Real0ne
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ORIGINAL: MistressOfGa quote:
"SHE IS NOT IN CHARGE" She may not be in charge completely, but yes she does have a certain amount of say until such time she submits to you. quote:
"SHE DOES NOT TELL A DOMINANT THE WAY ITS GOING TO BE" Oh yes she does. That is her right in the negotiation stage. If he doesnt like it, he can move along. But most definitely she does have the right to tell anyone how it is going to be, when it effects her life. quote:
SHE IS NOT A DOORMAT You got that right. i totally disagree with this! in the neg stage no one has the right to tell either the way it is going to be and no one has say. Both discuss how they would like to be and see if they bend enough to fullfil each others needs and desires as a whole. quote:
ORIGINAL: KatyLied Why do many Doms continue to think that subs have no needs, wants or rights? I will never understand that. Dom(mes) selfcentered, selfishness! inconsiderate quote:
ORIGINAL: SimplyV I think you misunderstand why I was laughing. I love MoGA. She's so great at handing idiots their balls. I swear.. she's my idol. When I grow up.. I wanna be just like her. As for the "True Dominant".. yes.. keep that pepper spray handy. You'll probably need it. HI expectations! dont break your neck looking up! quote:
ORIGINAL: HarleyBeauty that it would go off on the type of tangent and get into personal spitting match for some that it did. Even down to the basic common courtesy and respect, one would give a stanger they see on the street. I think because they are unseen here, they believe that mistreatment of people in general is acceptable. Tangents? On here? Hmm careful, or the chain gang clique will take you out next! On the bright side its not that way on all forums tho. i have found in meeting people who do not understand or practice common courtesy online are way worse in person. Just listen to them cackle and give each other kudos for winning the who can be the biggest horses ass contest. Courtesy in this little clique on here is only extended to those who run with the pack. If you have a differing opinion or approach a subject from a different view point than they do you will be ridiculed as this man was. Note how the tones changed when he posted after that things turned down right UGLY! and who started it? why the chain gang clique who else! quote:
ORIGINAL: ItsTimeBendOver So much hatred and anger pointed toward Dominants. So much hatred and anger pointed toward men. I will not respond with hate and anger no matter how much you berate, defame, question who I am, question how I feel, question what I know, question what my goals are, nor question my motivations. ITB you like so many other newcomers to this forum are a victim of the chain gang clique. Its the same few that go around and basically attack anyone who does not see domination/submission in the same light they do. Hell as you can see they are so narrow that they were not able to figure out how you meant the word "love" when you used it. To stand your ground and make a point regardless of correctness will go unoticed as these people wear blinders and unfortunately it is they who have become an institution here. My advice would be do not hang around and stand your ground as i choose to do. Move on to a forum that is not so narrow and closed minded and has people that can actually understand what you are saying rather than going off on you half cocked and foaming at the mouths like rabid dogs . there are many bdsm forums on the net. just do a quick search. it unfortunate harley gurl that it has happened to you. There are several threads a week regarding it and that little clique on here does everything in their power to perpetuate it into eternity. Like sense courtesy is NOT common! The best thing to do it to rewrite your profile when you are calm because it is tough to attract someone when you are angy. You also need to remember that there are as many levels of submission as there are submissives. There are NO right ways, there are only right ways for you. The object is not to match what anyone here tells you but to match your partner, as they are the only one that counts. i would suggest, just relax, maybe take a break from it a bit, come back and rewrite your profile in a more gentle tone. you can be extremely firm if not rigid with a whisper. Then think of it from the bright side, it takes them a lot longer to write than it does for you to delete! and ITB never bring a knife to gun fight! good luck to both of you
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