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RE: Two girls who love each other making out and shower... - 5/25/2009 6:46:54 AM   
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I actually never expected her to respond.  I did tell her I was posting and did send her a link.  I think the drama comment has hit the nail on the head.  Thanks, for all your comments.  Sometimes, it is really helpful to hear from others.  Once again, Thanks.

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RE: Two girls who love each other making out and shower... - 5/25/2009 7:48:53 AM   
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Does anyone ever feel the desire to "make out" with someone, regardless of their gender, if they haven't got the hots for them?

I mean, contrary to what is portrayed in porn movies, when women get together for Candlelight or Mary Kay parties, we don't start making out with each other.  I was in a sorority and we never had a pillow fight in our underwear.  Hell, I've been to ladies-only adult toy sales parties and no one even kissed hello or good-bye.



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RE: Two girls who love each other making out and shower... - 5/25/2009 7:51:10 AM   
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...Can you be in a loving relationship with a female friend, make out, maybe even shower together and have that not turn you on and therefore not be sexual?...


No.

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RE: Two girls who love each other making out and shower... - 5/25/2009 8:03:06 AM   
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I'm pretty sure making out would probably turn me on on some level.  Maybe not the FUCK ME RIGHT NOW level, but sexual doesn't have to mean 'makes me want to have sex' in my little corner of the world.


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RE: Two girls who love each other making out and shower... - 5/25/2009 9:42:28 AM   
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What Mercnbeth said

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RE: Two girls who love each other making out and shower... - 5/25/2009 10:28:53 AM   
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I can kiss women and it not lead to sex, but I don't think I can kiss a woman and it not be sexual.

I was actually thinking about this last night while kissing M.  It was great kissing and it turned me on, but I was thinking of the differences in kissing a woman (like the absence of stubble).  I can do a lot of things with a woman it not be sexual, but kissing is for sure not one of them.

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RE: Two girls who love each other making out and shower... - 5/25/2009 12:28:14 PM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: WarriorKitten

that's the thing I AM IN CONTROL.

Because this is clearly evident in the tone of your post and all...

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ORIGINAL: WarriorKitten

PERIOD. END OF SENTENCE. I CAN CONTROL MYSELF.

If you could control yourself, you would not be yapping up a whiny storm when told to do something by your D-type. That's where your control is meant to be.

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ORIGINAL: WarriorKitten

I really dont have sexual feelings towards my sister friend.

Trying to redefine a specific word in order to covertly undermine the order of your D-type is dishonest and ugly.

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ORIGINAL: WarriorKitten

I have a group of friends and we're just about that and I feel they were there first and they willl be there after and if people can't understand that then O FUCKING WELLL;

I understand perfectly. Have you told your D-type that you don't prioritize her above your plaything friends? Have you taken the time to take that very fact into consideration as to how it speaks as to your ability to be a sub?

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RE: Two girls who love each other making out and shower... - 5/25/2009 12:33:26 PM   
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ORIGINAL: WarriorKitten

BTW not warrior kitten... am just on her profile.
\* I feel un trustworthy. and alll EWWWWWWWWWWW

So you've now not only sullied the honor of your D-type by throwing your temper tantrum in here, you've made questionable the quality of a friend who would welcome someone with such a propensity for drama and let them use their profile to cry in public because they don't have the integrity to speak their own words.


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RE: Two girls who love each other making out and shower... - 5/25/2009 3:43:23 PM   
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ok maybe it's because I'm straight or something but....

why would anyone make out with anyone if they aren't sexually attracted to them and making out wasn't a sexual act??

What's the purpose?

<scratches head totally confused>

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RE: Two girls who love each other making out and shower... - 5/25/2009 3:49:52 PM   
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I certainly prefer women over men sexually yet, I can be around naked women and not be turned on at all. I can share a bed with a female friend, a gym locker room or a shower. I have even inspected a "broken pussy" (long story) and commiserated. But I have never made out with a woman and had it not be sexual on some level.

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RE: Two girls who love each other making out and shower... - 5/25/2009 4:03:51 PM   
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hold on hold on hold on!!!!...pussies..can...break? there's a bone other than the..pelvis... thingy???
oh for fucks sake today I was told I had a muscle.where I didn't know I had a muscle n now I need to start looking for my pussybone. fucking ...anatomy!

...I don't think I have a pussybone where is it supposed to be?

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RE: Two girls who love each other making out and shower... - 5/25/2009 4:07:30 PM   
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Not really. Just imagine, only riding a horse once or twice in a year. Then riding all day for 3 days straight, mostly drunk......in shorts. You will be convinced it is broken.

And no, I've never done it, just seen the damage left.

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RE: Two girls who love each other making out and shower... - 5/25/2009 4:10:40 PM   
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I've done that...ookay..that really does hurt..I meant the one day after not riding it for ages..
gee ffs you SO had me looking n I couldn't possibly figure out where a that bone was supposed to be..I'm gonna go n dig a hole somewhere n die omg!

it does a damage? ookay..I'm just gonna..yeh..find that..hole


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RE: Two girls who love each other making out and shower... - 5/25/2009 4:15:16 PM   
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Serious chaffing and bruising eh?

I felt so bad for her. She spent the rest of the weekend in loose cotton shorts sitting gingerly on an ice pack.

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RE: Two girls who love each other making out and shower... - 5/25/2009 4:17:00 PM   
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oh my gawd ..i'm convinced

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RE: Two girls who love each other making out and shower... - 5/25/2009 4:17:24 PM   
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ORIGINAL: subtlebutterfly

hold on hold on hold on!!!!...pussies..can...break? there's a bone other than the..pelvis... thingy???
oh for fucks sake today I was told I had a muscle.where I didn't know I had a muscle n now I need to start looking for my pussybone. fucking ...anatomy!

...I don't think I have a pussybone where is it supposed to be?


This made my day!!!!        I could so see me in this conversation.  

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RE: Two girls who love each other making out and shower... - 5/25/2009 4:46:51 PM   
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You should have been in the conversation in that YWCA shower room.

Amy: " Oh god, my pussy hurts so bad, I swear it's fucking broke! Someone look."

Missy: " Oh shit Amy, I think you broke your pussy! LeeAnn, Robin, come look."

Robin "Oh my god (poke poke ) Amy does that hurt?" (Robin is my sister-in-law and not the brightest bulb.....of course it hurt)

Amy: "YES it fucking HURTS!!" as she jumps awkwardly backwards away from Robin.

Me: "Yep Amy, it's broke. No fucking like monkeys for you and Pup(her husband at the time) this weekend. Ice packs and more whiskey for you."

No one wanted to tell her how really bad it looked.........

Adding.......much to the amusement of Robin's uptight sister and the 60+ lady who's name I forget....that were afraid to look.

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RE: Two girls who love each other making out and shower... - 5/26/2009 4:32:02 AM   
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*dons her pussy inspector teeshirt and heads to the gym lockerroom for a quick illicit shower/makeout session*

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RE: Two girls who love each other making out and shower... - 5/26/2009 8:49:38 AM   
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I have a group of friends and we're just about that and I feel they were there first and they willl be there after


And that is obviously not something you are prepaired to give up control of... or do your friends hold more 'control' over you than your "Master"?

I don't know your Dynamic, not in a position to judge but the attitude you just showed there would have you heading out of the door in any dynamic I would be part of.


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RE: Two girls who love each other making out and shower... - 5/26/2009 10:19:57 AM   
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It doesn't matter if she feels it's sexual or not. It doesn't matter if she feels it isn't cheating. As long as she does something that she knows you consider cheating, she's damaging the relationship. If this is more important to her than the relationship with the op she needs to state that. If the relationship is more important than indulging herself, then she doesn't do it.

She can't have her cake and eat it too.

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