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RE: Back and f####### confused - 7/11/2009 11:46:52 PM

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I Only Appoint NZ Points to you As it would be Arrogant to apply them to yourself.

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This way I can keep my facade of humility.

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RE: Back and f####### confused - 7/11/2009 11:47:46 PM

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and we thought a sub would respond but............

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RE: Back and f####### confused - 7/11/2009 11:50:45 PM

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Damn, day one and not one of those smart mouthed, demanding humanoids is responding. Go figure...

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RE: Back and f####### confused - 7/11/2009 11:53:13 PM

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and we thought a sub would respond but............

They would if it weren't for the airborne contagion of the faceless polka-dotted hybrid gnome-giraffes of Yngwhieu that migrated through the 65801.00339.3-88 alternate universe wormhole.

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RE: Back and f####### confused - 7/11/2009 11:53:23 PM

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Awwww, the good little s-types aren't responding to the masterful call of the wild of the OP's caps lock key . .. . . Damn, damn, damn, I'm feeling so much sympathy right now . . . . . . . .

Where's the FuckBot 3000 when it's really needed?

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RE: Back and f####### confused - 7/11/2009 11:55:24 PM

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you are missing the point. . we are not looking for a relationship. we are not looking to take someone in . we are looking for someone who just wants play . He has a submissive and that is me . we do not need to bond or braid each others hair at all . and to think that we see subs as non human or doormats is just assinine!!!! as someone previously stated there is a match for everyone . . and there are subs that have all thier needs met in life and seek play partners. am i speaking braile ? why can no one see this

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RE: Back and f####### confused - 7/11/2009 11:57:12 PM

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Now make up your mind. You said you were tired of the submissive's that only wanted to play and now you say you just want one for play.

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RE: Back and f####### confused - 7/11/2009 11:58:15 PM

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am i speaking braile ? why can no one see this

Because you can't speak braille. And if you are writing to the people who need it, they can't "see this" anyway.

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RE: Back and f####### confused - 7/11/2009 11:58:40 PM

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My issue is not with what you are looking for but how you have presented the nature submission and lumped the submissives of CollarMe in one pile.

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RE: Back and f####### confused - 7/12/2009 12:01:08 AM

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i dont see your path . nor do i want to ... u speak as if finding a sub is a life long journey. why cant someone just have play partners? there are people out there who are not sitting by there computers ar 159am on a sat night when they could be out having a life with real people . and yes we are on but because you cant and wont see another side . we ARE NOT saying subs are doormats ... we are saying that i know that a woman exists that only wants play

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RE: Back and f####### confused - 7/12/2009 12:02:55 AM

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accountabillity. that is what He wants and me to. . we had issues in the past with subs with attitudes , coming in as " oh im a sub ... all i want is play ...blah blah " when that was not the fact at all . what He and i have a problem with is having all the "rules" told to us . our profile is set the way it is for a reason . we offer no commitment .. we applaud the profiles that are honest . if you are looking for a mate then say so ... sliding in the back door will only get you a verrrrrrry sore face ( or ass , whichever part of the door that you hit) lol

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RE: Back and f####### confused - 7/12/2009 12:03:19 AM

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we didnt lump anyone together... the responses did. we mearly stated that the profiles that we saw were quite demanding ...thats all

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RE: Back and f####### confused - 7/12/2009 12:05:01 AM

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if you are going to be a condesending ass ...well you are there ...... sarcasim , see it , get it ..... blah blah

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RE: Back and f####### confused - 7/12/2009 12:08:25 AM

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More straw-man arguments. & more demonstration of an inability to listen & hear -- perhaps your inability to hear is getting in the way of your ability to say . . . . . lol . . . . Jus' sayin' . . . .

In the parlance you're looking for a Hot-Bi-Babe for a casual hook-up, a BDSM fuck-buddy . . . . . . You, & a million others, so what do you have to offer? Other than poor impulse control & a hot temper? & that obvious deficiency in listening to disagreeable feedback? & that expectation that subs should just put up or shut up, & then get on down the road?

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you are missing the point. . we are not looking for a relationship. we are not looking to take someone in . we are looking for someone who just wants play . He has a submissive and that is me . we do not need to bond or braid each others hair at all . and to think that we see subs as non human or doormats is just assinine!!!! as someone previously stated there is a match for everyone . . and there are subs that have all thier needs met in life and seek play partners. am i speaking braile ? why can no one see this

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RE: Back and f####### confused - 7/12/2009 12:08:32 AM

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Me and my wife have just got back on to collarme . We were off for a while taking a break and we looked through the profiles and apparently subs,slaves and Dominants have lost thier self described "roles". I see so many profiles from slaves that say I,I,I,I in a very demanding way . This is true with the sub sites that I have seen . I do realize that all is consentual and I wouldnt have it any other way , but, to enter in already demanding is ridiculous . Call it like it is . If you are a sub then you are a sub, same goes for slaves . It seems that these women are choosing "when and where" they will be submissive . And only if all of thier demands have been met. So if you are confused then consult the dictionary on the meaning of the words that you choose . ( i.e. I can see a lot of things hitting the "fan " so to speak.

I'd say the fan was hit. One question for you. How does one lose their self discribed roles? It seems that is your major complaint... that they don't fit your discription.

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RE: Back and f####### confused - 7/12/2009 12:09:33 AM

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Me and my wife have just got back on to collarme . We were off for a while taking a break and we looked through the profiles and apparently subs,slaves and Dominants have lost thier self described "roles". I see so many profiles from slaves that say I,I,I,I in a very demanding way . This is true with the sub sites that I have seen . I do realize that all is consentual and I wouldnt have it any other way , but, to enter in already demanding is ridiculous . Call it like it is . If you are a sub then you are a sub, same goes for slaves . It seems that these women are choosing "when and where" they will be submissive . And only if all of thier demands have been met. So if you are confused then consult the dictionary on the meaning of the words that you choose . ( i.e. I can see a lot of things hitting the "fan " so to speak.

They are choosing where and when they will submit because they can! Not everyone does BDSM the way yall do.

Just because I am a submissive doesnt mean that I am gonna drop to my knees to the first person that pops into my box. I have some needs and wants that I want met, just as I am sure everyone else on this site does, so why is that so wrong?

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RE: Back and f####### confused - 7/12/2009 12:10:31 AM

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we didnt lump anyone together... the responses did. we mearly stated that the profiles that we saw were quite demanding ...thats all

Okay...I'm going to give this another go more seriously on the presumption that you're not actually a troll account just looking to get a rise out of western hemisphere members on a late evening:

The entire point of finding a partner, particularly as a submissive, is to understand your wants and needs before jumping into a new commitment. That's precisely where a sub/slave should make parameters and preferences known because they are expected, once the commitment is made, to actually have a role of deference to their partner.

If subs/slaves, as you suggest, shouldn't have these wants/desires/needs, then presumably all us D-types should just wait by our computers like eBay last-minute snipers in order to race to be the first person to send a private message to a new sub/slave member on the site since, presumably, they should have no elements with which to discern one D-type as better or worse than the next.

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RE: Back and f####### confused - 7/12/2009 12:10:40 AM

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Subs and slaves have every right to say up front what they expect of a d/s relationship and from their dominant. I don't see this as demanding anything, I see it as honesty and if what I read does not suit me then I move on. I would rather know what is expected right away than begin communication and find out we don't have the same things in mind.

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RE: Back and f####### confused - 7/12/2009 12:13:00 AM

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i am tired and you people are as stubborn and hard headed as my children . crap !!! just so you can sleep tonight , no one here thinks that subs are doormats . we simply dont want a committment with anyone . He made a committment and it was to me . we are not poly or mormans . to extend a committment to another would be unfair and dishonest . we do not want anyone to quit thier lives to be part of ours ...why is that so freaking hard to swallow ???? when you go out to eat you look at the menu and decide what you will order ect ....you do not take the cook home .....

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RE: Back and f####### confused - 7/12/2009 12:14:27 AM

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There is no reason why even a slave should not list what items they seek, since the are consenting and in seeking are hoping to find a person who can fill the need they have.

I know that for me it is a sign that the sub/slave has enough understanding of their own hunger to know what they need. Being a slave even does not mean to be a worthless piece of poop. If you are looking for a complete mind dead slave then perhaps you should get a pet rock. That way you won't even have to take the time to consider it's feelings or needs. Plus they are easy to housebreak.

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