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RE: Play ideas for my new submissive female masochist? - 2/20/2006 3:13:24 AM

brightspot

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I have just collared a new submissive female masochist, and I don't have much experience in inflicting pain for pleasure. Can some of you help me decide what type of play would be best for starting off with her?

Just wonder about a couple things...
How long have you known her before you collared her?
Do you both speak the same laugauge?

If so have you both communicated with each other, even the basic of needs and wants?
Try the art of conversation, most appropriately before any collaring

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RE: Play ideas for my new submissive female masochist? - 2/20/2006 7:52:45 AM

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ORIGINAL: MHOO314

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ORIGINAL: truesub4u

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ORIGINAL: xxblushesxx

"Beat me, hurt me" said the masochist "No" replied the sadist...

Damn... now that is a true sadist... LOL

Tie her to a tree, then beat the tree--sadism at its best.

LoL,,,,,Such sadists,,,,,,I love it,,,,,

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RE: Play ideas for my new submissive female masochist? - 2/20/2006 11:49:06 AM

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MissTess,

Unfortunately for me it is true, this is the first submissive that needs pain. All the others just wanted to be dominated with little pain. thanks for the advice.

MJ

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RE: Play ideas for my new submissive female masochist? - 2/20/2006 11:50:30 AM

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no problem, thanks for the good luck.

MJ

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RE: Play ideas for my new submissive female masochist? - 2/20/2006 11:54:22 AM

MasterJones

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Brightspot,

Just met on this site about 2 weeks ago, she and I have had some discussions via the telephone the other day, and had some good insight as to her needs and desires. I agree with you conversation is critical and I will continue to have these conversations to determine my training methods. Thank you for all advice on training methods with new submissives who do enjoy pain.

MJ

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RE: Play ideas for my new submissive female masochist? - 2/20/2006 12:01:45 PM

MasterJones

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Jasmyn

Thank you so much, I have now had some brief discussions with her and she has some varied experience in the following areas: spanking, whips, flogging, clamps, cutting, bondage ( only limited), and gages. She is not interested in needle play or fire play, but either am I, so that works.

Knowing the above, from her perspective, I think I will work on her in each of the aforementioned areas to see what her limits may be, and in order to push her to higher limits.

Thank you for the advice, and if you can think of others types of play, please let me know.

MJ

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