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Lockit -> RE: Dominant women (6/19/2009 2:48:46 AM)

I know my life would have been easier in many ways had I not gone against the typical, in my family and throughout life in many area's, like in career even.  I will never forget when I worked toward social change and what I had to face in the professional men not liking taking orders from me or when I didn't take sexual harassments at work or when I had to fight the guys all through my younger years and prove I could hit a ball farther, every time... or run faster, play harder and better.  I remember my first dominance at age four when I ran my classmates and certain boys followed me around all afternoon.  They liked me, I wasn't a bully.

But the day I had to face my dad and my step father with my very unladylike nature, knowing I was right and they were wrong and I wasn't backing down... made me shake inside, but I was not backing down.  It nearly cost me my life with my father.  I would not accept his treatment of me forcing me to submit to his sick way of treating women.  A black eye, crooked nose and choke marks on my neck from his hands when he very nearly killed me, still wasn't enough to make me break.  I would not submit to anything I saw as wrong.

I ran my mother and family later on when she was a single mother and lost without a man.  I tried to do what the churches taught and submit to my husband.  Oh boy... that worked sort of... until he nearly had us bankrupt and in trouble and then I stood up and said no more.  We do it my way or no way.  I fixed everything, but I'm divorced, so you know his choice down the road.

While my other sister's stayed married and had securities I did not have and helps with family support, I went on my way without anything but myself and bunch of um's.  I created a career, a life and earned whatever respect I got.  I was happy and have always been happy even in the worst of times!  Because I was free.  Free to be who I was and free to live true to myself and no matter what it cost me... it was worth it!  And I have known some very wonderful men and love's and I wouldn't change any of it.  I like my world... it works for me.  It didn't work when I tried to submit.

I'm tired and most likely said too much... but I would like this young lady to see that dominance and submission can very well be a natural personality thing as well as conditioned or rather, refined, by other things. 




ShiftedJewel -> RE: Dominant women (6/19/2009 3:45:50 AM)


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ORIGINAL: darkangel6989


This girl is very confused so she decided to write about it and maybe just maybe get some responses. But this girl thinks she might anger some female dominants, hmmm W/we will see.

Did A/anyone ever notice how female dominates always have a front, the way they present themselves as “big”, their outfits, the leather, the front on how “dominant” they really are. It’s like you can’t really get to the core of who they really are. The thing is if you found out who they really were you’d find that females were made to be submissive to males. That is biologically speaking though, not what the world/ society has taught women. the world has taught women that they must be strong, independent, that being sexually attractive to a male is slutty (in a bad way), that submitting to males is wrong… that males must not show who they really are sexually. Everything about females identifies that she is made to please men. The way her body is made weaker than a male. the way her face is shaped, breasts, the body shape, her ass….. just everything, the way she is made in every way. females are NOT made equal to Males and that is a fact. When you try to prove differently you are grasping at straws that society has taught you not what is actually true biologically and what is truly in female’s human nature. A female once finding her true nature and is bound will find true happiness and bliss that she will not find anywhere else, and if she loses her bindings she will chase after them forever. a Male however will always fight those binds and run fast away from them once freed. i hate when people fight their basic human structure. i will never understand women domination and i am not meant to understand it because it is not right. End of story you can try to prove me wrong but you will be sharing with me what society has taught you.

~lynsie his slave~



Admittedly I haven't read all of the responses and I'll warn you up front, this is probably gonna be a long one.

Most of my life I have fought what society teaches. I don't believe that women are absolutely equal to men, I know for a fact that we aren't. Aside from the obvious, men are built differently then women, their muscles are formed and attached to the bones differently. Where a man can do a particular job for years with no problem, I've seen women do that same job on half days and in under a year they are suffering from Carpol Tunnel. Personally, I don't compete with men, it's apples and oranges. Men have their place in the world, they have their qualities and their aptitudes, so do women. Many jobs that are perfectly suited for women are done less effectively and productively then men and vice versa.

I am NOT a believer in womens lib, I love for a man to open my door, to come to my rescue when I need it (and sometimes when I don't!) and to take care of me. In the same respect, men need women (unless they are gay... yanno?) as much as women need men. But as far as women are built to please men? Naw.. don't think so. Seriously, just look around sometime. I've never met a man that would enjoy seeing every woman they know nekkid. In fact, quite the opposite! And really, if that's the case then perhaps you should take a good long look at a mans body. The musculature, the rippling flesh, the tight buttocks, firm chest (ok, so it's a fantasy), the amazingly perfect way their genitalia fits ours... Gosh, it's almost like they were built specifically for our pleasure!!

There is a serious flaw in your logic, it could easily be turned completely around. If you want to rebel against what society teaches that's wonderful, but please, for those of us that really do... do it intelligently. For hundreds and hundreds of years society has taught that women are the weaker gender, that we are here solely for man's pleasure and we need to be led around and told what to do because we are soooo helpless. Do you honestly think you are saying something new? Nope darlin', you are just spouting the same thing that society has been saying forever. It's really unimpressive to have someone come here and tell us how we are all victims of society and then spout all the crap you are preaching against, hell, anyone can do that. In fact, I'm pretty sure they do it on a regular basis!! You've just joined one huge fucking crowd!!

Instead of worrying about equality or whom is supposed to bow to who, how about wrapping your head around something totally different? Like... Men and women are totally different and equally important. Society has long tried to force gender rolls, whether it was the "Women should be submissive to men" or the womens movement where they say "Men should be submissive to women". The reality is society should get the fuck out of our bedrooms and let every individual do what suits them best. What a concept huh?

So spout on hon, enjoy the hell outta yourself and all that happy crap, just please, in the future, know from wherest thou speak.

Jewel




sirsholly -> RE: Dominant women (6/19/2009 3:56:31 AM)

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ORIGINAL: Asherdelampyr

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ORIGINAL: Vendaval

And there is this bit of HNG bliss on her profile,

"i trust my Master in such a way that there is no limits with him no safe word, pure communication is what builds this relationship. To be bound by him, to have no worries to exist for him is pure bless and i wouldn’t want it any other way. i’m here for friends that’s all, DO NOT MESSAGE ME FOR MORE THEN THAT."


Hey I have never needed a safe word during cybersex either, unless I really had to pee :P

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ZenDragoness -> RE: Dominant women (6/19/2009 4:00:13 AM)

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Bring it on....


And now we now the reason for the posts. The both of you were bored.




ZenDragoness -> RE: Dominant women (6/19/2009 4:02:14 AM)

You are not by any chance a gorean?




ZenDragoness -> RE: Dominant women (6/19/2009 4:04:27 AM)

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Oh I dunno....could be for the same reason that women cry over cramps.


I never cried because i had cramps and i did not know that it was a requisite for being female.




ZenDragoness -> RE: Dominant women (6/19/2009 4:06:44 AM)

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bizarre


And i thought that is the right place for bizarre topics? [:)]




sirsholly -> RE: Dominant women (6/19/2009 4:06:45 AM)

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ORIGINAL: Orlando2801


For those of you who feel that I, her Master, put her up to this, I invite you to write to me directly so we can discuss the matter in private. I don't walk away from any challenge, so I welcome all comers. Bring it on....

the cyber master wants to engage in a cyber fistfight?

[sm=slappy.gif]





Asherdelampyr -> RE: Dominant women (6/19/2009 4:12:10 AM)

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ORIGINAL: sirsholly

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ORIGINAL: Orlando2801


For those of you who feel that I, her Master, put her up to this, I invite you to write to me directly so we can discuss the matter in private. I don't walk away from any challenge, so I welcome all comers. Bring it on....

the cyber master wants to engage in a cyber fistfight?

[sm=slappy.gif]




His Dom Fu is weak, my Dom Fu is stronger! HiYa!




sirsholly -> RE: Dominant women (6/19/2009 4:13:36 AM)

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HiYa!
hello




Asherdelampyr -> RE: Dominant women (6/19/2009 4:18:29 AM)

nonono holly, HiYa is what ninjas say ((Though I do find it odd that a stealthy assasin will have a battlecry, especially one for an attack that is supposed to be sneaky :P))




sirsholly -> RE: Dominant women (6/19/2009 4:20:04 AM)

oh




VelvetCruelty -> RE: Dominant women (6/19/2009 4:40:58 AM)

Is it post without a clue week?

Between the curvy women, the not a twue dom or sub if you are a switch AND this particular thread......?

I am starting to think they should all be under 'polls and random stupidity' until further notice!

Now, who needs a spanking? I have to make sure I'm still sadistic AND dominant? [:D]




thishereboi -> RE: Dominant women (6/19/2009 4:46:06 AM)

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ORIGINAL: darkangel6989


This girl is very confused
Yes you are and your posts just proves that.


. End of story you can try to prove me wrong but you will be sharing with me what society has taught you.
Why would I waste my time trying to convince you of anything. Your 20 and you obviously know everything there is to know about life. I will just wait about 10 years and you will hopefully grow up all on your own. You will be amazed at the things you find out you don't really know.

~lynsie his slave~




thishereboi -> RE: Dominant women (6/19/2009 4:51:11 AM)

That does sound good. I have a question though. In the recipe you state "no olive oil"

Why not? Is it a taste thing or will it screw up the recipe?




thishereboi -> RE: Dominant women (6/19/2009 5:01:23 AM)

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ORIGINAL: Orlando2801

Steel,

If you take issue with my statement, why don't you bother to reply to me directly instead of in the general forum, as I mentioned?
You posted in the forums. When you do this you have to expect people to reply to your posts. Simple really.


I do encourage her to express her opinions. I own her, so I have that right. Perhaps you prefer your slave to simply parrot what you tell her?

Actions do have consequences, and for you to assume that I wish to protect her from the consequences of her actions is false. If she says or does something I disagree with, that is for me to deal with, nobody else.
If she starts a thread, she is going to get replies. They will not always be nice or agree with what she is saying. It's all part of the great internet experience. How you deal with her in your own personal life is your business but don't expect anyone to ignore her when she posts on here.

Here's some friendly advice for you: I have many more years in the lifestyle than you do, so I recommend you tread lightly when trying to tell another Master how to handle his slave.
Yes I perved your profile and saw your long list of "experts", it doesn't mean squat to me. Although I am kinda curious as to how your can be an expert at movies? Does this mean you know how to sit quietly and not spill your popcorn?
 
Again this is the internet. People are going to give their opinions. Learn to deal with it.






thishereboi -> RE: Dominant women (6/19/2009 5:10:19 AM)

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ORIGINAL: darkangel6989

This girls is going to speak now.... i'm sorry not for the content but the way i said it. The reason for my posting was to find out why females feel the way they do. i said i was confused in the beginning over this and yes i said some things wrong. i do believe what i said and so do allot of people that i've talked to. the thing is i have not gotten one reply to my post that has meaning to it, just a mere way of putting me down for my beliefs…. none of you have given me any reason to gain any information in way what so ever. i don’t understand that in the least… maybe i’ll get clearer and less attacking posts, i’m not sure though because the content on CM seems to be lacking… i have met some very interesting and amazing people but they have been few and far between… hmmm this girl will continue to think on this one…


~lynsie His slave~


Wow, you shared your wisdom and no one agreed with you. Imagine that. Maybe you should sit back and think about why NO ONE has agreed with you yet. Maybe it's because your idea of women is scewed and maybe, just maybe your wrong about something. Go ahead, think about that.




GYPZYQUEEN -> RE: Dominant women (6/19/2009 5:13:45 AM)

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ORIGINAL: thishereboi

That does sound good. I have a question though. In the recipe you state "no olive oil"

Why not? Is it a taste thing or will it screw up the recipe?


O. oil makes the biscuits very flat....
 
When will they be ready?? shall I book a flight
and bring my submissive jam...?
GQ




thishereboi -> RE: Dominant women (6/19/2009 5:18:38 AM)

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ORIGINAL: GYPZYQUEEN

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ORIGINAL: thishereboi

That does sound good. I have a question though. In the recipe you state "no olive oil"

Why not? Is it a taste thing or will it screw up the recipe?


O. oil makes the biscuits very flat....
 
Thanks, that is good to know.

 
When will they be ready?? shall I book a flight
and bring my submissive jam...?
GQ
 
Ready when you are. Does submissive jam spread easily?





Apocalypso -> RE: Dominant women (6/19/2009 5:25:10 AM)

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ORIGINAL: darkangel6989
i'm sorry not for the content but the way i said it.
Without supporting data for your theorem?  And with a seeming inability to understand the difference between assertion and argument?

Yeah.  I'm sorry about that as well.




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