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RE: What do you do when at club everyone is owned or to... - 6/10/2009 10:37:29 PM

flogger

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Ive changed my standards a lot, I ask if they are free and not attached first and formost before saying a lot of talk. The women are young and always with a dude or a bunch of women. I don't approach them. I only approach the ones who perv me on skates as I dance, weed them out to see who' man is lurking in the backgrond, then, my damn male friends, see them and goes for the approach...lots of competition everywhere. Im just going to relax and wait for a slave to find me on collarme. I not a god so I cant expect results from sending e-mails. They more than likely get e-mails all the time.

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RE: What do you do when at club everyone is owned or to... - 6/10/2009 10:53:35 PM

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Just popping back in to say that I love the new pic, Flogger!

If you don't want to approach women "cold turkey" on the other side, I suggest you hang around the boards a bit and get to know the folks here (the silly section called "Polls and Random Stupidity" is a great place to get to know people). I've met up with plenty of folks from the boards in real life after getting to know them here, and have made some awesome friends, been invited to great parties, and hung out with them at local clubs. Even if the girl you seek isn't here on the boards, friends always have friends, and networking is a good way to get introduced to new people.
Good luck to you!

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RE: What do you do when at club everyone is owned or to... - 6/10/2009 11:48:06 PM

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Thank you wyldhrt for the kind words. Im going to go to that poll site now and get comfortable and meet some fnew kink riends.

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RE: What do you do when at club everyone is owned or to... - 6/11/2009 8:56:35 AM

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I think your profile and picture are much better, but you should put that stuff about martial arts, skating, etc. on your profile as well! Do make the first move here, though - while some ladies do (and I did a couple of times, when an interesting profile came up on the welcome page back when I was looking), most are very shy about it, particularly the submissives. I've never had a man refuse to answer or give me a nasty response, and most seemed very flattered by the attention, but society in general says that men are supposed to make the first move.

As to the hearing loss, I've topped a lot of people, and my hearing loss hasn't caused any problems (except sometimes in non-play situations, when talking over the phone or in noisy environments). I do alert people before playing with them, on either side of the whip.

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RE: What do you do when at club everyone is owned or to... - 6/11/2009 11:28:09 AM

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Thanks for the advice. I'm just going to sit it out. I ve sent so many e-mails since 2004 and they don't respond back. I don't have the energy left to chase via the computer. If someone finds me interesting they will let me know. Ive done my part to the point of just changing strategy. If they read these boards they will know more about me this way.

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RE: What do you do when at club everyone is owned or to... - 6/11/2009 2:25:14 PM

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Hey everyone I want to personally thank GQ for her great help and support with my profile updates and configuration. I thought I had thanked her somewhere on the thread, so GQ forgive me for the oversight. You are a great person for me to have met. Once again thank you for your help and I hope we can continue to chat amytime. In fact I look forward to it.

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RE: What do you do when at club everyone is owned or to... - 6/11/2009 10:33:04 PM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: LookieNoNookie

Personally....I'd call Domino's.

Or try SUBway

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RE: What do you do when at club everyone is owned or to... - 6/11/2009 10:46:53 PM

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Subs with pizza for those after play munchies? They get bumped higher on the dance card.

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RE: What do you do when at club everyone is owned or to... - 6/11/2009 10:58:57 PM

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Im not very thread savvy, where does everyone go? When, where on the board?

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RE: What do you do when at club everyone is owned or to... - 6/11/2009 10:59:40 PM

LadyPact

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I'm not sure I understand your question.

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RE: What do you do when at club everyone is owned or to... - 6/11/2009 11:06:38 PM

Kana

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If you are asking where do I go..
I am nominally a member of my local group BESS and move in and out of some of the local kink circles but I have never met a slave at either.
Its always been BYO

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RE: What do you do when at club everyone is owned or to... - 6/11/2009 11:17:54 PM

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People who post on the boards, What other threads do you guys go too. I'm now roaming threads to see where I want to respond. I should have been more clear, my bad.

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RE: What do you do when at club everyone is owned or to... - 6/11/2009 11:31:04 PM

LadyPact

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No problem. I get caught up in threads Myself that I can't always keep track of.

I go to threads here that interest Me. I really don't care much what section they are in. Of course, I identify with the Mistress section most. There are good folks there. That doesn't stop Me from getting involved in posts on the Master section, and every once in a while on the submission forum. Since I'm poly, that board draws Me in as well.

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RE: What do you do when at club everyone is owned or to... - 6/12/2009 11:55:37 AM

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I'm still lost I tried to keep up with most of the post, but Its a hassle, so Im going to see what gives me a jolt and stick to that.

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RE: What do you do when at club everyone is owned or to... - 6/12/2009 12:01:33 PM

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GQ I hope this lands under your quote. It was really nice of you to help me put my profile in order to the point of being readable and noticeable to all the pervs who has found it to be "creepy" Thank you so much for your insight and input to helping me make it better, without you I never would have composed it to a likable format. Thank you very much GQ

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RE: What do you do when at club everyone is owned or to... - 6/12/2009 12:10:40 PM

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I finally figured out where to say thank you to GQ for her help.

quote:

ORIGINAL: GYPZYQUEEN

ALL:

WOULD this profile be creepy if there was a 40 yr old stud muffin with a six pack in the pic...???..come on..
It is almost as if this man does not have the right ot be a man??
HE can wish for things like any other man all he wants...wheather they come to him or not ..time will tell..I agree that the profile needs work and he is changing his pic..he genuinely wants help here..not ankle biting...
I AGREE THAT HE IS NARROWING HIS POOL BY THE LIMITS OF HIS PREFERENCE
SO IT WILL TAKE LONGER>

OP:

#1) leave spaces between what you say on your profile...ppl will read it all then..
start paragraphs...and keep each one about one topic..like one on you..one on desires..on on the sub..on on what you have to offer

#2) ask those who wrote or wrote..what in my profile caught your eye?

#3)Put more in your profile about you..the man...not that you want to be rimmed and your cock sucked..most men do..and this does not attract women as a rule..
"hay ya..he wants to be sucked..ya I'll write him.".

It is about HOW Will this man enhance my life? contribute to it?
so that the sub can BUILD a relationship with you..it is NOT all about the kink interests..a realtionship cannot be built on that..even a reg play one..what are your strengths..are you firm..fair..a good listener..attentive..devoted..loyal..a take charge guy?
YOu are obviously creative...re music...and hay put in a quote from a good old jazz guy..

#4) if you really feel you are a DADDY..tell how...how will you care and dote on your girl..guide her..mentor..how will she be YOUR girl...EMOTIONALLY??

#5) age..hearing are of NO CONSEQUENCE...I have seen 50 yr olds with 19 yr olds..73 with 26 and they have be tog. for a while...( an dya one was a woman who was 60 and hte guy 26 yep)
BUT if it is a definate preference
then you may need to OPEN it a bit some how..perhaps as to the body..healthy weight
and I HAVE A HEARING problem and I talk about at the first meeting or 3rd or so
message..just as I talk of my diabetes..it is easy to set up things for this..as YOU know..if I cannot see their mouth then they always have a bell in their hands etc..

#6) the reason you do not have a sub is not that other DOMS dom..there must be another reason..perahps review and go within and see the last few scenerios and SEE it as an observer watch your self..

#7) as a retired school marm I love helping with things like profile..feel free to message me and discuss further if you like..so far I have helped a few on here D and s....... with good results..

#8) broaden your horizons...LIKE IRON BEAR said.."relaz and enjoy..
maybe volunteer at a conf..or meeting..when you are in a dif mode other than looking for a sub the energy CAN CHANGE

#9) do you want a slave...sub...reg play partner...Daddy girl..I have seen you say all of them

best of luck
GQ

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RE: What do you do when at club everyone is owned or to... - 6/12/2009 12:44:09 PM

purepleasure

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It looks like you're really starting to get the hang of the forums and CM (collarme). Welcome to the weirdness, enjoy your stay!

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RE: What do you do when at club everyone is owned or to... - 6/12/2009 2:42:24 PM

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Now Im going out to rollerskate and clear my head a bit from stress and feeling clingy.

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RE: What do you do when at club everyone is owned or to... - 6/12/2009 2:46:08 PM

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ORIGINAL: GYPZYQUEEN
ALL:
WOULD this profile be creepy if there was a 40 yr old stud muffin with a six pack in the pic...???..come on..

My reply:
Yeah, I still would have found it creepy regardless of who was saying it (The original profile).
I think that yours and Flogger's work together on the profile now makes it a much more attractive presentation.
Davan

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RE: What do you do when at club everyone is owned or to... - 6/13/2009 12:14:36 AM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: DavanKael

ORIGINAL: GYPZYQUEEN
ALL:
WOULD this profile be creepy if there was a 40 yr old stud muffin with a six pack in the pic...???..come on..

My reply:
Yeah, I still would have found it creepy regardless of who was saying it (The original profile).
I think that yours and Flogger's work together on the profile now makes it a much more attractive presentation.
Davan

Thanks for the comment davankael

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