s!

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RE: Tribute Dommes - 5/4/2009 11:23:59 AM

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First, Welcome to Collarme.

Second, I always seen more subs (Male) then there are Dommes (Female) to go around. Now I am not sure about the tribute Dommes. I keep away from them. I am not paying for anything. This is for mutural fun and pleasure. When I was with MADAM, we only have a few sessions, but we "BOTH" had fun doing it, as well as her husband. If it isn't fun or ENJOYMENT for all, why do it. It would be like a job. That's what those Tribute Dommes act like, and are only out for MONEY !

Take care and always have fun, sub BalletBob

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RE: Tribute Dommes - 5/4/2009 11:32:03 AM

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Nope, I haven't noticed this.

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RE: Tribute Dommes - 5/4/2009 11:48:11 AM

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So basically...if you are not dominated like you'd like to be dominated...the person has horrible intentions, is not actually a dominant, etc? Sounds like you have picked the right option for you...which is not to involve yourself.

I have been paid to dominate someone, certainly wouldn't call myself professional. I thought it was extremely erotic and fun. Would I take every sub that came to my doorstep with money? Well, no. But the money was a cool thing to play with as far as humiliation and power exchange type things go.

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RE: Tribute Dommes - 5/4/2009 12:07:09 PM

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RE: Tribute Dommes - 5/4/2009 12:16:40 PM

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I am a tribute sub.

*hands out tissues for subsequent OP headaspload*

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RE: Tribute Dommes - 5/4/2009 12:40:27 PM

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I was just wondering... If you pay a tribute to a Domme but don't like the servie you received, are you entitled to a refund?

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RE: Tribute Dommes - 5/4/2009 1:54:23 PM

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Not without a "Money Back Guarantee." rotfl

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RE: Tribute Dommes - 5/4/2009 1:58:21 PM

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rofl! There will be brains on the wall!

Crumbledwater,

When the guy paid me to 'dominate him,' the point was he paid to serve ME for x-amount of time. He didn't come to the table with the hidden agenda of doing x,y,z. So he had no disappointments or desire for a 'refund.' I'd imagine a woman could do this on a regular basis and avoid wankers who are just looking for sensation x,y,z.

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RE: Tribute Dommes - 5/4/2009 4:15:35 PM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: crumbledwater

I was just wondering... If you pay a tribute to a Domme but don't like the servie you received, are you entitled to a refund?

O hells no.

I had a guy demand his money back after he suddenly realized I was serious about the "No Sex" rule.

Not my fault he couldn't read.

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RE: Tribute Dommes - 5/4/2009 5:41:39 PM

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FR

Much of what follows is a re-paste-&-mix of prior postings of mine, FYI . .. .

First, my general policy statement:

I appreciate professional BDSM providers, porn actors, strippers, prostitutes, & others who're toiling in 'the adult entertainment industry' / 'sex work' / whatever euphemism we're using this week . . . . . It's important & difficult work, & its practitioners deserve respect . . . . .

As such, I almost prefer people who've seen a professional BDSM provider. *shrugs*

& whining about the subject of (especially women) getting paid for work in the 'adult entertainment industries' is a big turn-off for me, & it tends to render the whiner ugly in my eyes no matter what exterior package that attitude is wrapped in.

I don't chase young, fit, attractive women, so I suspect I miss out on the many opportunities to be conned, hustled, & etc by those pretending-to & / or capitalizing-on being young-fit-attractive-female, but I can discern when someone is batting way out of their league, as seems to be the case for an awful lot of the whiners of 'fakes & frauds & liars, oh my' as well as the complainers about 'gold-diggers' . . . .

I've always liked doing the math -- hottie young chiquitas or dudes only make up a small portion of the overall dating pool (keeping in mind that more than half of Americans are overweight -- with similar for the other 'wealthy' nations -- & that a full 1/3 of US population fit the medical definition of 'obese'; & only about 10%-20% of the population is between 18 & whatever cut-off age one uses in determining 'hotness', & so on) . . . . . . . .

I once heard the stat that only about 2% of the total global population are 'naturally' built like a super-model, so it seems reasonable that something on the order of 1-in-10 are going to meet this hypothetical ideal of young-fit-skinny-pretty . . . . .

& the competition for that small portion of the dating pool is pretty fierce . . . . . .

So. The question becomes: what does one have on offer to lure the pretty fishies?

That 'economic' reality underlies why some pretend to be pretty fishies, & why some expect extra (cash) bait . .. . .

In general (&, yes, data points vary widely) pretty fishies tend to prefer to date & mate with other pretty fishies; those less-pretty fishies must offer up something that the other pretty fishies don't -- stereotypically money, but it can be personality, sense of humor, access, power, skills, somethin' above & beyond the ordinary ho-hum . . . . .

The further one is from young-pretty-fit, the more this is so, I tend to think . .. . . .

& for the crystal-clear record, I'm a not-so-pretty, not-so-young, not-so-fit-nor-skinny cougar who likes the guy variety of the younger & prettier & skinny & fit . . . . . I do okay . .. . . *shrugs shoulder* . .. . . & I don't really do the money thing, much . . . . .

< Message edited by DemonKia -- 5/4/2009 5:43:19 PM >

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RE: Tribute Dommes - 5/4/2009 11:00:14 PM

LyraLaLaurie

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I'm a Pro-Domme and I also lifestyle...believe me, no one is forcing tributes and we are all doing a job we love. The first time you walk through the dungeon and realize you are *employed* there is intoxicating :)

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RE: Tribute Dommes - 5/4/2009 11:11:30 PM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: ukmale4u

Seems to me there are more Dommes wanting subs to tribute now than there are subs ,anyone else noticed the ever increasing number of pretty young ladys demanding your tribute , oh how they must love Domme for dommes sake lol

I have "Not a Pro Domme" at the end of my little CM profile and I am still OFFERED tribute...now go figure!?
I am offended...there are times it is not the Domme, but it is the boy...

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RE: Tribute Dommes - 5/5/2009 12:37:52 AM

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ORIGINAL: LyraLaLaurie
we are all doing a job we love.

Quite, but when it is about the money rather than about the Dynamic then it is a business transaction NOT a D/s relationship!

More BHS than BDSM

(BHS was a popular chain store here in the UK.... just in case non-Brits hadn't heard of it!)

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RE: Tribute Dommes - 5/5/2009 1:18:16 AM

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ORIGINAL: ukmale4u

Seems to me there are more Dommes wanting subs to tribute now than there are subs ,anyone else noticed the ever increasing number of pretty young ladys demanding your tribute , oh how they must love Domme for dommes sake lol

Aren't you the boss over your own wallet?
So you can decide to not chose to read those adds, or not even
bother. D/s is a choice, it's not something which is forced out of you.

So it's your choice to do so or not.

I agree with RavenMuse's comment :
* If they are more interested in your wallet then in you,
then it hasn't got anything to do with D/s*

I wish you enough.

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RE: Tribute Dommes - 5/5/2009 1:22:43 AM

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If people can get money by doing it, they'll do it.

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