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Fitznicely -> RE: Drugs, Edgeplay and RACK (6/14/2009 5:33:40 AM)

having braved the crowds of fighty, virtually paralytic partygoers last nite, I'm all for turning all the clubs round here into hash bars [:D]




agirl -> RE: Drugs, Edgeplay and RACK (6/14/2009 5:54:35 AM)

Given the mechanics of being quite so utterly out of control of your own thought patterns, judgement, hell, even muscles, thrown into the mix of whatever it is you personally call edge play, or RACK play (them being, for these purposes different but possibly overlapping types of play), I find it very hard to think of someone assessing the risk involved and finding it acceptable. I find it so hard, in fact, I can't see anyone agreeing.

Ok, but they DO still agree.

The fact is, that some people get something out of it that you do not, that you don't understand and you don't approve of, nor would you like. It's simply that other people can and do.


You are still assuming that anyone partaking of a drug is *utterly out of control*. It really IS possible for people to be responsible about what they do, including doing *stuff* with drugs in the mix.

It seems that you associate it with people being utterly fucked out of their brains and going at it without a thought......That may be a real cause for concern, as you put it .....but there still are plenty of people that enjoy it, find it a specific kind of enhancement sometimes, and choose it because of that.

You have an idea and enjoyment of a *scene* for yourself and a view on *poisoning* yourself...You get what you get and enjoy enormously what you get.....Some people also find that wonderful but ALSO like the changes and alterations that doing it * a little differently* brings. It's not necessarily *instead of* but *as well as*.

It wasn't specifically about scening in your previous posts, to be fair...


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whether it be in or out of a scene, recreationally or as a habit. Let's face it, they can't have much respect for themselves.
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The majority of views around will be very firmly in the camp of *all drugs bad*......I agree with your earlier comment that most people that quietly do it, don't leap into the limelight, waving their arms and cheering for the people that shout about it. Some people are quite particular about who represents THEIR actions, thoughts and views and prefer to represent themselves.

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Fitznicely -> RE: Drugs, Edgeplay and RACK (6/14/2009 6:36:07 AM)


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ORIGINAL: agirl

Given the mechanics of being quite so utterly out of control of your own thought patterns, judgement, hell, even muscles, thrown into the mix of whatever it is you personally call edge play, or RACK play (them being, for these purposes different but possibly overlapping types of play), I find it very hard to think of someone assessing the risk involved and finding it acceptable. I find it so hard, in fact, I can't see anyone agreeing.

Ok, but they DO still agree.

The fact is, that some people get something out of it that you do not, that you don't understand and you don't approve of, nor would you like. It's simply that other people can and do.


You are still assuming that anyone partaking of a drug is *utterly out of control*. It really IS possible for people to be responsible about what they do, including doing *stuff* with drugs in the mix.


I dunno...I've seen everything ranging from a borderline OD to a tiny dab of speed, and always their behaviour, reaction times and perceptions have been altered enough for me to term it "utterly", but fair play, semantics ain't my bag.

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It wasn't specifically about scening in your previous posts, to be fair...


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whether it be in or out of a scene, recreationally or as a habit. Let's face it, they can't have much respect for themselves.
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Ah yeah, I covered that tho. In the case of class I/Schedule II drugs, they are classed as poisons, aren't they? Or at least they act as such, in the majority of cases. To me, it shows your body and mind disrespect to do that to them. I thought that would be clear.




camille65 -> RE: Drugs, Edgeplay and RACK (6/14/2009 6:54:52 AM)

I am coming into this thread late, and from the perspective of private play only.

Yes I play (or get played with actually) while under the influence. I love doing it but I trust him beyond implicitly. He has medical training, he is always always completely sober and he is careful with me. He also knows that I love to play while buzzed. So about every 4th time he lets me get buzzed and giggly before he begins to restrain me.

We do not play with safe words but if I ever gave an indication of fear or discomfort it would stop immediately.

I do not want to play with a dominant who was buzzed though, I want him to be in sober control of the situation.






agirl -> RE: Drugs, Edgeplay and RACK (6/14/2009 7:17:51 AM)

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ORIGINAL: Fitznicely


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ORIGINAL: agirl

Given the mechanics of being quite so utterly out of control of your own thought patterns, judgement, hell, even muscles, thrown into the mix of whatever it is you personally call edge play, or RACK play (them being, for these purposes different but possibly overlapping types of play), I find it very hard to think of someone assessing the risk involved and finding it acceptable. I find it so hard, in fact, I can't see anyone agreeing.

Ok, but they DO still agree.

The fact is, that some people get something out of it that you do not, that you don't understand and you don't approve of, nor would you like. It's simply that other people can and do.


You are still assuming that anyone partaking of a drug is *utterly out of control*. It really IS possible for people to be responsible about what they do, including doing *stuff* with drugs in the mix.


I dunno...I've seen everything ranging from a borderline OD to a tiny dab of speed, and always their behaviour, reaction times and perceptions have been altered enough for me to term it "utterly", but fair play, semantics ain't my bag.

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It wasn't specifically about scening in your previous posts, to be fair...


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whether it be in or out of a scene, recreationally or as a habit. Let's face it, they can't have much respect for themselves.
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Ah yeah, I covered that tho. In the case of class I/Schedule II drugs, they are classed as poisons, aren't they? Or at least they act as such, in the majority of cases. To me, it shows your body and mind disrespect to do that to them. I thought that would be clear.


Yes, I understand YOUR take on it Fitz. I know you're targetting mind-altering drugs and viewing it as a disrespect to the mind and body ......but it depends on the people, and what they are looking for, why, what and how. YOU view it in a particular light and in some cases I would too. I don't have a blanket view of drug-taking such as *all drugs good*. But having seen, over a LONG period of time,that choosing to *poison* yourself in a particular way , for a particular reason, with particular people .......isn't necessarily *bad* either.

agirl










Fitznicely -> RE: Drugs, Edgeplay and RACK (6/14/2009 7:28:28 AM)


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ORIGINAL: agirl
that choosing to *poison* yourself in a particular way , for a particular reason, with particular people .......isn't necessarily *bad* either.

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We'll have to agree to differ, then. Vive la difference [:)]




sublace -> RE: Drugs, Edgeplay and RACK (6/14/2009 7:39:50 AM)

I don't believe in absolutes, but I can respect people's opinions and experiences




TEMPERANCE -> RE: Drugs, Edgeplay and RACK (6/14/2009 7:50:26 AM)

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ORIGINAL: Apocalypso

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ORIGINAL: Fitznicely
All the accumulated knowledge I have on drugs in sceneplay is that their use is frowned upon, to say the least.


Hmm.  This could be entirely different in the US than the UK (although I suspect it isn't) but the use of drugs in sceneplay isn't all that uncommon in my experience.  Most of those who do so don't go round shouting about it, for obvious reasons.  And are actually pretty wary of those who are overly vocal.



I suspect its the same in the states as it is in the UK, on public forums everyone pooh poohs the idea yet in real  life half of them are at it.... even those that maintain that they dont.

In line with every other arguement i have had in terms of alcohol and drug use within bdsm 'play' is the whole notion of ooooooooooooh we dont do that its bad, bad, bad also relevant to prescribe mood altering drugs??? and if not why not???




Apocalypso -> RE: Drugs, Edgeplay and RACK (6/14/2009 8:06:55 AM)

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ORIGINAL: Fitznicely
Thanks for the excellent discussion so far. I've caught up after a night out and, I think what's torpedoed a lot of the discussion is the many (deliberate?) misinterpretations of what counts as "hard" drugs and what doesn't.

Frankly I'm disappointed. Those in the UK will know what I mean by Class I drugs, Class II, etc. Those in the US, Wikipedia tells me you classify them into schedules. I'm sure you all know which drugs fall under the categories Schedule I, Schedule II, etc. As we have a commonly accepted frame of reference under the law, I don't see why so much of the thread has to be taken up nitpicking a random list of four words. Granted, maybe I could have used the legal classifications from the start, but seriously guys, I'm not writing this for my University Professor.


I don't think it's a deliberate misrepresentation- more a reflection that people often reply to the OP without reading the rest of the thread.

More broadly, part of the issue here is that how we classify drugs is a major part of the debate. It would be my view that the legal classifications simply aren't helpful in a discussion of risk- they're far more based on historical, social and political factors than they are on the actual potential harm of the individual substances. If you're going to look at a useful means of general categorisation, I'd suggest using the Matrix of Harm instead- http://www.sciencedaily.com/releases/2007/03/070323105029.htm

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Given the mechanics of being quite so utterly out of control of your own thought patterns, judgement, hell, even muscles, thrown into the mix of whatever it is you personally call edge play, or RACK play (them being, for these purposes different but possibly overlapping types of play), I find it very hard to think of someone assessing the risk involved and finding it acceptable. I find it so hard, in fact, I can't see anyone agreeing.


You've read a lot of the replies very differently than me.  There seems to have been general (if not universal) agreement that certain edgeplay activities may well be too risky if done while using mind altering substances. 

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It puzzles me genuinely. Put aside my personal opinion that it shows a huge disrespect for your body and mind to poison yoursef with these high classification drugs


The thing is, that's difficult to put to one side because it's an important factor in your views.  And if you're going to make an argument that drug use is closely linked to low self-esteem, that's not merely a personal opinion.  It's a verifiable psychological theory.  Put it like this.  If I was going to claim that people who use drugs are more inclined to creativity, wouldn't you ask me to back that up with some data?

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The lesser classification drugs, while recreationally/medicinally I don't have much of a problem with...I still can't quite wrap my head around what they bring to a scene that can't be replaced by going into sub/domspace, endorphin rush or that peculiar trancelike, caffeine-like high I personally feel when the scene's going well...


I'll mail you.  [;)]

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This was always specifically about scening. I don't accept that because i might enjoy a drink or a smoke when I'm not playing, it makes me a hypocrite. I don't mix the two. I don't believe you should.


I'd agree with you that's not hypocritical.  (Assuming that you're not participating in other high risk activities while drinking, which you don't seem to be).  However, enjoying a drink or smoke, while claiming that drug users (of any kind) have no respect for their bodies is hypocritical.  It really boils down to an argument that says "my drugs good.  Your drugs bad" which is always going to lead to questions of double standards.  As an aside, that's why I'm more tolerant of anti-drug lectures from my straight edge friends, who have the benefit of consistency.

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I THOUGHT, with 20+ years of research and first-hand experience to back up my assumption, that drugs and scening don't mix, period (even in private).


Is your view that drugs and scening don't mix, or that drugs and edgeplay don't mix?  Because you've made both arguments in this post.

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The point people have made about "don't get involved"...well, I see the "butt out" argument, but there's times when it's just necessary, y'know? When someone is obviously in need of help or advice, I'm far from the kind of person who'll stand back and say "someone else's problem, pal". AS I said, but seems to have been joyfully ignored, I'm not some crusader who'll gleefully crash into every playparty or private scene with drugs dogs and start whupping ass. I would never put myself up as that.


To be fair to you, that's not a criticism I share with others.  Hell, I'm an arrogant, obnoxious, opinionated dick at times.  It doesn't make me wrong. [8D]

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NO, BTW, I'm not backtracking or saving face or recovering the shreds of my dignity or whatever it is that people obviously will try and jump on. This has always been my point, and was the context of me saying in the first place "Don't scene on drugs, period". That was said to someone who'd been abused horribly. Who here would not say to that person "best you stay away from that kinda shit altogether"?


To be fair, one of the reasons for the new thread was that I argued very firmly that thread was not the place for a debate about the validity of drugs in BDSM in a general sense.  I'd disagree with your view that was the main issue in that thread however.  In the situation described, the person being scened with was someone who nobody should scene with, whether sober or not.




IronBear -> RE: Drugs, Edgeplay and RACK (6/14/2009 8:26:21 AM)

In some cases it can be the matter of a lesser of two evils. Now I'm not just referring to BDSM play situations but life in general. For years my medicos have made futile attempts to have me quit smoking. Aye I know it can be damaging to my body and thus health. however, smoking and in fact coffee are the two best short term and I stress short term anti stress medications. The medical fraternity will have it that they can prescribe suitable anti stress medication so I don't need to smoke. This is quite true however as I keep telling them, all anti stress medications have the side effect of having the user becoming psychotic even for a short time with at times large mood swings. Seeing that for most of my adult life I have been required to be armed 24/7 (and still by and large are), my question is: "Are you saying you'd rather have some one who is armed and has access to military weaponry becoming psychotic and suffering large mood swings or would you rather they puffed away at a cigarette?" I do believe most sub/slaves would rather have a Dominant smoking (in the appropriate places) than getting stressed out or becoming psychotic and suffering mood swings and as such unable to function safely and in a manner in which he or she can do their jobs in a proper manner with a clear perception of what is happening. But then this is just my view and it may be totally wrong for others. 




Fitznicely -> RE: Drugs, Edgeplay and RACK (6/14/2009 9:02:19 AM)

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ORIGINAL: Apocalypso
I'd suggest using the Matrix of Harm instead- http://www.sciencedaily.com/releases/2007/03/070323105029.htm


I've not seen that before, thanks. That does make things clearer than the official classifications. I'm not 100% happy about them either, but really needed a common frame of reference.

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If I was going to claim that people who use drugs are more inclined to creativity, wouldn't you ask me to back that up with some data?


Nah, I'm a Doors fan [:)]

I get your point tho.

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...enjoying a drink or smoke, while claiming that drug users (of any kind) have no respect for their bodies is hypocritical.


Frankly, that's really rare,but I'm no puritan. I'll turn that criticism on myself too with absolutely no hesitation. I'm very overweight, sinfully unfit and riddled with health complaints I'll have for life. Nope, I don't think you could say I've respected my body all that much. Mind, on the other hand...

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Is your view that drugs and scening don't mix, or that drugs and edgeplay don't mix?  Because you've made both arguments in this post.


To a point, thanks to this discussion, I'd say my borders and tolerances HAVE changed a little. I can accept that a careful approach to (ugh, definitions) "soft" or "social" drugs might be cool when scening, but I still hold that the risk assessment needed before edgeplay or RACKplay would preclude the use of harder drugs.

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the person being scened with was someone who nobody should scene with, whether sober or not.
Amen to that.





aravain -> RE: Drugs, Edgeplay and RACK (6/14/2009 10:01:45 AM)

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ORIGINAL: Fitznicely

Those in the US, Wikipedia tells me you classify them into schedules. I'm sure you all know which drugs fall under the categories Schedule I, Schedule II, etc.


Nope, actually this is the first time I've heard that the fall under categories at all, here o.O Each illegal drug is supposed to be just as bad as the others... and I've always thought the UK method of classifying drugs as silly. They're either illegal and bad, or they're not. No need to say "Hey, this one is *less* illegal!"

I understand what you're asking otherwise though, and the simple answer is this: it's BECAUSE your 'thought patterns' (as you say) are different that the experience is enhanced.

If you're doing a scene you've done repeatedly before (take spanking, for instance) then it's going to be different when you're high than from when you're sober.

I still wouldn't do it. I've had sex while intoxicated (and while my partner is intoxicated) by alcohol, before, and I'm hesitant, now, to ever do it again. Not because it wasn't good (it was *awesome* and very different from 'sober sex') but because of the dangers of it. I'd imagine that sceneing is the same way




CallaFirestormBW -> RE: Drugs, Edgeplay and RACK (6/14/2009 10:13:58 AM)

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Original: Aravain

Nope, actually this is the first time I've heard that the fall under categories at all, here o.O Each illegal drug is supposed to be just as bad as the others... and I've always thought the UK method of classifying drugs as silly. They're either illegal and bad, or they're not. No need to say "Hey, this one is *less* illegal!"


Actually, aravain, this is inaccurate. Below is the link to the USDEA Schedule of Drugs:

US DEA Drug Scheduling

Drugs and penalties in the US are "scheduled", and are regularly reviewed and moved higher and lower on the schedules, according to things like abuse potential, illegal distribution potential, etc.

Dame Calla




ChasingOblivion -> RE: Drugs, Edgeplay and RACK (6/14/2009 5:59:47 PM)

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ORIGINAL: DemonKia
I use cannabis regularly, in part to treat my depression. I've had a medical recommendation, so I've been a legal user, & I've been an illicit user . . . . . I personally classify cannabis as being much more similar to coffee & tobacco as an intoxicant, especially for regular users . . . .



I agree with you in regard to the effects. I have played many times after smoking marijuana and I have never found my judgment to be impaired, (at least not in the sense that I regretted anything later or felt I would have done anything differently) nor have I ever been injured as a result.
I also use marijuana as a treatment for depression, as well as social anxiety disorder and migraine headaches. I've tried countless combinations of (legal) prescription medications since 1991, with little or no benefit. Some medications would help for a while and then stop, or they wouldn't ever help, or they'd make me feel worse, or I'd  have such horrible side-effects that I  would have to stop taking them. Marijuana is the only thing I have found that handles my symptoms without making me feel worse. Unfortunately, I do not live in a state where medical marijuana is legal, nor am I particullarly near to a state where it is. I am hopeful that one day that will change.




aravain -> RE: Drugs, Edgeplay and RACK (6/14/2009 8:11:16 PM)

Bah, I missed an 'in my understanding' somewhere in that post :P

I wasn't trying to say he was wrong.

Then again, I've never dealt with drugs or had to know for sure, so *shrug*.

Still seems ridiculous that one type of drug is more illegal than another :|




SmokingGun82 -> RE: Drugs, Edgeplay and RACK (6/14/2009 8:39:20 PM)

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ORIGINAL: aravain
Still seems ridiculous that one type of drug is more illegal than another :|


Not really... there are varying degrees of many criminal charges. Murder has degrees, so does assault, so does theft... why would drugs be any different?

Plus, there's a pretty serious difference between slinging crack and giving a friend a Tylenol III...




aravain -> RE: Drugs, Edgeplay and RACK (6/14/2009 11:50:29 PM)

Because those degrees are related to the motivations behind the crime...

What's the different motivations that validates having degrees of drugs? "Oh, I didn't want to get *as* high as I did on shrooms"?




SmokingGun82 -> RE: Drugs, Edgeplay and RACK (6/15/2009 8:57:18 AM)

I think there's a misunderstanding on the scheduling... it's not JUST for criminal drugs or for prosecution- it controls the level of access. If I'm not mistaken, doctors need certain qualifications to prescribe the different levels.

It also goes by danger... yes, there is a chance a schedule I could kill you, but if you take a gander, you've got marijuana in I, cocaine in II, methadone in IV, and codeine in quantities greater than 200 mg in V... and that's the likelihood that it will kill you.

Also, from a pure legal standpoint, you need some way to say the kid in his dorm room with some weed is not the same as the guy selling meth out of his car. And they're both different than Dr. Feelgood, writing prescriptions people don't need.




SassySarijane -> RE: Drugs, Edgeplay and RACK (6/15/2009 9:19:57 AM)

I don't play under the influence and won't play with anyone under the influence. I much prefer to fully experience what is being done to me rather than have it altered in some way by chemical influence. Others are going to do what they are going to do, they just won't be doing it with me. It is a hard limit for more than just obvious reasons for me.




beargonewild -> RE: Drugs, Edgeplay and RACK (6/15/2009 10:01:49 AM)

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ORIGINAL: ChasingOblivion

I agree with you in regard to the effects. I have played many times after smoking marijuana and I have never found my judgment to be impaired, (at least not in the sense that I regretted anything later or felt I would have done anything differently) nor have I ever been injured as a result.
I also use marijuana as a treatment for depression, as well as social anxiety disorder and migraine headaches. I've tried countless combinations of (legal) prescription medications since 1991, with little or no benefit. Some medications would help for a while and then stop, or they wouldn't ever help, or they'd make me feel worse, or I'd  have such horrible side-effects that I  would have to stop taking them. Marijuana is the only thing I have found that handles my symptoms without making me feel worse. Unfortunately, I do not live in a state where medical marijuana is legal, nor am I particullarly near to a state where it is. I am hopeful that one day that will change.



I know strictly for myself, I have made it a personal policy not to play when I have indulged in several alcoholic beverages and/or smokeables. I know from past experience that when I am under the influence, my perceptions and my judgments are badly skewed and my inhibitions are reduced to nil, which means I am too willing to take unnecessary risks which could have harmful repercussions to my physical safety. I also am fully aware that my tolerance to smokeables is very low thus it doesn't take much before I feel the effects and these efeects hit me harder than a person who's a recreational toker.




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