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RE: Rudeness - 2/17/2006 3:36:58 PM   
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ORIGINAL: Wulfchyld

*True Fear*

*Without trepidation she submitted to his commands. Understanding she is a submissive she gave herself to his will. The private scene, with not another soul aware of, escalated. Yellow she cried and his cruel laughter filled the air as she struggled against her bonds. Red she cried as his sadistic strokes turned to brutality with the paddles edge. She cried for help but none could hear.
“You will go to jail!” She told him.
“None shall know. Like a good little sub you told none of your whereabouts.” He laughed cruelly.
“I will report you, you bastard!”
He drew from his dark robe a vicious knife. He reveled in her pain as he slowly dismembered her. He scatters her across a hundred miles and returning home her lit a cigarette, opened a beer, and logged on looking for the next. *
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Okay, I am not leaving the house.

This thread is getting weird.

Cloudboy - what was the constructive critism thing about?

I am confused.

Best,

LaMalinche

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RE: Rudeness - 2/17/2006 5:28:23 PM   
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ORIGINAL: MistressOfGa


Well damn, this should scare the shit out of anyone who reads it. If it doesnt, then the next time you meet someone you think you can trust, without the safety net of a safe call in place, then you may be the next one that he just logged on to find.


Exactly MoGa. Be SAFE everyone.

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RE: Rudeness - 2/17/2006 8:26:18 PM   
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flying fruitbat

IronBear


i love how You write, but am still awaiting a def of "stoning bloody crows", please.

<Needs Auusie to US dictionary>

o hey; figured out thumbnails!

delectable pink





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RE: Rudeness - 2/17/2006 9:30:55 PM   
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Why do many Doms continue to think that subs have no needs, wants or rights? I will never understand that.



Then let me explain it to you... Because those that think this way ARE NOT "DOMS", but rather pussy 'nilla dudes that can't handle a strong, independent, thinking 'nilla woman, so they come to kink sites like CollarMe, check a box that states they are a "Dom" and then proceed with the "On your knees bitch... You will service me..." bullshit because they see "submissive" as a character weakness instead of a lifestyle choice/need.

Hope that helps.

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RE: Rudeness - 2/17/2006 9:38:55 PM   
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you mean, like the email i received today at 3:42PM which stated as follows:

You will obey me soon. look at this (undisclosed URL site addy)

i replied at 3:58PM with:

fascinating. and what brought You to this conclusion, "Ma'am"?

LOL

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RE: Rudeness - 2/17/2006 10:40:30 PM   
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ORIGINAL: MistressOfGa

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"SHE IS NOT IN CHARGE"

She may not be in charge completely, but yes she does have a certain amount of say until such time she submits to you.
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"SHE DOES NOT TELL A DOMINANT THE WAY ITS GOING TO BE"


Oh yes she does. That is her right in the negotiation stage. If he doesnt like it, he can move along. But most definitely she does have the right to tell anyone how it is going to be, when it effects her life.
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SHE IS NOT A DOORMAT

You got that right.



i totally disagree with this!

in the neg stage no one has the right to tell either the way it is going to be and no one has say.
Both discuss how they would like to be and see if they bend enough to fullfil each others needs and desires as a whole.


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ORIGINAL: KatyLied

Why do many Doms continue to think that subs have no needs, wants or rights? I will never understand that.

Dom(mes)

selfcentered, selfishness! inconsiderate


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ORIGINAL: SimplyV
I think you misunderstand why I was laughing. I love MoGA. She's so great at handing idiots their balls. I swear.. she's my idol.

When I grow up.. I wanna be just like her.

As for the "True Dominant".. yes.. keep that pepper spray handy. You'll probably need it.


HI expectations!

dont break your neck looking up!

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ORIGINAL: HarleyBeauty
that it would go off on the type of tangent and get into personal spitting match for some that it did.

Even down to the basic common courtesy and respect,
one would give a stanger they see on the street. I think because they are unseen here, they believe that mistreatment of people in general is acceptable.


Tangents? On here?

Hmm careful, or the chain gang clique will take you out next! On the bright side its not that way on all forums tho.

i have found in meeting people who do not understand or practice common courtesy online are way worse in person.

Just listen to them cackle and give each other kudos for winning the who can be the biggest horses ass contest.

Courtesy in this little clique on here is only extended to those who run with the pack. If you have a differing opinion or approach a subject from a different view point than they do you will be ridiculed as this man was.

Note how the tones changed when he posted after that things turned down right UGLY! and who started it? why the chain gang clique who else!



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ORIGINAL: ItsTimeBendOver
So much hatred and anger pointed toward Dominants. So much hatred and anger pointed toward men. I will not respond with hate and anger no matter how much you berate, defame, question who I am, question how I feel, question what I know, question what my goals are, nor question my motivations.


ITB you like so many other newcomers to this forum are a victim of the chain gang clique. Its the same few that go around and basically attack anyone who does not see domination/submission in the same light they do. Hell as you can see they are so narrow that they were not able to figure out how you meant the word "love" when you used it.

To stand your ground and make a point regardless of correctness will go unoticed as these people wear blinders and unfortunately it is they who have become an institution here.

My advice would be do not hang around and stand your ground as i choose to do. Move on to a forum that is not so narrow and closed minded and has people that can actually understand what you are saying rather than going off on you half cocked and foaming at the mouths like rabid dogs
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there are many bdsm forums on the net. just do a quick search.

it unfortunate harley gurl that it has happened to you. There are several threads a week regarding it and that little clique on here does everything in their power to perpetuate it into eternity.

Like sense courtesy is NOT common!

The best thing to do it to rewrite your profile when you are calm because it is tough to attract someone when you are angy.

You also need to remember that there are as many levels of submission as there are submissives. There are NO right ways, there are only right ways for you.

The object is not to match what anyone here tells you but to match your partner, as they are the only one that counts.

i would suggest, just relax, maybe take a break from it a bit, come back and rewrite your profile in a more gentle tone. you can be extremely firm if not rigid with a whisper.

Then think of it from the bright side, it takes them a lot longer to write than it does for you to delete!

and ITB never bring a knife to gun fight!

good luck to both of you



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RE: Rudeness - 2/17/2006 10:59:06 PM   
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Just listen to them cackle and give each other kudos for winning the who can be the biggest horses ass contest.


if this is the case, (pardon me for saying this) you would deffinately when the prize...

of course, the beauty of this site is that it's a safe place to meet...nobody has to worry about actually getting together in real life, not many real scenes will take place and few will actually get physically hurt, because in most areas, people seem to seek someone miles away instead of finding someone locally. protects the anonymity of the individual.

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RE: Rudeness - 2/17/2006 11:51:30 PM   
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ORIGINAL: michaelGA

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Just listen to them cackle and give each other kudos for winning the who can be the biggest horses ass contest.


if this is the case, (pardon me for saying this) you would deffinately when the prize...

of course, the beauty of this site is that it's a safe place to meet...nobody has to worry about actually getting together in real life, not many real scenes will take place and few will actually get physically hurt, because in most areas, people seem to seek someone miles away instead of finding someone locally. protects the anonymity of the individual.


i can think of a few here who have a "proven unbeatable" track record.

cant even claim a silver so far but i am learning

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RE: Rudeness - 2/18/2006 9:12:46 AM   
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ORIGINAL: Real0ne


quote:

ORIGINAL: HarleyBeauty

so what is it that compels people to write nasty emails to a person when they don't like their profile. I changed mine recently because I was tired of the Wanna Bee Masters, and the bull. So I was very straight forward about what I think (hummm a sub with a mind too, what a concept) sorry tangent there, what I want and what i need. I keep getting emails in the bulk folder from Men (?) saying that I am a "bitch". When I try to email them back, they are blocked. Seems rightly chicken to me.


i tried to cover the highlights of your profile and if i missed anything it should be pretty easy to stuff it in there somewhere.

i was thinking it may be in the manner in which you present yourself so i took what you said and sort of edited for you. try it and see if this makes a difference.

i am a huge rudeness opponent and have a zillion posts regarding it. good luck to you! r1


serious only please, and i am not interested in married men, cyber, couples, sadists, or those who only want a doormat or their main interest is in sex.

i am seeking my one partner and companion over the age of 45, someone firm and strong willed with his own life under control, someone who is solvent, and who deires a 24/7 relationship.

i am not a big tv fan, love to ride and listen to nonstop music all day, love politics, law and construction too!

i am a sub with a full range personality and i can be bratty at times so a man with a strong constitution is ideal, and you can always count on my honesty and candor in all things.

some things i hope my partner will also enjoy are: add the list on the bottom of your profile.






RealOne: As I can not find you to email you directly: I would like your permission to use part of your rewrite to change my profile some. Please let me know if this is acceptable to you. I will not use any of your rewrite without your permission. Thank you

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RE: Rudeness - 2/18/2006 9:28:56 AM   
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i'm sure many here will agree that you take the gold on this issue

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RE: Rudeness - 2/18/2006 9:37:31 AM   
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ORIGINAL: michaelGA

i'm sure many here will agree that you take the gold on this issue



Thank you Micheal, it is really difficult to complain of others rudeness, if you are a practicer yourself. See I am not such a hard bitch after all. (Smiles, grins and gigles) Again, thank you. W

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RE: Rudeness - 2/18/2006 2:21:46 PM   
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ORIGINAL: HarleyBeauty
RealOne: As I can not find you to email you directly: I would like your permission to use part of your rewrite to change my profile some. Please let me know if this is acceptable to you. I will not use any of your rewrite without your permission. Thank you


i apologize for the email thing not working. i am not sure why, i should look into that one of these days.

Of course use whatever suits your taste. i am honored that you have found some of my words useful.

feel free to copy it verbatim if you like, and remember you will still get these guys ok, but they as well as all other illegitimate emails are a simple delete for you.

you will find someone who matches you if you are persistant and stick with it.

good luck to you!
r1


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RE: Rudeness - 2/18/2006 3:35:59 PM   
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I don't think a sub should correspond with a Dom/Domme on CM unless the Dom/Domme posts on the message boards. Right Doms/Dommes? How do you do that laugh Curly used to do?

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RE: Rudeness - 2/18/2006 4:03:35 PM   
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nyuck nyuck nyuck nyuck

"oh, a wise-ass...whooob whoob whooob."



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RE: Rudeness - 2/18/2006 4:18:54 PM   
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ORIGINAL: michaelGA

nyuck nyuck nyuck nyuck

"oh, a wise-ass...whooob whoob whooob."




LOL....You got it.

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RE: Rudeness - 3/3/2006 7:19:01 AM   
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Very well said, on all counts, GoddessDustyGold.

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RE: Rudeness - 3/3/2006 7:28:03 AM   
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ORIGINAL: GoddessDustyGold

I understand your frustration, and I don't believe you should be receiving unsolicited, nasty emails anyway. It just shows immaturity on the part of the sender.
But, in all fairness, as a Domina, if you were a submissive boy, you would be labeled as "do me, do me". There has been a thread or two on these boards which claim that the boys are given a hard time, while the girls get lots of petting and understanding.
It is not only that you have a big list of reasons for "do not contact me" at the beginning of your profile, but even as you move on, your profile sounds like it is dictating what the Domiant must be willing to provide for you. It just doesn't sound very submissive.
I repeat, this doesn't justify the nasty emails. But it might justify a lack of interest in trying to get to know you in the first place. So maybe little to no email? Of course, I don't really know what else you get in your box. Seems I have heard that if you are female, on either side of the whip, the emails flood in.
Profiles are hard to write, and it is not easy to come across the way you feel best represents you. Right now you sound angry. There are ways to be firm without sounding like you are ready to slug someone in the face.
Hoping you don't feel like I am stepping on toes here...Good luck.


Oops.......might help if I include the quote I was praising lol.....and this is my first time here, looks like a nice spot.

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RE: Rudeness - 3/3/2006 11:57:12 AM   
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If you want to be thought a bitch/asshole, post rashly. Remember those tend to remain alone.


Agreed but don't forget that some non arseholes/bitches also prefer to remain alone or have very limited contact with people generally. (In many cases their prefered isolation gives them a sort of immunity from the perceptions and comments of others. It isn't that they deliberately set out to upset people, thet just don't give a flying fruitbat what others think and in doing so, they remain true to themselves, which is important).



Well said about being true to one's self.

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RE: Rudeness - 3/3/2006 12:11:13 PM   
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so what is it that compels people to write nasty emails to a person when they don't like their profile. I changed mine recently because I was tired of the Wanna Bee Masters, and the bull. So I was very straight forward about what I think (hummm a sub with a mind too, what a concept) sorry tangent there, what I want and what i need. I keep getting emails in the bulk folder from Men (?) saying that I am a "bitch". When I try to email them back, they are blocked. Seems rightly chicken to me.


Clearly these aren't people you would be interested in, so why do you care?

K

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RE: Rudeness - 3/3/2006 12:17:37 PM   
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*looks for an icon of hands clapping* .......grins........Very well stated.....there are evil cliques anywhere you go I think...have seen a number of them at alt dot etc etc doing the same thing, ripping to pieces folks who had the nerve to disagree with them....self-importance colliding with self-esteem issues combusting all to hell and back....

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To master oneself is to be strong."

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